Question What is the perfect massage (for you)??

[Rubmegood]

So- A lot of discussion on what is a 'turn-off' and what is a 'turn-on' and YMMV etc. and this question may have been posed and discussed already. But what are the qualities of a service provider that keeps you going back for more? Guys rave about one girl or another or bitch about one or another, but if there was the perfect girl for you what would be her qualities? (And that would be beyond the "20 year old-busty-girl-that gives free fs and a great massage" fantasy that we all have!) Don't give specific examples as we all haven't experienced the same girls. If you have already found the perfect girl- what makes her perfect?

 

[Deleted member 72001]

Little bit bigger lady. Mature. Home massage.
Medium pressure, non greasy oils (hot). Up on the table. Full body massage. (More than the back, quick swipe of the legs, and the LG on the flip) same pressure front and back. Same coverage front and back. Undraped but it wouldn’t have to end ‘happy’
If it was to end with a smile, I would say slow and twisty. 95% of the ladies think fast is.....faster. Me? Turtle wins the race.
Possibly with a PM. (A mature provider would maybe know how to preform this correctly) then?.........something about Mary!!
Have I found her yet? Nope, but the search is fun.

 

[Spexx]

Without going into the whole sexual fantasy rabbit hole I’m sure this post will encourage, I’d say my need is comfort and friendship. Nothing is better than seeing a girl that as you walk in the door relaxes you and puts you at such ease that the next hour is without anticipation or anxiety.
Simply put a massage is about release! Release of tension, stress, muscle ailments, as well as the common release we seek.
If the first 40 minutes are awkward, the next 10 are rushed and mechanical, and the final 10 rushed out the door; I feel more wound up then when I entered.
The last gal I saw curled up next to me on the table after cleaning me up and we chatted for a good 10min. Now nothing else will compare.

 

[Rubmegood]

Don't give specific examples

That last comment reminded me of Mia from Labella

Please stick to the question. I don't really want this thread to go sideways comparing one SP to another (again).

 

[Deleted member 72001]

Please stick to the question. I don't really want this thread to go sideways comparing one SP to another (again).

Got it. Sorry bout that. Lost focus.
Deleted.

 

[Rubmegood]

Foolish me! It's customary when one posts a question like this to start off by answering your own question. So I will try to keep it succinct...

I guess the perfect SP would have to be at least fit (not heavy) and friendly and personable but not too chatty. Larger boobs, but not a real issue for me. I'm looking for a good medium massage to take some of the knots out of my back, neck and legs. I'm a big fan of teasing throughout the massage- almost to the point of pain (if you know what I mean...) Flirting and sensuality also are exciting. Like Rook says, "Slow and twisty" for a finish. Jackhammering is a total turn-off. Zero-ing in on the finish immediately after the flip is also a turn-off. Continue the massage and teasing before going for the finish.

 

[m694ever]

For me they have to be slim. Dont care for mommy tummies, and large up top is not a need either. I like talkative and enjoy interacting. I find mature better than youth. For massage I like soft and always have. I want to doze off for 15 minutes prior to some slow tease and reach under/around. Therapeutic is for my chiropractor to do. I love to be teased. On the flip I like total attention to the only part of me that matters. Topless or nude is bonus. I dont like routines so those that can mix it up get my repeat business in spades.

 

[Qster]

For me they have to be slim. Dont care for mommy tummies, and large up top is not a need either. I like talkative and enjoy interacting. I find mature better than youth. For massage I like soft and always have. I want to doze off for 15 minutes prior to some slow tease and reach under/around. Therapeutic is for my chiropractor to do. I love to be teased. On the flip I like total attention to the only part of me that matters. Topless or nude is bonus. I dont like routines so those that can mix it up get my repeat business in spades.

Except for the talkative part, I am almost 100% with m694ever, I like some friendly interaction up front, but she needs to know when to shut up and allow me to drift off and relax. I actually hate it when a lady talks for 60 min. straight. Otherwise, what m694ever described is dead on for me.

 

[Deleted member 72001]

I’ll also add that a rub-tug-rub is the perfect setup for me. Having the fun in the middle, followed by a cool down massage, will make this bloke a return customer for sure.

 

[Bullet]

Well here is my IDEAL MT.

TURN ON
Looks at lease a 5 / 10
A spinner between 35 and 45 . I like mature slim spinners
A firm body with a firm butt.
Topless or Nude
Can carry on a small conversation .
MUST tease and know how to TEASE
Start slow with deep tissue then a sensual massage and finish


TURN OFFs
A Fat But
Piercing
FAKE TITS , I would rather has small real ones-rather the big FAKE TITS

It my money and thats what I want.