Cash grab from the other forum

[Jason61580]

Hi...

I'm looking for some suggestions. There is a very popular SP from the other forum, who gets accolades for her service.
She also does advertise for selling custom pics and vids.
I had sent her the funds as agreed for online content, and the lady then ghosts me. It's been a month now.. I've tried messaging her from different numbers. As soon as I reveal myself, she stops replying. Any suggestions to get my money back, or at least get the agreed content?
I now hate putting reviews in that forum. I've been getting bad ladies lately, and my reviews get locked.

 

[Rubmegood]

Who was it that said: "There's a sucker born every minute."

 

[Mebad2018]

Im not sure if it is bad form to mention her name here or not. I know I never buy anything from any of the sw women as they have nothing to lose. Can you get your cc to dispute it? Some fights are also not worth the fight. Leave it alone, learn and walk away. She sounds like a lowlife rachet ho at best.

 

[TBone]

Sorry you lost your money. That other forum has been discussed here recently and it's primary function is paid advertising, any negative reviews of advertisers tend to get the member banned. It's a shadow of what it used to be which is why I haven't bothered posting there in years. It's just filled with white knights and ban happy mods now.

Feel free to name her here, at the very least you might save some other guys from the same thing happening.

 

[Jason61580]

Thanks for your input. I had sent online Amazon gcs to her as payment. Can one cancel Amazon GC? Her name rhymes with Sunshine.

 

[luvsluvsmassage]

a) you're not the first to have her not send content or something. i've seen other posts going back to last summer i think.
b) she's as reputable as they get with most of that crowd over there, so its not worth saying anything or you'll get shut out. if you still find that site useful for checking reviews, keep your mouth shut unfortunately
c) the truth we often ignore is that this is mostly a "shady" business we are in. Its mostly cash exchanges, nobody wants paper trails or real identities - for a reason. But there are two sides to the coin, and if you get screwed over, you also have no reputable means of reconciling it. So the moral of the story is you take your lumps and walk away because its not worth the trouble.

 

[Sun&SandMan]

Thanks for your input. I had sent online Amazon gcs to her as payment. Can one cancel Amazon GC? Her name rhymes with Sunshine.

I am from the Canada Revenue Agency Tax Department and are here to help you. You owe $5,001.00. To stop getting arrested, immediately go to Walmart and buy gift cards and send them to address 1234 56 Ave Ponoka Alberta.

 

[Espana89]

Thanks for your input. I had sent online Amazon gcs to her as payment. Can one cancel Amazon GC? Her name rhymes with Sunshine.

I'm pretty sure you can't get a refund for a gc. I don't see any issue in outing someone who scammed you, that's what these forums are for. The other forum is terrible for banning people with legitimate complaints, no matter how credible you are and how respectful you go about it. But, assuming you've exhausted all options in attempting to get in touch with the SP, then I don't any problem in naming her over here.

 

[Mebad2018]

I see leolist where people get outed for scaming clients on occasion.

 

[Old Fart]

"But, assuming you've exhausted all options in attempting to get in touch with the SP, then I don't any problem in naming her over here"

Absolutely, as long as all facts are reported accurately and honestly so people can make up their own minds if the writer was scammed or not just being too picky,
name the lady. That is the whole purpose of these forms, to weed out the scammers.
People think it is to brag and write 'Penthouse letters' but that does not help others. whereas naming the scammers does help others.
Good reviews also have their place, obviously, but naming the scammers is what saves everyone money

 

[Jason61580]

It's Heather Sunshine... I guess all the negative reviews slipped thru, and I didn't see them.

 

[Espana89]

I did a quick search and didn't find any negative reviews, so I wonder if they're being deleted by the all-powerful mods.

 

[Samson23]

Heather pretty much never gets negative reviews. I don't know why your situation occurred, but you definitely won't get anywhere posting about it on that forum. I would probably just let it go, as painful as that may be.

 

[bigbill]

Post about this there and it will be deleted and you'll be banned in a nanosecond. CAF Ladies can do no wrong. The entire board is a forum designed to insulate them from negative reviews and promote their businesses. The forum owner is rewarded with ad dollars and maybe the occasional free handy, or even a blowie?

What was once a good place for accurate information is now just a shill-show.

Oh, and she asked for gift cards knowing you have no recourse to reverse the payment. The second she asked for gift cards, that means "I'm going to rip you off."

 

[Albertaman]

You can always start a new thread here with her name in subject line and then post an honest review and stick to the facts. That's still useful.


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[Eastcoastdan]

I have seen her a few times, but not recently. I have sent her etransfers with no issue. If you are willing to risk it, I would be interested in an objective review of what went down and then see what happens. Something like, "I'm not sure what happened given all the positive reviews..." Of course, no matter how soft it is, you may still get banned.

You could try DMing her on CAF to see if that helps and she sees that you are a member. You'd have a record of the exchange. Good luck.

 

[Snoopy99]

My experience with CAF mods - I've only reached out to one when a massage shop owner kept harassing me via phone calls and messages on CAF. The mod solved it.
My advice would be - PM a mod and explain the situation. If he/she asks for proof then you should be ready to show evidence of the gift card purchase and the sending of that gift card to Sunshine (like i mean who else goes by Sunshine except Heather...). If the proof is irrefutable then it's up to Heather to prove that she has transferred that content to you.

 

[dicktracy3003]

My experience with CAF mods - I've only reached out to one when a massage shop owner kept harassing me via phone calls and messages on CAF. The mod solved it.
My advice would be - PM a mod and explain the situation. If he/she asks for proof then you should be ready to show evidence of the gift card purchase and the sending of that gift card to Sunshine (like i mean who else goes by Sunshine except Heather...). If the proof is irrefutable then it's up to Heather to prove that she has transferred that content to you.

A CAF member posted that a paid advertiser had taken their deposit and then ghosted them, and the mods deleted the thread and banned the member. I sent a message asking what was up with that and they banned me too. You bring it up, in any way, prepare to be banned.

 

[bigbill]

^^^ Yup. I got banned for mentioning that a CAF-ladies pricing wasn't very good value. You can call out Leolist scammers all day long, and especially if you end your warning with "stick to CAF ladies!" But, you even hint that a CAF advertising SP is anything less than amazing, then you're banned and anything you said is removed.

The forum is nothing more than entertainment, there is little real value in the reviews anymore.

 

[Summerbob]

Sounds like we all have something in common lol. I've been banned for giving an "honest review". Was called out by another provider that said I was just out to ruin her reputation lol.