Hi all,new here.
this forum came up when i googled discectomy.
last thursd 5pm i was operated on and couldnt believe it when the hosp said i could go home fri lunchtime.
i was up,mobile,did the stairs with physio staff n there was nothing the hosp could give me for pain that i havnt got at home.
I have rapid cycling bi polar and because of this must not cannot have phines....
no morphine,pethadine,codiene or anything that contains any of this so no tramadol either.
have had years of sciatica that i just kinda got used to living with (as ya do)
but 4 monthes ago somthing changed,it got much much worse
my right leg varied between totally numb and shooting pains weakness in the knee,walking became a problem as i had no right foot for 3 monthes.
due to my inabilaty to have usual pain relief my gp has been absolutly fantastic with 2 or 3 x weekly accupuncture to try n manage the pain along side physio to see if the "flare up" would settle down..
my gp went on hols for a week, id thought i could go a week without being stabbed but OMG...owtchh by day 3 no needles.
pain getting worse by the day.
then somthing that bothered me as a previous cin 3 patient,my gynea area's started hurting
me ending up in hosp for an emergency gynea assesment
15 yrs since i been in a hospital, i despise the places.
3 days of gynea checks,scans,internals ect revealled nothing gynycologically wrong,thank god in one way but....whats causing the pain at such extreme level then ?
at this stage i was hanging off railings,stair rails,worktops n anything else i could grab hold of during a "spasm" labour breathing the lot....sheesh that was pain like i have never felt before
and mysterious as gyny wise they had cleared me.
hmmm mri scan revealled 3 prollapsed discs and of course trapped nerve (we already knew that)....but what has that got to do with my lower right abdo pain that was getting worse by the day/hour even
7 straight faced drs delivered the results of the mri,advising me of the "options" which at that time were operate,operate or keep suffering at the level i was because all i can take is paracetamol and brufen(which was nowhere near touching the pain)
i asked for and received accupuncture in hosp that day and bizzarly enough had 4 pain free hours and calm after 10 days of hell....
they told me i was in for discectomy the following morn n to mentally prepare myself for 1 of 3 outcomes...
highest chance is the op would work n my life might start getting back to normal ish (i''d been that long with sciatica/back pain tbh id forgotton what normal was..im of farming background,)im an outdoor girl,used to be fit n strong physicallly.
hmm
other outcomes possible..it wouldnt work n i'd still be in leg/back pain
parylisis
or dbl incontinence
but the chances were low and as my groin area was now numbing i was advised i NEEDED the op asap.
I accepted the risks n signed on the line,4 kids at home i hadnt been able to see cwtch for over a week
n pain back with avengence....have some paracetamol hmmmm.
that same afternoon the surgeon got a cancelation n much to my surprise,having given me little time to worry,n i wasnt brave enough to look it all up on the net at that stage.
i was called down to theatre last thursday aftrenoon.
8pm i came round saying YESSSSS i got 2 legs i can feel em both
10 pm that night.i was up n useing the bathroom normally
omg,as far as im concerned a week on, a miricle has been performed.
came home the next day,the car journey was uncomfy ,remember im only allowed paracetamol n brufen.
ive been home a week today ,i feel positive n generally well in body and mind
NO PAIN in my leg back or abdom wooooohooooooo
i have two working legs
its been monthes since ive walked properly useing and feeling two legs and 2feet and im so happy/relieved to be able to now do so.
im not yet able to pick up my two yr old but weve made our own special baddy back cwtch n it involves me being on my knees/her level
have not taken any pills apart from my bi polar meds in the last 6 days and that feels so good not to be rattling anymore. from 28 pills a day two weeks ago to 2 now
its hard for me to rest,my head n heart wants me to get up n do stuff ,normal mummy type stuff with my baba but i know i have to rest even tho im not in pain and i feel good..this is the hardest bit for me so far.
but me n babs are having great fun with her bricks and my grabber
and a V pillow and sheepskin have been my comfys this week.
i hope sharing my journey will give others positivity,
i dont hurt anymore
and each hour of each day that passes,is an hour closer to me being back carrying my baba n climbing in the mountains i love so much ,
happy days