a little info for the in loved ones and the sponsors

[Spicy Chicken Sandwich]

is LOS really like that??

if so thats the last straw for me....i`m outta here :go:

 

[Farah]

Why rush off when we just found a BM who has infiltrated the inner sanctum of the Bar Girls....

 

[dcgottaeat]

you say it like that has never happened! the highest payer with the greatest prospects wins. also country of choice helps

 

[AlwaysBored]

No harm in being polite.

BTW, I'm Michael or Mike (either/or, I draw they line at Mickey though).

 

[sgt snak3]

im so shocked that thai girls would behave like that, what will i do now??? can i trust them anymore???? oh dear

 

[Kaitlynn W]

you have to marry her during short time. its the only way!

 

[vwvw30]

Michael John William Xylophone......55555

 

[peat]

One out of four isn't bad.

 

[Alicia M.]

dam it!! why didnt i think of that sooner5555

 

[LETS GET FAWKED UP!!]

No, I just don't see it as all one way traffic like most do. I can't believe for a moment that no expat who is currently living with a TG did not enter into sponsorship at some point. That means it has been done and can work, so why all the merchants of doom start chanting from their towers of ivory every time this type of thread comes up, never ceases to make me laugh.

 

[Natichia]

So, what you're saying is, I need to find the sponsored girls. They're more respectable and sleep with far fewer guys than all those other ones 5555

 

[LP640]

Hang on a second, he knows of one girl and immediately everyone jumps to the conclusion that they are all the same !! I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but I don't think it is as cut and dried as everyone thinks it is.

 

[krishnamoorthynagarajan]

Personally I dont see what is so different about a relationship with a TG or BG to a relationship with a Canadian, Aussie or Swiss girl. Granted there would be less need for money but if you have a fling with a 2 week Swiss chick and carry on the relationship via the phone/net is that any different. By the same token a western girl can easily have multiple boyfriends on the go remotely. With the FIFO (Fly In/Fly Out) workers in Perth I see this occasionally, not like they hide it from their friends, they brag about it for the most part. I used to work with a 20 something Aussie girl who had 4 FIFO boyfriends at once all buying her stuff, the entire office knew this, most of the time we knew which ones were in town at the time (especially since she kept the details in her Outlook calendar, which was open to the entire office).

Sponsorship works, for the relationships that work. There are more than a few examples on this board. In previous posts some have detailed their relationship with their wife or LT girl friend and I think they were good examples of how a relationship worked. The fact that money was sent was superfluous to this. I dont class these people as "sponsors", if they are "sponsoring" they typically understand that she may go with other customer.

The problem we have is that sponsors aren't getting into a proper relationship, rather they are agreeing to a financial transaction. I'm not a doom sayer but there are some that have deluded themselves into beleiving that the 20,000 B per month they send a lady is keeping them out of bars or away from Thai BF's. Put simply the layer of trust built in a proper relationship is not there. But these people are quite small in number and often wise up/run out of money in short order.

 

[Michaela B]

it is recommended that you can show documentation of sponsorship when applying for a visa in to Oz....

 

[Dadeo]

I think I have to disagree with you there, mate.
My experience is the complete opposite: I am struggling to think of any woman I know who DOESN'T have two or more "boyfriends"/sponsors.
And that includes the slightly more regular type women working in restaurants, Irish Pubs etc.

 

[Ronan]

So all farang guys who now have Thai girlfriends/wives and initially sponsored them, were actually "competing" against other farangs and "won the girl" ??

Is there anyone on here who is with a TG that sponsored her and who knows that he "outbid" the opposition ??

 

[Candy Hearts]

How about the guy that just sponsored my regular.......She can only love me "when him not Thailand"..............

 

[bjb123]

Can we call you Mikey? 555!

 

[Mamma of 3]

Dude, you say'n that TG's are butter-flys even tho they butter my fly?

Spoiler

Well , here inthe high desert no fraternization is a-loud either.

 

[FREE ARIZONA RB-1070]

It's never superfluous.
'Non-sponsoring sponsors' just don't understand she will go with other customers.