A sad story of a MPA

[SuperSport]

It's the same way we've smashed all these girls and expect regular women to have a normal life with us.

Let's look at this a little closer hall we .....

First - false equivalence. A guy maybe smashes 1 time a week and if he's fiendish then, sure OK there could be 3 but then there could be weeks with none. Let's say 50 - 75 times year. An MPA could be doing 8 - 10 guys a day some work 6 days / wk some more, some less. Let's say 25 - 30 guys/wk x 50 = 1,250 - 1,500 that's not even close to being the same thing.

I still think you are correct in that some dude banging random chicks so much, he will likely have some wear and tear from the totality of the experience which will likely appear in a relationship. Having said that, what do you suppose might the MPA carry into a relationship?

And it's not about people that are both honest in the relationship because that's a complete different scenario. There's no surprises, as a matter of fact when you can disclose such information there's likely more honesty than average couple even.

No one's saying treat them like animals, it's quite the opposite, you are their cash cow. If you really understood the Asian culture, which most of these women are brought up in (not talking MPA) it would shock you, and then throw on top of that shock treatment the life of an MPA = crazy shit right there.

 

[hookerpuncher]

I believe that successful mpa's are somewhat like surgeons in that they have the ability to shut down their emotional side and focus in a professional way on the job at hand. I think that we all instinctively know that this is what is happening, and our challenge is to break through that professionalism and touch the person inside. For me, that is the ultimate reward.

I can't imagine having an mpa as a significant other for myself. I would be too jealous. But I can see how if for someone it is just a job and there is no emotional involvement, some men could accept it.

Whatever the case, I think that mpa's deserve as much respect from us as any other professional and any other person trying to make their way through life.

That sounds very gay.

You shouldn't be going out to see sex workers with the goal to date them. Why are you trying to break down the wall between professional and personal life. They have it there for a reason so go see them, bust a nut and move on.

You say you don't want a MPA as a significant other but that's exactly what you're trying to do. What other reason could there be to breaking down the division of work and personal life. To be friends with them? BS.

 

[Deyannis]

So sad to do it for money when intellectual pursuits give you a vibrant life.

 

[energymatters]

Whores are whores. When you accept money in exchange for making the guy cum you know what you've done. Not limited to sex workers though. Who wants to marry the girl in your friends circle that got ran on by 10 of your boys. No one, that shit sticks around for life.

You better make sure the partner you're with knows your past life or get as far away from any association to it as possible.

I found its easier if couples with shady pasts disclose it to their partner. One of my friends told his wife about our antics in Asia and now she sees me as a dirtbag but at least I'm in the same boat as her husband. Now they do coke together so he doesn't even have to hide it.

Whores are whores. When you accept money in exchange for making the guy cum you know what you've done. Not limited to sex workers though. Who wants to marry the girl in your friends circle that got ran on by 10 of your boys. No one, that shit sticks around for life.

You better make sure the partner you're with knows your past life or get as far away from any association to it as possible.

I found its easier if couples with shady pasts disclose it to their partner. One of my friends told his wife about our antics in Asia and now she sees me as a dirtbag but at least I'm in the same boat as her husband. Now they do coke together so he doesn't even have to hide it.

This overall is pretty funny, what do you think probably 75% of the guys on here are doing, do people realize that you are a JOHN and that they are probably married, are you telling your significant other what you are doing! Do you think she wants to be with somebody who is screwing a bunch of whores every week. Just because one is screwing a whore does not make one the pillar of society. People should take a look in the mirror sometime and not throw rocks in a glass house.

 

[Mungu]

That sounds very gay.

You shouldn't be going out to see sex workers with the goal to date them. Why are you trying to break down the wall between professional and personal life. They have it there for a reason so go see them, bust a nut and move on.

You say you don't want a MPA as a significant other but that's exactly what you're trying to do. What other reason could there be to breaking down the division of work and personal life. To be friends with them? BS.

I get what you are saying. Each of us has his own motivations. For me it is more about the human contact than just busting a nut. I am not looking to be friends with the mpa, but there is definitely something to be said for those rare sessions where I get to feel a bond.

 

[hookerpuncher]

This overall is pretty funny, what do you think probably 75% of the guys on here are doing, do people realize that you are a JOHN and that they are probably married, are you telling your significant other what you are doing! Do you think she wants to be with somebody who is screwing a bunch of whores every week. Just because one is screwing a whore does not make one the pillar of society. People should take a look in the mirror sometime and not throw rocks in a glass house.

