Maddy_85
Reviewer
Gd day Uncle Sam,I want to know opinion of the forum about how to handle following situations
All including new comers can answer
Seniors are expected to answer as they have more experience
MK ,answer from you is MUST
What you all do in following situations
No1..
you are sitting in Db with your usual item and her other customer enters with out prior intimation to her ( no prior phone call or SMS )
Gal ask you
Can I go and say hello to him as he is also her good paying customer like you for her
How you all handle this ?
You say no to her
Or
You allow her to go and come back
Or
You warn her that if she goes now then u will not sit with her again ?
No 2
You have entered the Db with out prior intimation to your item and you find her sitting with some other customer who is spending money on her
What you do ?
U sit back and wait for her to finish ?
Or you throw tantrum and leave the Db ?
Or you choose the other gal and ignore the first gal ?
What will you do if she comes and ask you if she can sit with the other customer as he has come early ?
You all agree that most of you must have faced this situation and this is basis of fights in Db between gal and customer and sometimes between two customers
So let me know your views
Is there a concept of Draupadi in today's Era ?
Is Polyandry too much for Indian males to take ?
Food for thought
Opinions are welcomed
Uncle Sam
Such scenarios r very much common & many of us must have come across
Scenario 1: if I trust her that she would give importance to me, then I usually allow her to go say 'hello' to her other customer & come back.
It's business for them as well & that particular client must be equally important to her as one among us. So it's fair enough to allow the girl to say 'hi' & come back.
At times, the other customers might be pushy, in that case, I ask the girl to explain her customer that she is busy at the moment & would come to him in sometime.
At times, the girl might be more attached to the other customer who has dropped in & if she insists on ending the session with me & want to attend her other customer then it's her choice. Can't force her to stay back.
Scenario 2: We can also be at the other side of the table, at times I too happen to drop in without any phone call/prior appointment.
In such case I either ask waiter to call my regular one, at time I get her msg through the waiter that she is busy, or at times, she herself comes to my table, greet me & says that she is busy at the moment & come soon. In such cases I make it clear abt the time she would need & if it's okay to sit with someone else during those time, in case the time duration is long.
Also, at times, the girl would come directly, leaving her other customer, might be I'm more connected/important to her than that particular customer. Even in this case, at times the other customer is seen throwing rucks, I ask the girl or waiter to handle it depending upon the situation.
If the girl refuses to come, I do settle down with other best alternate options available. I have all the right to sit with anyone from the bar, if I wish to. If none, I step out rather than wasting my money.
End of the day, I feel it's all about the relationship u hold with a girl/waiter/bar etc.
Woh kehte hai na 'Jab dost banakar kaam ho sakta hai, toh dushmani kyun palna'
Tks.
Cheers & wish u all a Happy New Year...!!!
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