Why bother making appointments??

[Derick]

This can go both ways, if you book an appointment at Premier Spas and don't show up, you will get blocked, because the girl waited for you.

I showed up all the time, it’s just bad business on there end.

 

[xtc27]

Hey guys,
A rookie question...

I've been noticing something that made me scratch my chin lately. I have just barely joined the game, so bear with me.

How reliable is it to make an appointment to see an mpa really?? For the past several times (!!), I'd make an appointment, show up, only to find out that an mpa I contacted is already busy!
if it happens here and there, I understand, we're all human beings. But I literally had it happen to me twice in a row, same week, and once last month. Besides, it's my fucking gas money $$$ and, well... my time! One will say, two hairs in a soup is too many!

Is it the tendency?

Appreciate your feedback!

If yer a reg client @ a spa … a reliable one, not some flake who doesn’t show up or cancels… … u make apptmnt, even 4 a girl u nvr met… she’s waiting 4u when u arrive!

… some girls… like Lilian @ Bellagio … seem 2 get horny imagining yer arrival , seem anxious 2 start in a sexy way, & launch into fun as soon as door closes!

But seriously … lotsa guys make apptmnt & no show …. So spas gotta decide, do I make this guy who just walked in wait & potentially walkout? I mean, he’s guaranteed $$$ vs some guy who phoned in we dunno?

1. Use gd ph# that displays, not a private #… they’re nvr gonna hold a girl 4 an anon caller
2. Call again when yer on the way… 99% they hold her 4u then
3. Become a reg client @ a spa, don’t change spas every wk… then u get girls held 4u guaranteed
4. Don’t b late! Likely girl loses real $$$ then (waiting around while guys wanna try her) & gonna b pissed w u
5. Show up a bit early

… & if yer girls a few minutes late, don’t get 2 annoyed … sometimes previous dude having trouble crossing the finish line… she’s washing up 4u…

… I don’t feel disrespected till it’s more than 15 min… I can take a shower in that time anyway.

… I have xxperienced gals changing my apptmnt… calling me 2 come later… & sometimes I’m ok… but I find if I say, oh, nvr mind then, cancel… they change mind fast & honour the apptmnt.

 

[gottahobby]

Licensed Rub & Tugs like Pure, Perla, Flirt, etc. do honour their appointments, unless the mpa cancels her shift at the last minute.

Asian semi-legit and holistic spas not so much.

 

[Spartan2020]

Once I have a regular relationship with a MP I book an appointment so I know they are working and I get them. I generally find they honor the time or text me if they are running late. I likewise will text them or call if I'm delayed. I do appreciate that they must have a lot of guys book and never show, so I get the first come first served thing.

 

[OG_funguy]

What many don't understand is that more than half of the guys booking appointments don't show up, and they don't even have the courtesy to call and cancel. So spas are always in the tough position of taking the sure thing (i.e. the walk-in) or taking a chance that the guy booking actually shows up. I know it fu*kin sucks for the honest guys out there but the no-shows happen so frequently that the spas have a hard time trusting anyone they don't know.

Now if the spa knows who you are and you are a good regular customer, then the chances of them honouring your appointment is almost 100%...

 

[c1000]

For the past several times (!!), I'd make an appointment, show up, only to find out that an mpa I contacted is already busy!

Yes, these were all asian spas!

You got your answer. Asian spas are all about bringing in foot traffic. They will book you fully knowing the girl requested isn't coming in. The goal is to get you in the spa.

Non-Asian spas don't operate like this.

 

[xtc27]

You got your answer. Asian spas are all about bringing in foot traffic. They will book you fully know the girl request isnt coming. The goal is to get you in.

Non-Asian spas don't operate like this.

AMPs & non-Asian spas actually very similar xxxcep … AMPs don’t tell u when they don’t trust u, & the body rub places do… “Sir, please call back with a real phone” “We will call back 2 confirm & if u dont answer, u will Lose the apptmnt” etc & so on …

 

[luvdafurburger]

What many don't understand is that more than half of the guys booking appointments don't show up, and they don't even have the courtesy to call and cancel. So spas are always in the tough position of taking the sure thing (i.e. the walk-in) or taking a chance that the guy booking actually shows up. I know it fu*kin sucks for the honest guys out there but the no-shows happen so frequently that the spas have a hard time trusting anyone they don't know.

Now if the spa knows who you are and you are a good regular customer, then the chances of them honouring your appointment is almost 100%...

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush so I understand their position.

I always call a day ahead. I leave my hobbyname and ask who I am speaking with. I also repeat the scheduled time, scheduled girl, and even occasionally specify a room. That way they know I'm serious. Only once have I ever had the mamasaan call me to push the time a little later. I tend to book times I know they're not as busy.

I show up 10 min early and take a shower. If my scheduled appointment is running a bit late, almost always boss lady gives me a free few minutes with her.

Being a regular also has it's privileges.

 

[LuckyShot]

What many don't understand is that more than half of the guys booking appointments don't show up, and they don't even have the courtesy to call and cancel. So spas are always in the tough position of taking the sure thing (i.e. the walk-in) or taking a chance that the guy booking actually shows up. I know it fu*kin sucks for the honest guys out there but the no-shows happen so frequently that the spas have a hard time trusting anyone they don't know.

Now if the spa knows who you are and you are a good regular customer, then the chances of them honouring your appointment is almost 100%...

