A sad story of a MPA

[416azndude]

I couldn’t agree more
These whores think they are runnin guys
Simps that pay their bills and buy them shit but one day they meet someone and they fall in love ( their human in some sense ) but they all lie cause that’s the job lie and it becomes common place lol
Than you have some weak piece of shit that posts here saying it’s sad lol no it isn’t bro it’s called Karma
You fuck a zillion guys and hustle them and than think you are just gonna settle down and have a family no chance
Truth is it’s always nice when you have some chemistry and you can take the fucking out of the spa or agency ( I have two on the go now ) but truth is any man in his right mind would never want a women that does this to be the mother of his kids and if he does well good on ya bro not for me thanks

I really dont agree with this logic, I’m sorry. Anyone has a past, and these MPAs deserve to have the right to live a normal live if they choose. No one’s life is perfect, but I just find it dishearten to see comment like “…any man in his right mind would never want a women that does this…” come on it’s 2010s (based on the timeline listed by OP). I think the guy who broke the news is an asshole, come on, just let the groom be happy. I dunno about you guys, unless u meet you wife way back in highschol/uni, she prob has a history with other men. I usually obey the rule of dont ask and dont tell, because frankly whatever happen before you is none of your business.

Maybe i wanted to speak out is because i met assholes like the whistle blower in the story. Basically my wife went on a few dates with this guy that i played tuesday night soccer, and he broke the news about my wife’s past and how she was wild and been with a few of his friends and stuff. The guy was a lowlife, and he kept some private pictures of hers. My wife decided to tell me everything about her past and gave me the chance to walk (we were only engaged at the time), she felt horrible for some of the things she’s done because she wasn’t in the right state of mind after she broke up with her long term bf. In the end I chose to accept her and her past, and we have happy married for 10 yrs with 3 kids.

 

[hookerpuncher]

I really dont agree with this logic, I’m sorry. Anyone has a past, and these MPAs deserve to have the right to live a normal live if they choose. No one’s life is perfect, but I just find it dishearten to see comment like “…any man in his right mind would never want a women that does this…” come on it’s 2010s (based on the timeline listed by OP). I think the guy who broke the news is an asshole, come on, just let the groom be happy. I dunno about you guys, unless u meet you wife way back in highschol/uni, she prob has a history with other men. I usually obey the rule of dont ask and dont tell, because frankly whatever happen before you is none of your business.

Maybe i wanted to speak out is because i met assholes like the whistle blower in the story. Basically my wife went on a few dates with this guy that i played tuesday night soccer, and he broke the news about my wife’s past and how she was wild and been with a few of his friends and stuff. The guy was a lowlife, and he kept some private pictures of hers. My wife decided to tell me everything about her past and gave me the chance to walk (we were only engaged at the time), she felt horrible for some of the things she’s done because she wasn’t in the right state of mind after she broke up with her long term bf. In the end I chose to accept her and her past, and we have happy married for 10 yrs with 3 kids.

Out of sight out of mind? People are still going to talk about the pasts of these girls regardless of whether or not you want to hear it. Saying it to your face is not the best scenario but eventually you're going to hear it through the wood works. There's a difference between a girl having boyfriends in the past and being a slut. If you want to be that guy that kisses a girl after a bukkake gangbang then so be it but that's not for everyone. Pretty cucky but you're already in that life.

Is the guy an asshole? 100%. Are there going to be other assholes like him? 100%. If you're cool with your SO having actual photo evidence out there then good for you. Majority of people would have dipped after hearing their wife got ran on by multiple guys and left a trail of evidence. At least you two discussed the past so there's no hiding it anymore.

 

[c1000]

I don't know about you guys, but if my friend knows something about a woman I'm see and doesn't tell me, he's not really a good friend.

Once the relationship is serious, then yeah hold your peace.

 

[hookerpuncher]

I don't know about you guys, but if my friend knows something about a woman I'm see and doesn't tell me, he's not really a good friend.

Once the relationship is serious, then yeah hold your peace.

True friends will criticize your actions instead of hoping the best for you. The sad thing is most people don't even have good friends. Just acquaintances and work friends that don't really have any real input. To say you have a ride or die friend is uncommon for most people. I have a handful of people I'd go out on a limb for, spot them money or let them live with me. I get others that ask for my help but I wouldn't do shit in reality and push it onto someone else. Let them figure it out themselves.

Agreed. Once that friend has made up his mind he'll deal with the situation and you hope for the best. At that point you just shut up unless he asks for your opinion.

 

[416azndude]

Out of sight out of mind? People are still going to talk about the pasts of these girls regardless of whether or not you want to hear it. Saying it to your face is not the best scenario but eventually you're going to hear it through the wood works. There's a difference between a girl having boyfriends in the past and being a slut. If you want to be that guy that kisses a girl after a bukkake gangbang then so be it but that's not for everyone. Pretty cucky but you're already in that life.

