Shes very cautious (no d’uh) so persistence mebbe pays off …
… try texting
w enuf detail she can verify yer not some loser… if using a burner
phone, u could try using regular one…
TBH, she needs 2 let her many regs find her, since shes had 2 change addresses & ph #s a few times … & joining the club of regs make take time. Strong chance she googles yer ph #…