When Love means Love?

[I FANCY YOU :) and VOTTO]

How do you know a difference between the truth and a lie when told: " I love you? " Lot's of people fall for wrong individuals and walk around with a blindfold without even knowing. Any signs you ever noticed you would like to warn us about?

 

[Un Chin C]

Been there done that. Experience teaches us not to do it again. Pretty sure we all have been bitten by the same bug at least once.

 

[Nicole C]

You would think....but more than a few women I know continually fall for a guy for all the wrong reasons then can't understand why he ended up being Mr Wrong....I know I know, women like the bad boys but I think they also like to bitch about them too....

I live by the adage: actions speak louder than words. If they aren't acting like they love you, then they don't. I'm not talking about buying gifts or anything, I'm talking about those little things that add up to the one big thing. Well, little things to you I mean.

Here's something that I did once:

I was dating this YL and he father passed away. Unfortunately I was having health issues at the time and I was hospitalized when the funeral was to occur. So she had to go alone. She was upset about it but totally understood why I couldn't go.

Her parents lived in Quebec City so she flew up a couple of days before the funeral.

I was in the hospital the morning before and was feeling a little better and asked if I could leave. Nope. I was sitting there stewing and thought, they can't force me to stay, so I said I wanted to leave and they made me sign a release stating that I was doing it against their wishes. I drove up to QC (about 8 hrs), arrived around 9 that night, and pulled into the drive. Her mother was taking out the garbage at the time and didn't recognize the car....when she did she started bawling. She said the GF was inside, upset about what happened, upset that I couldn't make it, upset that I was sick and she told me to wait outside for a second.

She went in and I heard her say that they had a visitor and flicked the lights to have me come in, the GF burst into tears. I'm glad I was able to do it and everyone, and I mean everyone in the family heard about it and all came up to me and hugged me.....

It wasn't really anything to me, it was something that I knew I should do but boy, was it something for her (which is why I did it).

I checked myself back into the hospital when I got returned to T.O.

 

[silmerrnattyina<3]

Nice story. What happened to the YL?. No happily ever married story?.

 

[Henry T]

Naw, no happily ever after.....I found out later she didn't ever want to get married or have kids.....both of which I wanted (at the time lol)

 

[El Capitan]

Here's something I did once that scored major points!

So I had to go out for an appointment one day & when I got in the truck to start my journey, that song “Kiss me through the phone” came on the radio. I thought to myself, what a stupid fucking song! :roll: Then I had a flash of genius!

I sent a text msg to Mrs. CG- who was at work at the bar, as I head my truck in her direction...

Me: “Have you ever heard that song: “Kiss me through the phone””,

Wife: “ya why?”

Me: “No reason- just a really stupid song…”

And then I showed up at her work, walked up to her and said, “because I would much rather kiss you in person!” And I gave her a passionate, no holds barred “full- make out mode” kiss! (Groping hands and all!) and then I turned and walked out without saying another word!

A couple minutes later, I rec'd a text: “OMG! You totally caught me off guard, but it was one of the most beautiful moments of my life & I cant stop smiling!"

Apparently, everyone in her bar talked about it for quite awhile after wards! LOL

And boy oh boy, did I have some fun later that evening! :great:

 

[SDress]

LOL good one CG, I've done that too and when you leave, they're left standing there in a semi shock state of mind thinking wtf just happened lol......

Thought it doesn't always work. i tried it once and got a "wtf are you doing....smack!"......lol...no, that time it didn't go over very well heheheh

 

[P6590]

Valentino, CG thinks he is you :go: