What’s the attraction?

[Deleted member 104420]

It’s funny, my gf and I were just having this conversation so this is timing!

When I was single I used MP’s for connection, which I never received, a couple Tantra experiences not withstanding.

In a long term relationship I find it is about thrill of something new, different and all about me. I loved someones comment about how I could do it myself, but why not get a professional haha! To be clear my gf knows about it so it isn’t a thrill of cheating or anything.

 

[bigbill]

My GF bangs all the young studs she wants and I get to have HE massages. Works out well, we both like a lot of variety.

 

[Albertaman]

And then in this massage hobbyist's world, you finally make that elusive connection that you always dreamt of, that essential two way touch and erotic exchange that you sought with that Asian milf, size 0. Then three months later, there you are, wearing out your tongue and lips doing all the hard work all over again, the honourable man you are


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[Shyman3]

Transactional convenience. Can typically be balls deep in a mouth or more within 30 minutes of wanting it

All about me

Love it

 

[Deleted member 94218]

I am single with no SO. ( My choice _)
I live alone. I sleep alone and I eat alone.
Humans need touch
To me there is nothing better than a naked lady crawling all over you.

100%, even if yer paying fer it

 

[Deleted member 94218]

Transactional convenience. Can typically be balls deep in a mouth or more within 30 minutes of wanting it

All about me

Love it

If ya think long and hard about the cost, how much did the wives and girlfriends cost you over the years and the bullshit you had to endure. These ladies give you pleasure, pretend they love you for an hour and give u release, doesn't get any better my opinion

 

[JacobB]

This may have been discussed on here before, but being relatively new I’m asking for your opinion.

Why am I so attracted and gladly paying for the middle aged woman who is far less attractive than who I’m dating at the time to give me a H.E?

I am young, have been with girlfriends who have high sex drives and very beautiful that would gladly give me more than a HJ onto my stomach.. but yet I will gladly pay $ for someone way less attractive to do the same thing?

I assume majority for the guys that do this are either married or in relationships? I am just trying to figure out why I have such a desire for this and why I’m choosing a 50 year old woman to service me for a money over my girlfriend at home.

Has anyone else wondered this?

It might be simply how there's no strings attached. You go in and a hour later your needs are met.
Where as with your GF, sure she might be more then willing to take care of you. But relationships take a lot of work, time, and energy.

After seeing the massage therapist you simply feel good. There's no drama later. No mess, no having to make the other person happy. It's hard if not impossible to resist. But I always had a bad habit of falling for high maintenance women. Maybe others have different experiences and reasons.

 

[luvsluvsmassage]

It might be simply how there's no strings attached. You go in and a hour later your needs are met.
Where as with your GF, sure she might be more then willing to take care of you. But relationships take a lot of work, time, and energy.

After seeing the massage therapist you simply feel good. There's no drama later. No mess, no having to make the other person happy. It's hard if not impossible to resist. But I always had a bad habit of falling for high maintenance women. Maybe others have different experiences and reasons.

oh, there’s a mess though …

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

For me it's partly coming to the realization that "Fuck I'm getting old!" and a bit of fear of losing the ability to have an orgasm, let alone "getting it up". Secondly, my wife and I used to have fantastic sex but it has waned over the years. Call me names but somehow a 200lb old lady doesn't do it for me the same way she did when she was 25 and 130 lb. I can't help but think a lot of the "ED pandemic" isn't so much guys can't get hard because of health reasons- it's because the wives have become sexually unappealing.

First time I can recall you mentioning you had a wife. Wow....200 lbs. Maybe you can get Massage Rook to seduce her. That would really spice things up for you. Unless, of course, he is only into the asian big girls...

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

LOL! I've had that since the day I had my vasectomy!!

Me too...about ten years now, of that dreaded condition.

 

[GuyIncognito]

It might be simply how there's no strings attached. You go in and a hour later your needs are met.
Where as with your GF, sure she might be more then willing to take care of you. But relationships take a lot of work, time, and energy.

After seeing the massage therapist you simply feel good. There's no drama later. No mess, no having to make the other person happy. It's hard if not impossible to resist. But I always had a bad habit of falling for high maintenance women. Maybe others have different experiences and reasons.

There’s no drama later if you make sure if it. A few providers tend to bring drama or guys start to fall in love with a girl… for me it’s all about getting pampered when paying for a service.

 

[getitdone]

for me there is a certain thrill chasing the hj from various women who claim they are professional and in the end are some of the freakiest women . it feels like they are submissive too me which is also fun. than you add in a great massage and tease and i have my self a pretty good 60-90 min

 

[Albertaman]

for me there is a certain thrill chasing the hj from various women who claim they are professional and in the end are some of the freakiest women . it feels like they are submissive too me which is also fun. than you add in a great massage and tease and i have my self a pretty good 60-90 min

Freakiest? Nah.. however, some are the smartest. Smart about creating accelerated cash flow. While most people may be calculating mortgage payments and the size of their down payments, some of these ladies are busy buying up properties, all cash. They have focus. Submissive, I doubt it


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