Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[OG_funguy]

I don’t think not getting involved is the answer. I just enjoy it while things are good. Will stop when they stop feeling good. I don’t envision any future with them beyond today.

You never imagine "what if" scenarios in your head? Normally I don't but I have with that one special girl...

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

hahah i'm gonna be out like $500k. still worth it.

At least you get half. During marriage usually the guy doesn’t have anything lol

 

[OG_funguy]

I just take it as buying back decades of life instead of decades of misery.

Interesting perspective...

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

You never imagine "what if" scenarios in your head? Normally I don't but I have with that one special girl...

I used to but that fuse in my brain burnt out long ago and I refuse to replace it

 

[Lalallala]

Interesting perspective...

i'm not against relationships. I hope to be back in one when this is all over. I just happened to have made the wrong choice before.

 

[Ambler]

Hey, I would never reveal the girls in my stories. And I see enough girls that they could be anyone...

What's your take on the "question"? You are obviously very experienced...how do you play this game? Leave it in the room or sometimes get cautiously involved...

I'm just joshing you guy. I don't think the trust is being broken with your sharing here, you have kept things confidential.

Rather, some of these ladies may have been charmed by more than your performance/prowess and might have some actual feelings for you, and the serial nature of your Monte Carlo Inn visits might hurt them. But we are all grownups and the only ones who can hurt us are the ones we care about.

For me, I have little to say. Beyond making clear that in my situation I have nothing to offer for the near future, so anything shared is based on the now and nothing more.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Isn't that how you should approach romantic relationships? At least that's what I do - there should be way more good days than bad. once it goes the other way then it's time to end things.

100%. Spa or civilian life. If one party ends up doing it, it may as well be them.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

I'm just joshing you guy. I don't think the trust is being broken with your sharing here, you have kept things confidential.

Rather, some of these ladies may have been charmed by more than your performance/prowess and might have some actual feelings for you, and the serial nature of your Monte Carlo Inn visits might hurt them. But we are all grownups and the only ones who can hurt us are the ones we care about.

For me, I have little to say. Beyond making clear that in my situation I have nothing to offer for the near future, so anything shared is based on the now and nothing more.

OG’s is busier than a 3 peckered billy goat

 

[OG_funguy]

I used to but that fuse in my brain burnt out long ago and I refuse to replace it

Good for you...

I'm the daydreamer type and like to fantasize about things that will probably never come to fruition...

 

[OG_funguy]

I'm just joshing you guy. I don't think the trust is being broken with your sharing here, you have kept things confidential.

Rather, some of these ladies may have been charmed by more than your performance/prowess and might have some actual feelings for you, and the serial nature of your Monte Carlo Inn visits might hurt them. But we are all grownups and the only ones who can hurt us are the ones we care about.

For me, I have little to say. Beyond making clear that in my situation I have nothing to offer for the near future, so anything shared is based on the now and nothing more.

For sure some of the girls I'm close to have genuine feelings...just like I have feelings for them.

Fortunately most of them are attached so we enjoy things for what they are, knowing it's not really going anywhere. I've never lied about my status to any of the girls...

 

[Johnjoebowler]

Or set you free...

It's been a year and a half for me.
I've never been happier!!! Wouldn't change a thing!
I do what I want, when I want, how I want.

To that, I would NEVER live together again full time with a woman. Fk that!!!
A few lady 'friends', don't even care if i bang them......and my weekly visits to the spa and I'm good!

 

[Johnjoebowler]

hahah i'm gonna be out like $500k. still worth it.

....but you'll have 500k probably still.

 

[Lalallala]

....but you'll have 500k probably still.

hahahah a wee bit less. My income was 4x her income...

 

[Johnjoebowler]

i'm not against relationships. I hope to be back in one when this is all over. I just happened to have made the wrong choice before.

Think looooong and hard about that one bro!!!

I look at it like I won the lottery.
My ex is set, my relationship with my kids couldn't be better, I have cash and a business that I love, i have free time for my hobbies and kids and whatever I want.
Why would I gamble and possibly mess that up?

 

[Johnjoebowler]

hahahah a wee bit less. My income was 4x her income...

Still pretty darn good!!!

 

[Lalallala]

Still pretty darn good!!!

the last thing to sort out is spousal support, and seeing how much to buy that shit out in a lump sum. Maybe I'll end up homeless. but still better than being stuck with her.

 

[not impressed]

Good for you...

I'm the daydreamer type and like to fantasize about things that will probably never come to fruition...

Well , I’ve seen what you consider young and beautiful, your daydreaming and fantasizing must override your eyesight , or you just have very low standards or promotion and shilling is rotting your integrity

 

[hangul99]

once this is done, it will be totally worth the cost to be free

If you are truly miserable then divorce may lead to happiness. But, never let a spa girl be the reason you are getting a divorce.

 

[hangul99]

Or set you free...

It's never free. Lol!

 

[Lalallala]

If you are truly miserable then divorce may lead to happiness. But, never let a spa girl be the reason you are getting a divorce.

This process started in 2021. I didn’t visit a spa until this summer.