Is the guy an asshole? 100%. Are there going to be other assholes like him? 100%. If you're cool with your SO having actual photo evidence out there then good for you. Majority of people would have dipped after hearing their wife got ran on by multiple guys and left a trail of evidence. At least you two discussed the past so there's no hiding it anymore.

There’s no doubt people would hold such view... and yes I know people spoke about her and us behind our back but time will dilute everything. I guess one man’s trash is another man’s treasure. I believe there’s a sizeable of men like me who will accept a slut or whore in your word to be their SO. Things happen in life, but everyone deserve a chance to course correct.

 

[hookerpuncher]

There’s no doubt people would hold such view... and yes I know people spoke about her and us behind our back but time will dilute everything. I guess one man’s trash is another man’s treasure. I believe there’s a sizeable of men like me who will accept a slut or whore in your word to be their SO. Things happen in life, but everyone deserve a chance to course correct.

In Toronto? Time does not dilute everything. Especially if there's photographic evidence. 6 degrees of separation holds true here and I find its more like 3. Given your age and how many kids you have I could probably find out who you are by asking 4 people. Of course I'm not going to but I'm just saying that's how close things are, especially in the Asian community.

To each their own. I have friends that are with women with 2 kids from previous relationships. Would I do that? Hell no, but they're cool with it so if they're with them now I let them be. But of course I know their wives were sluts back in the day. Sizeable on this forum, yes. In general sense if they knew their past and the severity of it, hell no. Can't say much for the kids these days in their multi way relationships with other weirdo cucks but if we're talking about "millenials" and older then the opposite of your statement holds true.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Other question that arises too is if you're happily married for a decade with 3 kids. Why are you browsing these forums?

 

[416azndude]

Other question that arises too is if you're happily married for a decade with 3 kids. Why are you browsing these forums?

I m married, not dead. I still enjoy a good session, i find it to be the best way to relax

 

[hookerpuncher]

I m married, not dead. I still enjoy a good session, i find it to be the best way to relax

Vows really do mean shit all for most people it seems. Doesn't speak volumes for the basis of your marriage but I think like others here I'm on a different mindset. If your thinking its 2022 and we should be more progressive and accept sluts cause it's been normalized by things like OnlyFans then that's you. You can start being in a open relationship while being married to your wife and have 3 other partners by the norm nowadays.

Hypothetical. You see some random MPA that knows of your asshole friend cause for sure he hobbys. He finds out about you hobbying while being married and blows it up to your wife and posts her photos online. Worth it? Why not drink with friends, socialize, game, anything else lol but you choose something that's akin to your wifes hoe past and don't think its gonna end badly given the circumstances. She was open with her past, would you tell her you're seeing other women now?

Go ahead and cheat but do it smart. Do it overseas, out of town, etc I've seen multiple friends narrowly scrape by their SOs finding out about their degenerate life and luckily they can blame it on me if there was evidence.

 

[416azndude]

Vows really do mean shit all for most people it seems. Doesn't speak volumes for the basis of your marriage but I think like others here I'm on a different mindset. If your thinking its 2022 and we should be more progressive and accept sluts cause it's been normalized by things like OnlyFans then that's you. You can start being in a open relationship while being married to your wife and have 3 other partners by the norm nowadays.

Hypothetical. You see some random MPA that knows of your asshole friend cause for sure he hobbys. He finds out about you hobbying while being married and blows it up to your wife and posts her photos online. Worth it? Why not drink with friends, socialize, game, anything else lol but you choose something that's akin to your wifes hoe past and don't think its gonna end badly given the circumstances. She was open with her past, would you tell her you're seeing other women now?

Go ahead and cheat but do it smart. Do it overseas, out of town, etc I've seen multiple friends narrowly scrape by their SOs finding out about their degenerate life and luckily they can blame it on me if there was evidence.

just to be clear. I don’t go FS at any of these places, just the E&M type of places to enjoy a good session. I also normally dont post since for some reason i couldn’t sign in with my twitter credential any longer. I just replied to this thread cuz I thought it was interesting.

 

[hookerpuncher]

just to be clear. I don’t go FS at any of these places, just the E&M type of places to enjoy a good session. I also normally dont post since for some reason i couldn’t sign in with my twitter credential any longer. I just replied to this thread cuz I thought it was interesting.

Well, would you stop if they started giving you a BJ or slid it in? I wouldn't say this forum is made for legit massage even though I'm sure it started off that way. If I want a massage I'll go to actual spas at hotels. Not these shady semi legit places that are known for extras.

