Just so you are clear about my opinion, I will try and clarify it for you. If a man has a yen for a stiff or limp dick, which does not belong to him, then in my books and many peoples book, he is either gay or bisexual, depending if he enjoys throwing the odd pussy into the mix.
I don't call anyone gay or bisexual and mean it as an insult, but just as a way of identifying their preference. To me it is the same as calling someone Irish, Italian and so forth in order to identify their culture.
On Sunday mornings I will be looking out my window and see well dressed people with small brief cases walking up and down the neighborhood door knocking. I look over at my wife and say "eh Rosa, don't answer the door, the Jehovah's Witnesses are coming again"! Is that label offensive too? It is what describes them quickly and effectively for me to get my message across. Nothing wrong with that in my book.
EDIT. Sorry Nikki, didn't see your last post, if you would like to drop it, be my guest, I am done too.