Sami, thank you for your post.
Seeing an independent is always an option but the experience is not the same as going to an amp, including the fact that many independents are less candid and playful (GFE) than you.
Guys go to amps for a number of reasons, including the ease of scheduling,ease of screening, the women are usually gorgeous (with many in your age range) and pretty much an AMP GFE experience is a given. Its a situation where if a guy wants to go he can and not have to worry about scheduling, a provider flaking out (not like you of course), and expected donations are clear (never a hassle re donations). Guys also like the "geisha" type treatment provided at amps.
Thank you again for posting Sami. Elizabeth sometimes posts here as well, so feel free to continue doing so. We can benefit from your perspective.