I broke the golden rule

[hurting]

Hangdai my friend, I have been there 8-9 yrs ago with a Viet girl from Invisible Touch and had learnt my lesson very well. It was lots of fun while it lasted. Thank God I found a replacement Korean girl in 2 weeks and much more fun. Falling in love with girls from this industry is never a good thing. It's a game, just a very dangerous game we all love to play and the weaker person who fell in love always get hurt at the end.
I have already posted a few yrs back how I have mastered this game. I have a very kind heart and tend to fall in love easily when I find the right girl. So I always make sure I have at least 2-3 girls in my hands at the same time all the time when I am playing this game. I just broke up with one very recently after having fun for over a yr. She has a husband and a boy friend and yet she loves playing with me so you can see clearly loyalty doesn't exists with these women in this industry. No monetary exchange involve, just the door fees. We were like lovers , we go out regularly for dinner and shopping and all.
But a few weeks ago she said no more sex with me cuz I broke her heart and she doesn't want to get hurt again..lol. It bothers me a bit at first but no big deal cuz I already have 2 other girls in hand and always available whenever I want. The funniest thing was while I was texting her how much I am going to miss making love to her and at the same time I was texting with another girl how much fun she was last night. lol. Btw..always make sure you don't send the texts to the wrong girl while texting 2 girls at the same time. I lost one civilian girl a few yrs back by sending the wrong text written for a Mpa...lol.
The best you can do now is leave the past behind, go out and play harder, you will forget her in no time. Just make sure you have 2-3 favs all the time in hand this time.

KJ is right, if she is not a pro or a horny chick, how she can able to be the owner of 2 spa. It is right signal for you to move one, unless Hangdai still have a hope if she cheer you up again. My friend found an Asian MPA in the Spa, he bought her a luxury car, and bought a house to stay with her, then my friend agreed to give 10,000 to her monthly. However, she still have relationship with other guys sometimes after found out from a private investigation by my friend's private investigator. She is agreed to stop any relationship with these guys, however, she is still have appointments with her VIPs or some of the regulars at the spa. It is wake up call for someone like you to step away if you really want to have pain or hard feeling. Most of the MPA has only one goal Money...Just sharing here or FYI only good luck...

 

[Pais007]

Same old story line since prostitution began. Just different male characters who succumb to their own weaknesses and insecurities despite all the lessons written on sex forums by other hobbyist for last 10 years. Despite the early warnings, the inevitable always happens.

The learning? Some get burned once or multiple times or repeat the never ending cycle.

Men emotionally are really like children. And the gals take advantage of the “white knight mental model” like shooting fish in the barrel?

Nothing like that at all
I’m not going to get into details
Or argue about it. Enjoy your Saturday

 

[Pais007]

So no heads up about leaving? That must of been brutal for you.

I can understand it she had to do what she did for her family I get that family comes first
Just disappointed how it went down

 

[Hangdai]

KJ is right, if she is not a pro or a horny chick, how she can able to be the owner of 2 spa.

She realized after one year in the room, it’s much more lucrative to own a business and let others do all the work (in theory).
As many owners of these low end AMP’s have found out, it can be a brutal business at times, and it necessitates the owners to still work to keep the place going especially when it’s hard to find girls, or replace girls that jump around to one of the other 500 spas in the GTA.

Btw, I made an excuse and skipped yesterday’s standing appointment with her. God, give me strength to resist.

 

[Ursus]

Don't make an excuse. She will admire you more if you just tell her that you don't want to come anymore.

People don't like when they are lied to. And people know it when you are lieing to them.

Just tell her: I need to take a break from seeing you. For my own best interest.

 

[rhuarc]

Don't make an excuse. She will admire you more if you just tell her that you don't want to come anymore.

Yep, less is more in these situations. Same could be said for when your SO cheats on you or breaks up with you. You may want to cling or pour out your heart, but in the end that just makes things so much worse.

Suck it up, and make it short and sweet. I learned that lesson after my first major break-up in university.

 

[Leviathan]

Nothing like that at all
I’m not going to get into details
Or argue about it. Enjoy your Saturday

If it’s mutually understood then there is nothing to talk about. But that’s not usually the case. One person usually feels “short changed “ in some form or fashion voluntarily or unvoluntarily. It’s all about managing ones own expectations.

She didn’t owe you an explanation with the abrupt departure. Sounds like a temporary stop gap measure of let’s be great companions with benefits situation with no commitments. You both filled a fleeting void in each other’s life long and winding journey.

 

[TheKWguy]

She realized after one year in the room, it’s much more lucrative to own a business and let others do all the work (in theory).
As many owners of these low end AMP’s have found out, it can be a brutal business at times, and it necessitates the owners to still work to keep the place going especially when it’s hard to find girls, or replace girls that jump around to one of the other 500 spas in the GTA.

