Better not BF girl(s) at your fav. starting / drinking bar (MTB) ??

[nodumgys]

Well said Frank.

I bar fined around 3 girls from the MTB and the 4th - well we are still together after over 3 years - just goes to prove ...... you never know eh .....5555555555

 

[swayyde12]

As someone said, there seems to be no rules in reality. Several Thai ladies have told me that there is no problem taking girls from the same bar because "it is only business".

Whereas others seem to get extremely jealous, so there is no rhyme nor reason to their way of thinking -- -- but then we already knew that didn't we!.

 

[Bob N]

seems you are still happy, or is that what is driving you?

you have always been realistic, but lately sometimes a bit on the rude side like you are on the wrong receiving end

Just a feeling I have

 

[030407<3]

I have a different experience but that's because I'm a dickhead.

 

[Danielle]

I agree with what you say, but as it is hard enough working out women at the best of times, it is impossible after you have been scooping the shooters for a wee while!!! :

 

[cattledog]

Yes, it was a great place for us Les. For us it was 2 year last week. We had a nice quite celebration in a local restaurant here.

 

[Little Lyn]

I once caught up with a mate of mine at the MTB whilst was out for the night with two thai girlfriends of mine. Sitting at the bar my mate made mention to me that he had been with one of the Mai Tai BGs the night before, nothing serious just for the one night, and was keen to butterfly.

We had only been at the MTB about 5 minutes before the BG in question came over and made it very clear to my girlfriends (speaking in Thai) that they had boom boomed the night before, he was taken so stay away. My mate was totally oblivious to this, so I had a bit of fun and I did not let on to him until after about an hour. He was wondering why no girls came over to talk to him even though he made it very clear to the BG that he was not interested in her anymore. Boy was he pissed off. Those lovely BGs can be spiteful!!

 

[slave2luv xxx-mas elf]

NEVER dip where you drink! I love the term Girlfriend as well- would anyone 'at home' call a h00ker a girlfriend?

 

[simi_krishna2003]

Simbo.. There are many girls in Patong who are not not BGs / H00kers. I take offense to your comments. You should not judge others on your obvious limited view of Thailand. If a BM brings his wife or girlfriend for a drink at the MTB do you always assume they are H00kers also ?

 

[Gurpreet]

I'm well happy m8 living with the same girl of 6 years here in isaan with a nice restaurant / bar, but its taken a long time to understand what TG's are all about through having owned a bar in Patong and now having lived here on and off for 3 years

It might seem rude for the guys with the RTG's on I'm simply stating what the situation is in Thailand and with Thai girls. I'm afraid alot of guys cant handle the truth and would rather think that their 'girlfriend' is different - how many times have we heard that?

remember NO MONEY NO HONEY - put it to the test if you dare

 

[Giny]

Glad to hear things going so well for you two. Am in Patong right now
2 years for us on saturday
cheers greg

 

[Pompal 09.]

On my first trip I bar fined a girl at Tilac on SC and the bar staff and mamasan said only one girl from the bar dont butterfly and made it clear to other BG's who came past after lady drinks that number 26 was the only one that i could take from the bar ?? strange but made it feel like a gf type thing maybe thats the ploy to make you return and spend more on one. Gonna shave my tash off for next trip in January and hope they dont recognise me 555555

 

[. otto.saxo .]

To be honest I assume that until proven otherwise EVERY female I meet in a social setting in LOS between the ages of 18 and 35 is a ******, ex ******, part time ******, casual ****** or is thnking of becoming a ******. Why else would they be talking to me ?

And no I dont have a problem with ******s. It is just a job like any other IMHO.

 

[The Baron]

I dont, but I tend to feel some bgs will cover there emotions by falling back on the , " Ok gib me money " cry .
We both know lots of bgs are there to find a long term partner (as well as make money) and there arent a huge amount of women who can emotionally detach immediately after a luxurious and lazy 2 week girlfriend experience with a generous man particularly considering some of their backgrounds.
Of course, a girl in the game a long time, or a one nighter, is attempting to protect her income stream.
And as Phil points out, this is all based on the precept that their wiring is up to scratch...

 

[Brendon Knows Best]

I believe he pointed at the ones you pay forh: :intello: as most of us doing,and you probably have take notice of.5555

Dont think he have a limited view of Thailand,he lives thereh:

 

[Rebecca]

Dont disagree, of course these girls can fall in love and with a farang but i dont think you can seperate out the money factor from the emotions. The harsh reality is there are not many girls who have choices in terms of how they earn the necessary income and bear with the heavy duty of responsibility to their family and in alot of cases the lifestyle that cant be supported on a normal thai job at their level of education

 

[The Lollypops]

55555 as long as you've got money...................super strong RTG's?????????

 

[2009]

I'll say right off the bat, that my experience in LOS in one solitary week, so what do I know?

But, I was with at BG I met one night. I actually picked her out, and she noticed so I let her know that that was the case.I told her I scouted several bars, and picked her out.

We had a great evening at the bar and at a disco, and an even greater night. Next day we spent together lazying at the beach, relaxing, having dinner etc., and then going back to her bar. I spent a good amount on LD's for her and her friends, but it was ok, it was fun. One friend was really good looking. Her best friend as a matter of fact. After the bar closed my girl, her friend and another BG took me out to play pool. Great fun.

But here is the catch, and the relevance of the story.

I got the idea that a two some might be fun. So after some hours playing pool I casually (as casual as you can be) asked my girl why we didn't bring her friend back to my room with us. Arguing that after all, she hadn't been BF'd and she had no customer. Now, if it was just money, and if it was just business, I would expect her to accept that proposition. For herself and for her friend. But she didn't. She went all cold. She said "if you like her better, then take her," and I swear I almost saw tears in her eyes. Seriously, there was not much difference between her and a jeaulous girlfriend. I tried to tell her that that was not what I meant, but it took a while to calm her down. She was genuinly upset. I had to honestly explain to her, that she was my favorite girl (which she was!). Finally I, of-course, said "just forget it. My bad." But her emotional reaction stayed with me. I really do believe that she was emotionally and not just economically jeaulous.
All in all, what my experience told me is that sometimes these girls will invest more in the right customer, and less in the ordinary one. Even emotionally.


Now I know the reactions might be "I'm naive", I'm gullible", etc. And I know that that might be the case, but reagardless BG's are still human beings, and human beings (myself especially) can fall in love quite fast. It's a business sure, but even if I was that person doing what they do, I would tend to fall in love sometimes with one or two of my customers (probably more). It's just the nature of things.

Bottom line. If they get a nice , young, attractive guy who treats them well and with respect, they will of course try to hang on to you, seeing as the unknown alternative has a good chance of being worse. It may be economics, it may be emotions, but it may also be a mixture of both. Sometimes, I think the guys who say it all about the $ forget that these girls are still young girls with ordinary girls' dreams and emotions.

 

[Baw]

I wish most of these guys could see their "ordinary girls" the day after (or even hours after) they've left to go back home. They're right back at it with the next "young attractive guy" who comes along.

You may consider this harsh or unfair, but if you could be a "fly on the wall", it's a real eye-opener.

 

[blue-eyed brunette]

This requires clarification - its not jealousy from the heart, its simply the thought of them losing business to another girl - pure and simple