I don't cheat on my significant other. Simple as that.

I'm single again so of course I can throw shade on people that commit adultery. If you want your marriage to crumble that's on you. I've seen it time and time again when secrets get revealed.

If I'm with someone that I can be with long term then I'm open with my degenerate ways of gambling, whoring, and what not. I'll tone down the severity of the story but I'm not going to hide everything cause it will come back to bite you in the ass.

Sounds like a lot of you are so frivolous with your thinking that none of this will ever come back to you cause you think you're smart and crafty with hiding funds and burners. Takes one slip up for it to come crashing down on you when your SO finds said burner or the texts that appear from your side chick that found your main line.

 

[energymatters]

I don't cheat on my significant other. Simple as that.

I'm single again so of course I can throw shade on people that commit adultery. If you want your marriage to crumble that's on you. I've seen it time and time again when secrets get revealed.

If I'm with someone that I can be with long term then I'm open with my degenerate ways of gambling, whoring, and what not. I'll tone down the severity of the story but I'm not going to hide everything cause it will come back to bite you in the ass.

Sounds like a lot of you are so frivolous with your thinking that none of this will ever come back to you cause you think you're smart and crafty with hiding funds and burners. Takes one slip up for it to come crashing down on you when your SO finds said burner or the texts that appear from your side chick that found your main line.

Did not mean you per say what I meant is all the guys on here who are doing exactly the opposite of what you just mentioned and think/feel they are better than the whore, when all they are is a cheating John when you break it down.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Did not mean you per say what I meant is all the guys on here who are doing exactly the opposite of what you just mentioned and think/feel they are better than the whore, when all they are is a cheating John when you break it down.

A cheating john is worse than a whore in my eyes. On the Johns end you're risking your marriage, assets, children and further payments coming out of a divorce. Majority of people have not signed pre nuptials so you're royally screwed when that day comes. Again, I've seen it multiple times when the marriage breaks down and over what? Trying to befriend a hoe?

Keep it as a service. This girl wants you to bust and GTFO so she can make more money. The only reason she lets you into her personal life is to get more money out of you. There's no emotional bond between you two and if you're really pushing a girl to those ends you're trying to manipulate her as bad as you. So who's the worse person?

 

[Heyyoo]

I couldn’t agree more
These whores think they are runnin guys
Simps that pay their bills and buy them shit but one day they meet someone and they fall in love ( their human in some sense ) but they all lie cause that’s the job lie and it becomes common place lol
Than you have some weak piece of shit that posts here saying it’s sad lol no it isn’t bro it’s called Karma
You fuck a zillion guys and hustle them and than think you are just gonna settle down and have a family no chance
Truth is it’s always nice when you have some chemistry and you can take the fucking out of the spa or agency ( I have two on the go now ) but truth is any man in his right mind would never want a women that does this to be the mother of his kids and if he does well good on ya bro not for me thanks

Human in some sense?! you are an asshole.

 

[Old No. 7]

Her friend told me that she had a boyfriend and finally they got married, in wedding ceremony one of the husband’s friend who had visited spa and had session with the same girl told his friend that girl you are getting married to was a MPA in an adult spa,

The husband's friend who spilled the beans is the one who started the entire mess.
One of the most important unwritten rules of this industry is that discretion is paramount. If you run into a MPA out in public and she's with someone, don't say a word. Don't let on that you know her. Same thing works for a MPA who might see a client out in public. Not a word.

The fact that the husband's friend opened his mouth makes him the real villainous creep in this story.

 

[hookerpuncher]

I get what you are saying. Each of us has his own motivations. For me it is more about the human contact than just busting a nut. I am not looking to be friends with the mpa, but there is definitely something to be said for those rare sessions where I get to feel a bond.

I already know the answer but why not just date like a regular human being?

Incel culture is rampant nowadays but if you can't find the drive to socialize with civilians and improve yourself to be in that position then I can't change your ways. I know your only means to get human contact with someone is to pay for it. You'll always be like that and one day you'll get burned to see how bad things can go when your only means is with sex workers.

 

[c1000]

Let's look at this a little closer hall we .....

