Let's review the original post and its intention ..., shall we?
As for Ezar, he's married and recently looking for a massage male for his wife / girlfriend. (It's not clear from his conflicting posts if he's really married or not ... however, NOT my / our business)
Ezar, I don't think you're interested to date someone, so to speak. What you want, based on your original post, is to visit an MPA as pay client and then walk her to your bedroom to f**** for free ... all in the name of liberty. Correct me if I'm wrong.
First, you say relationship with boundaries ... 2nd paragraph, you're disappointed how a girl can live with one cock for the rest of her life!
But, you have to keep in mind that there is a big difference between an MPA and FS ladies. Yes, there are a few exceptions out there but we are not talking about them because you posted your concern in the MPA section not escorts forum.
As you said, it's just a job but different kind. We also have to pay attention to the fact that the MPA job is different than FS also. Right? Of course!
Let me remind you that you are not pioneering a new and revolutionary idea here. This I-touch-yours and You-touch-mine and etc. etc. is soooo 70's!
I remember those years! I was like late 30 or something and people used to share their sisters, mothers, wives, girlfriends, grand mas and sometimes grand pas and more! And, there was more freedom than now. Today you have to go to those dark, underground and very noisy clubs but we used to do this under blue sky and in sunny days!
It didn't last long enough to 21st century simply because so many people started cheating ---> I-touch-yours but you-can't-touch-mine!