It’s self reflection and choosing to do something about it. Whether it is giving in to temptation or ending the desire, it’s about state of mind. A dojo is a physical and mental training ground. It is not a battlefield; that’s a pub brawl! All joking aside, it’s nice to read this thread and the positive minds contributing.So admitting you are wrong and doing something about it is weak? I met a lot of people like you in martial arts. So called tough guys would come into the dojo wanting to kick ass, get humiliated and never came back.