First - false equivalence. A guy maybe smashes 1 time a week and if he's fiendish then, sure OK there could be 3 but then there could be weeks with none. Let's say 50 - 75 times year. An MPA could be doing 8 - 10 guys a day some work 6 days / wk some more, some less. Let's say 25 - 30 guys/wk x 50 = 1,250 - 1,500 that's not even close to being the same thing.

I still think you are correct in that some dude banging random chicks so much, he will likely have some wear and tear from the totality of the experience which will likely appear in a relationship. Having said that, what do you suppose might the MPA carry into a relationship?

And it's not about people that are both honest in the relationship because that's a complete different scenario. There's no surprises, as a matter of fact when you can disclose such information there's likely more honesty than average couple even.

No one's saying treat them like animals, it's quite the opposite, you are their cash cow. If you really understood the Asian culture, which most of these women are brought up in (not talking MPA) it would shock you, and then throw on top of that shock treatment the life of an MPA = crazy shit right there.

It's not that deep.

You don't want a woman that has worked in the sex industry. A regular woman doesn't want a man that sleeps with sex workers.

It all breaks down to what you find out and will accept.

 

[niceandnaughty]

A cheating john is worse than a whore in my eyes. On the Johns end you're risking your marriage, assets, children and further payments coming out of a divorce. Majority of people have not signed pre nuptials so you're royally screwed when that day comes. Again, I've seen it multiple times when the marriage breaks down and over what? Trying to befriend a hoe?

Keep it as a service. This girl wants you to bust and GTFO so she can make more money. The only reason she lets you into her personal life is to get more money out of you. There's no emotional bond between you two and if you're really pushing a girl to those ends you're trying to manipulate her as bad as you. So who's the worse person?

Maybe I am an exception to the rule. 3 years ago I fell for an sp. I was seeing her every day for months before she trusted me. We started going out for meals together. She didn't have a vehicle so I would take her shopping and to some appointments. She accompanied me to clubs and parties. My friends loved her, found her very entertaining. During the first wave of coronavirus she lived with me for 6 months. To this day we're still great friends, she treated me to an amazing meal on Chinese New Year. I even chat online with her parents and sister. My friend is a good person, it's sad that people characterize sex workers as being sub human. My friend is empathetic, If some one is in need she will help especially if it is a child. I'm sure some of the guys here on massage planet would just walk on by. Judge as you want to be judged.

 

[curvluvr]

The husband's friend who spilled the beans is the one who started the entire mess.
One of the most important unwritten rules of this industry is that discretion is paramount. If you run into a MPA out in public and she's with someone, don't say a word. Don't let on that you know her. Same thing works for a MPA who might see a client out in public. Not a word.

The fact that the husband's friend opened his mouth makes him the real villainous creep in this story.

+1
I'm surprised that this fact was not mentioned in the first place.
Discretion is rule #1 in the hobby.
You wouldn't want to be outed by an SP, either.
I'm not judging her by keeping it secret... most guys wouldn't accept that their SO was a MPA or SP, and many women would prefer to keep it secret.

 

[OG_funguy]

There are many 'nice' MPAs like this...I've been very close to a few and there's no negatives that I can say, only positive. And despite what many think, they are not all out to milk your money. I guess the places you go to and the type of MPAs you are drawn to also play a role.

Maybe I am an exception to the rule. 3 years ago I fell for an sp. I was seeing her every day for months before she trusted me. We started going out for meals together. She didn't have a vehicle so I would take her shopping and to some appointments. She accompanied me to clubs and parties. My friends loved her, found her very entertaining. During the first wave of coronavirus she lived with me for 6 months. To this day we're still great friends, she treated me to an amazing meal on Chinese New Year. I even chat online with her parents and sister. My friend is a good person, it's sad that people characterize sex workers as being sub human. My friend is empathetic, If some one is in need she will help especially if it is a child. I'm sure some of the guys here on massage planet would just walk on by. Judge as you want to be judged.

 

[Old No. 7]

There are many 'nice' MPAs like this...I've been very close to a few and there's no negatives that I can say, only positive. And despite what many think, they are not all out to milk your money. I guess the places you go to and the type of MPAs you are drawn to also play a role.

