Walking out when the girl I wanted most is not available, how rude is it?

[cl794]

If I walk in and I don't like the girl that greeted me. I ask her if so-and-so is free right now. And she says no, so-and-so is busy. Can I just walk out? How awkward is this?

Sorry if this sounds dumb.

 

[HandyAndy]

If I walk in and I don't like the girl that greeted me. I ask her if so-and-so is free right now. And she says no, so-and-so is busy. Can I just walk out? How awkward is this?

Sorry if this sounds dumb.

Ymmv but so does hers. If you go to a bar and they don’t sell your brand of beer then it’s OK to walk out, so same here. If you feel bad you can leave a tip especially if she said no to another session to take yours…

 

[Dotanuki]

If I walk in and I don't like the girl that greeted me. I ask her if so-and-so is free right now. And she says no, so-and-so is busy. Can I just walk out? How awkward is this?

Sorry if this sounds dumb.

It's always how it's done. Done the right way there should be no issue

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[Bustanut]

If I walk in and I don't like the girl that greeted me. I ask her if so-and-so is free right now. And she says no, so-and-so is busy. Can I just walk out? How awkward is this?

Sorry if this sounds dumb.

Dude you have every right to walk out. Don’t let anyone force you to spend money on a hoe you don’t want to.

 

[Lv Wmn]

If I walk in and I don't like the girl that greeted me. I ask her if so-and-so is free right now. And she says no, so-and-so is busy. Can I just walk out? How awkward is this?

Sorry if this sounds dumb.

For sure you can walk out, be a better idea to call and book an appointment if there is someone you really want to see in my opinion but sometimes we can't plan ahead like that

 

[xtc27]

If u walked in, u can walk out. Be polite, smile, leave.

… they already forgot u b4 the door closed behind u…

If … old gals sometimes BEG u 2 stay… have a 2nd look… … would u stay if she offered bbbj? Cim ? Anal? Hmmm … then ask!

Likely she says no & stops begging…

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If u made an APPTMNT… uh oh … u made a date w a girl, sight unseen? it happens. Walking out now = a bit less cool. U might then offer some kinda tip.

 

[Gudetamaloco]

If I walk in and I don't like the girl that greeted me. I ask her if so-and-so is free right now. And she says no, so-and-so is busy. Can I just walk out? How awkward is this?

Sorry if this sounds dumb.

It's not dumb. Be assertive and ask for what you want, in a respectful way. If there's somebody there that you don't want to see, you don't have to, just bounce and be nice about it. You're paying money, you should get what you are looking for and if you don't, be a gentleman about it. As I have hobbied throughout the years, I've become more and more assertive but realizing that I still be a decent person about it. Just my two cents.

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[throwaway33]

They purposely make it awkward in an attempt to get you to walk out LOL. It's just part of the game. Always walk out if you don't like what you see, but at the same time be polite.

One of the best regular's I had many years ago was only introduced to me because I was walking out. She was new to the biz and wasn't on roster yet but the lady I was walking out on showed her to me as I was leaving. Ended up seeing her several more times before she disappeared.

 

[xtc27]

They purposely make it awkward in an attempt to get you to walk out LOL. It's just part of the game. Always walk out if you don't like what you see, but at the same time be polite.

One of the best regular's I had many years ago was only introduced to me because I was walking out. She was new to the biz and wasn't on roster yet but the lady I was walking out on showed her to me as I was leaving. Ended up seeing her several more times before she disappeared.

A place I became regular, I scouted it out several times b4 I stayed…

… I’m thinking, they’re gonna recognize me now & lock the door!

But no!

… still I’m thinking, they’re being polite , they remember…

Nope.

Once I left, they totally forgot me. Oh, if i made a scene or weird someway, ok, but be polite & leave … np.

… sometimes, u got no time 2 stay, just wanna check out sexy gals in lingerie, so u think yer just gonna stop , have a look, then leave… this = my plan

… xxxcep…

I stayed! Became a regular.

 

[ButtEnjoyer]

If I walk in and I don't like the girl that greeted me. I ask her if so-and-so is free right now. And she says no, so-and-so is busy. Can I just walk out? How awkward is this?

Sorry if this sounds dumb.

As others have said, if you don't like anybody available you can just be polite and leave, it's a business and several girls have a lot of regulars that only see them. This isn't any different than that, just an "okay thanks" and you're out the door. Don't feel obligated to stay and pay for a session with someone you don't want.

 

[c1000]

If I walk in and I don't like the girl that greeted me. I ask her if so-and-so is free right now. And she says no, so-and-so is busy. Can I just walk out? How awkward is this?

Sorry if this sounds dumb.

I usually say "OK let me thing about it." This way you are not saying No straight up in their face.

But sometimes I take the hit to build a rapport with the spa and because I feel bad too.

 

[daty869]

If you made an appointment and the girl you asked for greeted you - you should stay or leave a tip if you leave, if the girl you made an appointment with is not available, feel free to leave and say you’ll be back another day when she is available, if so simply walk in and she’s not available, you can walk out without any issue….
Always be nice, you might be surprised what kindness brings, even if she is not a attractive as the girl you wanted to meet….but your choice to leave as well….

 

[906influncer]

You’re good as long as you’re polite about it

 

[Filbrecht]

You’re good as long as you’re polite about it

The fact that he asked the question clearly indicates that he is painfully polite...

 

[Filbrecht]

If I walk in and I don't like the girl that greeted me. I ask her if so-and-so is free right now. And she says no, so-and-so is busy. Can I just walk out? How awkward is this?

Sorry if this sounds dumb.

It is pretty dumb, sorry for being blunt. The fact that you open that door does not indicate any form of commitment from you. Identical situation w any other service provider, like restaurants, hair salons, pet shops, etc.

 

[Mav]

Ive walked out much more than I have stayed.

As long as you do it politely... no foul

 

[sy barite]

I do it all the time. If they get angry, it's their problem. If I care who cuts my hair, I sure will care about who is providing a far more intimate service. Don't give it a second thought. Any provider who gives you are hard time about this is better forgotten.

 

[Spartan2020]

I never feel obligated to stay and frequently say thanks but no thanks and leave. But a few times I've stayed it's turned out to be really great. A couple of time the new person became my regular.

 

[Brewsky]

When I started, I use to say “nobody is attractive enough, I don’t want to stay”

Learned to be less rough around the edges, now I say “everyone you showed me made me hate women, I’ll leave now”

Kidding aside just a simple “ah ok, you know what maybe I’ll cum another time”

 

[8inchy]

If I walk in and I don't like the girl that greeted me. I ask her if so-and-so is free right now. And she says no, so-and-so is busy. Can I just walk out? How awkward is this?

Sorry if this sounds dumb.

Don't be rude. Just say thanks and that you will be back another time. I was hung up on this idea of being rude or feeling pressured. Don't blow the money on something you do not want. I think we make the mistake of being greeted and not wanting that person but feeling some social obligation or sexual imperative.