Btw, I made an excuse and skipped yesterday’s standing appointment with her. God, give me strength to resist.

how much is monthly rent at these place?

 

[Hangdai]

how much is monthly rent at these place?

$2,000/month for about 1,000sf

 

[Steeper]

A couple of spas I know are closer to 4 rent going up big time ,plus hydro & water

 

[TheKWguy]

So if your rent + operating is $3300, you need what.....5-6 dicks to walk in to just break even? And if your averaging around 10 people a day, then wouldn't that mean your taking home only 36K case a year? It sounds like you need to clear alot of bodies or work the room to make this work

 

[Ursus]

If you operate 12 hours and most of your appts are 30 - 60 minutes, and if you have multiple girls working, it isn't that hard to make $110 per day to cover rent.

With minimum wage at $14- $15, the typical room fee only costs a grocery store clerk, still in highschool, a half-a-day's worth of effort to cover.

If you have pretty girls who are friendly and put out a good menu, the spa will be fine.

 

[TheKWguy]

If you operate 12 hours and most of your appts are 30 - 60 minutes, and if you have multiple girls working, it isn't that hard to make $110 per day to cover rent.

With minimum wage at $14- $15, the typical room fee only costs a grocery store clerk, still in highschool, a half-a-day's worth of effort to cover.

If you have pretty girls who are friendly and put out a good menu, the spa will be fine.

you'd think that. I wonder how many are not doing well.

 

[GTA-Traveller]

If you exclude the service fee of the owner working as a MPA, then it is hard to make big money at $30 a client from a pure ownership perspective.

 

[Leviathan]

My dear friend Hangdai,

Cici sends her love after golfing with her. It was fun watching her swing as her pear shape hips couldn’t clear on the downswing.

I scolded her for breaking your heart . But that’s her job pocketing 15 K. Need to fund her gambling habit at Casino Niagra. It was her way of paying you back with that awesome review when opening bluesky. Even Steven? LoL It was fun watching Mr chihuahua chasing his own tail. LoL

Next time I will be more generous and pick up the “full meal” deal vs room fee ! But only after proposing one of my Chinese Biatches and getting rejected like Ursula with Angela.

Xoxo Dan your loyal master.

 

[Leviathan]

Hangdoggy. Where is that Pear shaped princess? You banged for 2 years every week? Should swap mpa notes with KLfunguy ?

So did you overcome your withdrawal depression ? Let me guess Maggie stained rotten teeth deep throat sessions cured you in a week.

Maybe it was Hangdog love hang over ? LoL

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My dear friend Hangdai,

Cici sends her love after golfing with her. It was fun watching her swing as her pear shape hips couldn’t clear on the downswing.

I scolded her for breaking your heart . But that’s her job pocketing 15 K. Need to fund her gambling habit at Casino Niagra. It was her way of paying you back with that awesome review when opening bluesky. Even Steven? LoL It was fun watching Mr chihuahua chasing his own tail. LoL

Next time I will be more generous and pick up the “full meal” deal vs room fee ! But only after proposing one of my Chinese Biatches and getting rejected like Ursula with Angela.

Xoxo Dan your loyal master.
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[spassky]

This is a very special thread. I’m really impressed with all the valuable information everyone has given to this community. Even KrayJee, Leviathan, and Ursus’ input has been on the mark.

One thing that unites us all is regardless of our dynamic with these providers whether it’s a good or bad experience it really is still an us vs. them game.

These particular women are different then the civvie women we work with and befriend in our normal lives. They’re very unpredictable and unstable and yet we go to them in our most vulnerable states (naked, or telling them our secrets, or showing up to them when we’re emotionally vulnerable, or wanting attention).

This is in my opinion the forums shining moment when everyone has gathered to help a fellow member prevent himself from losing his rocker and help others learn and prevent this from happening.

Regardless of what happens going forward with members, I will always remember this thread with fondness and respect for you all.

Awesome. Mabye best thread ever and good on you for this contribution.

 

[playfulfun]

Not the first time and probably not the last time for me, but yes, I fell for a lady.

It was a real good run, almost 2 years, weekly visits, everything I wanted, as many times as I wanted (cause I’m mega msog guy), made me feel like I was number 1 in the world.
Knew it was too good to last forever, and subconsciously, I’m kinda glad it’s over, BUT!

The pain! Not throw myself off a cliff pain, but still, it shocks me how it’s affected me.
The ending wasn’t anything too dramatic, in fact, she still wants me to visit her at the spa ( she’s actually part owner of 2 holistics), but I know it’s better to just move on and get over it.

Did she lead me on, fool me, trick me? No, she just did her job very well and I was just a very happy loyal customer who foolishly thought of it as more, when it was just business as usual. Oh the pain....

Been there done that twice.
Never again!
Until the next time.

 

[BBlurker2018]

Been there done that twice.
Never again!
Until the next time.

What bitch made you think she loved you?