Same here.
There are quite a few I've met over the years who I consider to be good friends.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Maybe I am an exception to the rule. 3 years ago I fell for an sp. I was seeing her every day for months before she trusted me. We started going out for meals together. She didn't have a vehicle so I would take her shopping and to some appointments. She accompanied me to clubs and parties. My friends loved her, found her very entertaining. During the first wave of coronavirus she lived with me for 6 months. To this day we're still great friends, she treated me to an amazing meal on Chinese New Year. I even chat online with her parents and sister. My friend is a good person, it's sad that people characterize sex workers as being sub human. My friend is empathetic, If some one is in need she will help especially if it is a child. I'm sure some of the guys here on massage planet would just walk on by. Judge as you want to be judged.

Do her parents and sister know she's a whore?

Maybe the statements I made don't apply to these old Asian aunties cause they know their position and have no choice to pick up whatever scraps they get from working at B chain spas. Hell, if I'm stuck in a shitty job being 50+ with no life skills of course I'd make friends with whoever I can see cause I know I'll never branch out to anything meaningful otherwise. If you can't get a decent job by that point and resort to sucking dick then yeah, that's your life.

If they're working at the main spas and are young they're absolutely in it for the money. To think otherwise is asinine. They're not waiting around in a shitty atmosphere of other toxic women hoping their knight in shining armor is going to appear and brighten their day. If they connect with you the sole purpose is to get you coming back more so they can make more money or milk you for money and gifts.

A lot of you guys are in this bubble of thinking girls can make it out of this industry by meeting one of you fantastic gentleman that constantly commit adultery. Name me a few examples where a YOUNG popular MPA/SP/Independent married someone she met at work and lived happily ever after. No sugar daddy shit, I'm talking about a normal healthy marriage where she hasn't hidden her past. The OPs post is a great example

 

[luvdafurburger]

There are many 'nice' MPAs like this...I've been very close to a few and there's no negatives that I can say, only positive. And despite what many think, they are not all out to milk your money. I guess the places you go to and the type of MPAs you are drawn to also play a role.

MPAs are FWB but without the red tape. I am respectful and don't feel I'm above them or that they're "whores" or any other derogatory terms used by some here.
Women have much better asshole meters than mine and they sense fake jerks. These are usually the same dicks complaining they got fucked over by some $400 per hour botox coked up girl.
I keep a certain distance emotionally and I am transparent about how far things will ever go. So I am not manipulating them with some carrot.
Having regulars has it's rewards as does being genuinely respectful. I can count my "bad" experiences on one hand.

 

[hookerpuncher]

MPAs are FWB but without the red tape. I am respectful and don't feel I'm above them or that they're "whores" or any other derogatory terms used by some here.
Women have much better asshole meters than mine and they sense fake jerks. These are usually the same dicks complaining they got fucked over by some $400 per hour botox coked up girl.
I keep a certain distance emotionally and I am transparent about how far things will ever go. So I am not manipulating them with some carrot.
Having regulars has it's rewards as does being genuinely respectful. I can count my "bad" experiences on one hand.

I'm not saying you can't have conversations with these girls during your appointment. That's just regular interaction with another person. Joke, keep it friendly and be courteous to ensure further appointments aren't going to be shitty. But if you're pushing to get their number or personal information so that you can see them more than a sex worker then there's some dubious intent even it may not be apparent to you.

My gripe is with people going with the sole purpose of going beyond the appointment to see the girl outside the work atmosphere. Besides trying to try and score free sex, what else are you doing? Talked to a girl recently that got abused by the customer she connected with and now she's even more jaded as she's strict business now.

Not directed at you. But a lot of these simps have Pretty Woman running on repeat on TV so they can relive that story.

 

[throwaway33]

I don't cheat on my significant other. Simple as that.

I'm single again so of course I can throw shade on people that commit adultery. If you want your marriage to crumble that's on you. I've seen it time and time again when secrets get revealed.

If I'm with someone that I can be with long term then I'm open with my degenerate ways of gambling, whoring, and what not. I'll tone down the severity of the story but I'm not going to hide everything cause it will come back to bite you in the ass.

Sounds like a lot of you are so frivolous with your thinking that none of this will ever come back to you cause you think you're smart and crafty with hiding funds and burners. Takes one slip up for it to come crashing down on you when your SO finds said burner or the texts that appear from your side chick that found your main line.

Haha. Stop trying to take the moral high ground in a forum like this and go live your own life. You are proud of being single? LOL

If you have enough experience as you claim you will know for every failed marriage because of johns that get caught there is a simp/incel that stays single for the rest of their life.