Not piling on here guy, others have already said eneough. Ya, you spooked her. She thot you were LE, or at least wasn't going to take a chance you might be. I never take money out until they ask for it. Or until the end and I am dressed and about to go. Very few times has a girl asked me for the $$. Also, as another said, act like you've been before, she knows what you want, unless you ask for less, and if she thinks you know what you are going to get, then will be getting it, 99.9% of the time. If you don't it is just a YMMV thing that happens with some girls, or could be she is not feeling well. Bad thing is, you might have to lay low from 7th for a while and check out some other places. But there are other great places to go