… mebbe yer life situation = very unique… but most single guys still hafta worry about being seen…
… u go 2

Church,

Temple,

Synogogue, etc? Someone f/ there sees u, its trouble…
Construction worker? Likely yer ok… office worker? U get passed over 4 promotions bcuz they worry how u treat female staff, if yer seen & word gets around…
Friends & social contacts? Yer golf
buddy wife sees u...suddenly he don’t t golf
w u anymore… nobody gonna set u up on blind dates or arrange 4 u 2 meet intersting females who’re single…
And thats the single guys… dudes w S.O.?

End of relationship.
… ofc if all that already happened 2u, then its all gd!