Darl'n, I cannot imagine a lady who is so intelligent, poised, and of such great character, ever being anything but a benefit to my life.
Truth is I am very rarely on the offensive, more of a lap dog as Bear would describe it. I have seen and done so much "bad stuff" in my earlier life that I no longer need to rely on it as a penile extension.
For a lady such as yourself, if ever something had gone amiss, I would simply look in the mirror and try to understand what I had done wrong.