Either way it's your life. I'm just as bad as these hoes cause of my track record but that's my degenerate side. If I'm to marry someone now its someone far away from this hobby or new to the country.

 

[416azndude]

Well, would you stop if they started giving you a BJ or slid it in? I wouldn't say this forum is made for legit massage even though I'm sure it started off that way. If I want a massage I'll go to actual spas at hotels. Not these shady semi legit places that are known for extras.

Either way it's your life. I'm just as bad as these hoes cause of my track record but that's my degenerate side. If I'm to marry someone now its someone far away from this hobby or new to the country.

i never interested or plan to get emotionally involve with anyone outside my wife, i think light flirt can be a healthy thing at these parlour and at work.

Even tho we have different beliefs, but you made some valid points. Again, one man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Just ignore those assholes, and live happily.

 

[castaniabrucciatta]

It's the same way we've smashed all these girls and expect regular women to have a normal life with us.

It goes both ways.

My body count is high in the SP world (25 + years) PLUS the ones I saw multiple times.

The number of encounters I’ve had & what I’ve done I would not like to share with any future GFs or SO. Its my business as long as I remain faithful to her.

If an ex SP wanted to tell me her past just once and NOT keep reliving it with me, that’s fine. If not, that’s fine too.

I was a pretty bad man-slut & would not want that held against me.
Afterall its made me who I am today & I can still fuck with the best of them.

Live & Let Live

CB

 

[Gwailo]

Ahh a simple story of double standards. Women that provide services are whores and men that pay for services are studs? How the fuck does that make sense? Both are sluts in my eyes, 1 being male and the other being female.

Some guys seriously need to look in the mirror before starting with the name calling.

 

[KChan]

Ahh a simple story of double standards. Women that provide services are whores and men that pay for services are studs? How the fuck does that make sense? Both are sluts in my eyes, 1 being male and the other being female.

Some guys seriously need to look in the mirror before starting with the name calling.

I agree 10000%!!

Reading this thread, so hypocritical!

How can we talk down about the women who provide these services and yet we are the clients who are sneaking around ( most of us ) paying for the services??

Crazy to think we are any better.

 

[karlcox]

I can’t help but laugh when I see threads like this.

News flash fellas, you’re no better than any of the girls in this industry, but least they’re getting paid to suck and fuck.

 

[hookerpuncher]

lol you clowns are still doing the typical circle jerk on this crap?

Girls will always be perceived as bigger whores than men. If you don't think so go cuck some more. I imagine most of you don't have any real friends to tell you a girl that you met is used goods so you're more than happy to put a ring on it. You wanna marry her, be my guest. I'll still make fun of you for it having thousands of guys use her. My body count may be high over multiple years of hobbying but this girl is used up like an old dish towel in the span of a year; compound that over how many years they've been in the industry and it gets worse.

 

[castaniabrucciatta]

lol you clowns are still doing the typical circle jerk on this crap?

Girls will always be perceived as bigger whores than men. If you don't think so go cuck some more. I imagine most of you don't have any real friends to tell you a girl that you met is used goods so you're more than happy to put a ring on it. You wanna marry her, be my guest. I'll still make fun of you for it having thousands of guys use her. My body count may be high over multiple years of hobbying but this girl is used up like an old dish towel in the span of a year; compound that over how many years they've been in the industry and it gets worse.

I would tend to agree with you.

But age changes things IMO. I’ve been married, had the family, raised my kids, etc. Now single in my early 60s.

If I never married and was say 30 and met a former MPA I would agree with what you’re saying.

But since I’m in a different place AND have been with what I feel is my share of , if I met someone older that has more miles on her than the 401 between Toronto & Montreal, I really couldn’t care less. If anything, she’s probably really good in the sack.

Just my 0.02

CB

 

[MrBnH]

Who says that non-MPA's don't have the same issues........I have known some hot females that slept with a different guy almost every night and guys chased the shit out of them, they all got married and lived the happy ending ! Some of them were even known to be carriers and still got wed, there is a wedding present for you !

 

[Robio]

Almost 7,8 years ago, I saw a MPA in a spa she was nice, hot and always provided good service within spas limit, used to get wild during session if there was a good connection. She told me she is doing this for time being to pay her debts and will leave industry soon to live a normal life and she did.
I knew her friend who worked in same spa and she left too, after 1,2 years she rejoined spa and we had a conversation about that girl.
Her friend told me that she had a boyfriend and finally they got married, in wedding ceremony one of the husband’s friend who had visited spa and had session with the same girl told his friend that girl you are getting married to was a MPA in an adult spa, things got worst and husband almost kicked her out but she managed to stick around. I hope they are still together but it’s sad that you cannot get away with what you have done in past.

The guy that ratted her out is a pussy, should have kept his mouth shut this industry is based on discretion