I perceive some kind of disconnection here...
YG25 is a Western woman in a mostly male forum ...
She want some teasing fun for her and BF, going to a place where instead most (including Thais), like party hard and real.
Ok, Patong is not Pattaya and a balance *may* be found, but there are also strong chances of having arguments, jealousy and misunderstandings. I have seen that more than once at the clubs. The "all talk no walk" someone is used to play at home, is not effective and not welcome here.
So if that is a long awaited, well paid vacations, why not set the tone right since the beginning... leave temptations out of the door, don't play with what you're not ready to handle, let the couple's dynamics unchallenged...
Just my 2c.