I've never really considered the first half of your post, as I don't deal with the games of clients showing and not showing and how often it actually happens as I've never dealt with running a spa, but that does make a lot of sense

 

[xtc27]

I've never really considered the first half of your post, as I don't deal with the games of clients showing and not showing and how often it actually happens as I've never dealt with running a spa, but that does make a lot of sense

… as a client, I no it’s true … one of my faves = very popular, frequently she’s telling me, oh, I gotta 5pm, c u 5:30… or We gotta finish by 6, another apptmnt… & these guys frequently just don’t show (gd 4 me) & I get xxxtra time …

… or they show so late, we already started, so she has 2 tell him, look, u gotta wait now… & sometimes she gives me xxtra time just 2 spite him

 

[bob_loblaw]

What many don't understand is that more than half of the guys booking appointments don't show up, and they don't even have the courtesy to call and cancel. So spas are always in the tough position of taking the sure thing (i.e. the walk-in) or taking a chance that the guy booking actually shows up. I know it fu*kin sucks for the honest guys out there but the no-shows happen so frequently that the spas have a hard time trusting anyone they don't know.

Now if the spa knows who you are and you are a good regular customer, then the chances of them honouring your appointment is almost 100%...

I think >50% is to high but if you book and are late and don't call then don't be surprised if you slot is given away

I'm late all the time but my regs know it and I seldom miss a session. At a new spa I'll always call if I'm running late

 

[not impressed]

It's a sleazy game where your jizz is your trophy

What many don't understand is that more than half of the guys booking appointments don't show up, and they don't even have the courtesy to call and cancel. So spas are always in the tough position of taking the sure thing (i.e. the walk-in) or taking a chance that the guy booking actually shows up. I know it fu*kin sucks for the honest guys out there but the no-shows happen so frequently that the spas have a hard time trusting anyone they don't know.

Now if the spa knows who you are and you are a good regular customer, then the chances of them honouring your appointment is almost 100%...

It’s worse if they know you ( oh , it’s ok if I take this customer, only 1/2 hour or , customer only wants HJ , 10 minutes) tired of this shit !

 

[Huey83]

It's happened with me only when I try new spas. But once I try the spa twice or three times, they know not to try that b&s stuff.

The girls that I would frequent would end up giving me their numbers to text them ahead of time.

 

[fisher226]

Here are few tips I learned from many experienced hobbyists:

1) make sure you have other options if your prime choice is not available.

2) expect the spa will lie about who is working.

3) call moment ahead (30min - 1hr) of your desired appointment time.

4) tips her well.

 

[LuckyShot]

Here are few tips I learned from many experienced hobbyists:

1) make sure you have other options if your prime choice is not available.

2) expect the spa will lie about who is working.

3) call moment ahead (30min - 1hr) of your desired appointment time.

4) tips her well.

4 only works if you are a repeat, as the girl will want to keep her appointment to get good tips, but doesnt help if its your first time seeing a specific girl and most of the issues are when that happens

 

[medister22]

If yer a reg client @ a spa … a reliable one, not some flake who doesn’t show up or cancels… … u make apptmnt, even 4 a girl u nvr met… she’s waiting 4u when u arrive!

Yeah , not my experience at all , dude ..
Ive been double booked , bate - and- switched , was misled on the phone about a girl working , and most importantly , not being notified by a girl that I booked (personal contact) that she ‘s suddenly became busy while on my way to the spa .
Almost all these were my regulars .. some were long time regulars !! and all that was bfore I finally learned my lesson !..

I never book anymore .

I always treat them kindly and tip well .
I always showed up on time , sometimes even a bit early .
Always used to let them know if Im late / need to cancel / need to change time and so on .

 

[medister22]

You got your answer. Asian spas are all about bringing in foot traffic. They will book you fully knowing the girl requested isn't coming in. The goal is to get you in the spa.

Non-Asian spas don't operate like this.

That s all there is .

 

[bob_loblaw]

It’s never guaranteed , just walk in , take your chances, I’ve been fucked up the ass many times regarding appointments, it really means nothing, if they have a walk in 15 minutes before you get there , walk in comes first , just my experience

Just walking in is how I handle a new spa. They give away my appointment once I'm a regular means it's time to find a new spa

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush

I always thought it was:

A hand in the pants is worth two in the bush

 

[medister22]

Just walking in is how I handle a new spa. They give away my appointment once I'm a regular means it's time to find a new spa



I always thought it was:

A hand in the pants is worth two in the bush

and a hand in the bush with no pants is even better !!

 

[retrocamcord00]

Thanks guys, lots of very useful info here!

To be frank, not all of these girls were my regulars, two of them I've seen only once before and one of them I have seen four times. Not sure, if that's considered beeing a regular. However, I did hear from them the infamous 'try the other girl', didn't stay and have no desire seeing any of them again.

I did, however, let the management know. Whatever next happens to them, I don't know, and have no interest of knowing since I will not be returning.

I was always on time for these appointments. I treated these girls with respect. And always tipped them well.
I can only speak for myself and I am clear on that front.

It looks like as of now, an over all scenario for me will be to find an MPA that I will like, and then, if the chemistry is right, possibly make an appointment. If she turns it into a sphincter again, I'm out. However, if there is one thing that I now know for sure, that it's a common squalid practice, that needs to be stigmatized. And as long as some of us are not keeping up with set appointments, not much is gonna change. That shit cycle gotta stop.

Cheers!