No man, you just need a couple of good experiences and you will be on a different mode. Like 2 half centuries and a century will take a struggling batsman to form again. In sales they call it 'low hanging wins' to keep the team motivated.
Many seniors have given you many options on what to do. Let me make it simpler for you by giving you an easy plan. Sure win plan to get you in a new level for the new year.
If you can set your expectations and criteria for win (in our case, feeling good), then you can manage it. Let's do that.
Objectives - to have fun (some boobs, kisses, fondling), decent girls, not too much lightening of your wallet, no KLPDs.
Let's target good experiences in 2 SBs and 1 DB. In next 2 or 3 days.
Day 1 - Mayur.
Good ambiance SB, friendly girls and waiters. Not very heavy on wallet. Good place to start.
Go there around 5 or 6pm. Go sit in one of the tables at the far end (away from entrance, it doesn't matter, but do that to make you feel comfortable). It may take few minutes for you to adjust your eyes, the lights are very dim there. Order your drink, look around. There will be girls coming to you. Select one who you like. Give her 100 rs at the beginning so she will become cool. Then slowly 'start, camera, action'. No need to feel you have to do everything. Take it as it comes. Tip her another 200 after half an hour. And send her away. Wait for few minutes, get one more girl. Repeat the same.
(What if things don't go as planned - If things don't go well with one of the girls, send her away with the initial 100 rupees, not any more. If both are not ok, then get third one.). You will have at least one good experience, most probably two.
Ask for the bill, give 100 rupees tips to the waiters. Walk out and breath fresh air.
Total cost - 600 for the drinks, max 600 for the girls, 100 for the waiters = 1300 for 2 pairs of mangoes.
Day 2 - Kishor.
This is to reinforce the victory on day 1.
You may be shocked to see the difference in ambiance compared to Mayur. But don;t think about it. Repeat day 1's system. Similar activities, similar cost.
Day 3 - Rasna.
Now that you have got success in 2 SBs, time to move to DB. As Uncle Sam (?) mentioned Rasna is not a pure DB, it's hybrid. The girls are more friendly and will allow little bit of touching and fondling. But that's not your objective here. Have your drink, watch the girls dancing, enjoy. Girls will approach you for bohni, give couple of girls 100 each. Just hug them and soft kiss, pressing etc. If you are in a mood and fancy some girl, ask her to dance - tip 100 to 300. Again similar tips to the waiters and walk out.
You are certified hero now
Few pointers:
1) Have only one drink. A beer or a quarter or if you are like me, one Thums Up. Only one. Drink slowly. As slow as possible. [Est cost - 600]
2) No drinks to the girls. Zero. You may be tempted to buy if the girl is treating you well. But no. You will have many opportunities later for that. [Est cost - 0]
3) Tips to the girls - 100 initially, then 100 or 200. Don't spend too much. In the new year, with your new level, you can do more and give more tips. [Est cost - 300 x 2 = 600]
4) Tips to waiters - only 100. This is for your reigniting period. After that, when you go you can pay more to get more from them. Keeping them in good terms will make it easier for your future trips. [Est cost - 100]
5) Don't rush - do as planned. Girls and waiters will make you under pressure constantly - for more bohni, drinks etc. Don't succumb to the pressure. Relax.
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All the best, bro.