Falling for an MPA

[strawberryfieldsforever]

Yes you can... it just may not be the "relationship" that you expected..

 

[ismail i]

This seems to be a never ending thread, so I will add my two cents...

Personally, I do not agree with most of the negativity expressed by others. Like some said, MPA's are probably just normal human beings who have feelings as well (ignoring why they got into this job in the first place). Why the negativity - is it because these pessimists have been rejected before in asking out an MPA? If so, why project your negative experience onto someone else - is it jealousy? Is it because you may be 55 and trying to ask a lady in her 20's to go out?

There have been many cases of success of varying degrees:

1) I have seen an excellent MPA marrying one of her clients,
2) A blonde MPA from a supposedly reputable MP in Richmond Hill in the Leslie/7 area was dating one of her clients a while back.

As can be seen, success can happen. If she is truly into you, she will make things easier for you. There will be no request for money for things like hydro bills, and she may even pay for dinner.

A first date is probably a no-lose situation (assuming she says yes to you asking her out). Soon enough, you can tell whether she's into you for real.

 

[JoDee.]

Wow, surprised to see some of the negativity.

In my opinion, treat MPs as you would everyone else, even better. The Golden Rule.

They are people and as therefore as different as night and day.

I have seen a number of MPs away from work, and they really are just like any other girl you would see.... maybe better.

I did really hit it off with one, we saw each other for about 3 years, a very intense 3 years, good and bad, but ended up good.... I think we came away from that as probably best friends.

Am currently retired only because I am seeing one MP exclusively.... I think we both realize that we both get special treatment, and it keeps getting better. She herself said, and I agree, that we do not have the BS of a relationship to contend with, so it is just like heaven when we get together regularly.

I also believe that MPs probably have their favorite regulars, so they get a mutual benefit from their top dog, so to speak.

Talking to MPs

Like I say very different.

- One I knew well despised what she was doing - did it only for the money and nothing else.

- One I talked to was divorced - stated she was horny and actually gets paid for getting serviced. How about that?

- One I currently am regular is quite comfortable in her profession.

Bottom line - a wide spectrum here.

Also I found a wide difference in how you get to fall for MP.

- 3 Year one - after I saw her first time, she explained the rules before we started; all the rules were broken the first night, and I ended up with her afterwards that night - like a runaway train that never stopped.

- Current MP- slow start, keeps getting intenser (is that a word?), and intenser and intenser.




Bottom line - worthwhile YES.

(PS please do not PM for identities - not into giving away).

 

[almarj70]

One beware:

I know a guy a work who is seeing a Stripper. I can honestly say, to the best of my judgement that she is using him to pay her hydro, her food, etc.

Remember all kinds of people, good, bad, and all in between.

 

[Pompal 09.]

kkARN, do you mind if I make this my signature?

 

[kaneria_abhijit]

Elegent. Well put. For most part, I agree. I'm just having fun playing on words.

 

[SnakeHissperer]

Thanks for the advice guys (and girls?). We'll see what happens.

 

[Annie]

Women that think and act this way are obviously bitter and angry at men in general and their real bf's will eventually be treated like some of her clients once she's had enough of them or don't get their way.

 

[sc4bbedwing]

Hey Dude, instead of philosphizing why don't you just ask her out for a few dates. You are single, man, what do you have to loose. Just don't get too involved right away emotionally. Some clues if she is really interested:
- she'll tell you her real name
- her cell #, e-mail

 

[lucilla]

Actually, no, kkarn. It read more like how to play "the game" and see where it goes.

I know of cases where an MPA and client built a relationship/marriage and can confirm some are still ongoing. It is however the exception.

There's no doubt that the cynical outlook is closer to the truth and therefor the "safer" aproach, but playing it safe you may miss out in life.

A clue ain't worth much if ya ain't using all the pieces to the puzzle :

 

[ColeT]

I would have thought getting her HOME phone number would be a much better signal than a cell phone number..

 

[Ima Stoodint]

Yes, but these days in most cases you give out your cell first, then your home phone (2nd base).

 

[NYlisa]

I have met an MPA outside her work for a date.

And I have a binding contract with my SO. So if you think asking out an MPA is complicated just look at my screwed up life.

 

[gina68]

Hate to burst your bubble. I'll leave it at that.

 

[Mariska]

Such negativity.

I've been "hobbying" since '97. Reason, I don't want the complications of a relationship. I'm busy, and outside of two kids I adore, it's all about me.

But...

I have had 6 relationships with MPA's. All pleasant, with no regrets and no money involved. And in each case the girl really turned out to be someone special, in some cases immediately dropping their line of work, and in others continuing. But in all cases they were some of the most honest upfront people I have ever met. After all, they play out fantasies all day long, and probably long for some reality.

But as great as they were, I eventually bolt, because, as I said up front I go to MPA because I don't have time nor patience to maintain a relationship.

But if you did, and you're not the jealous type there might just be a gem out there. Why judge? It's just a job.

 

[Animal Lover For Life!]

OK. Let's see here...You see this MPA on a regular basis. It seems you like her physically and I will assume personality wise as well. It appears to you she likes you as well. You are having intimite contact with her (I don't know the details but I assume it's more than a handshake) and that feels good, really good. Well...I can see why you might fall for her...It's called being HUMAN.

As to whether or not she ACTUALLY has feelings for you well the only way to know for sure is to confront her. If you really want to know how she feels then be prepared to hear the truth good, bad, or ugly. In the meantime ask yourself what it is you truely want in regards to her and whether you rationally believe it possible. How much do you really know about this woman?

I can't speak from experience regarding MPAs but I know in the SC industry a stripper will say all kinds of things to her client (for weathy regulars 10X the factor) in order to rake in the $$$. I've seen a lot of poor saps come into a club thinking they found love when in reality they've just found a very expensive illusion. Having said that I do also know of strippers dating customers and in some cases happily ever after. Anything is possible. But if I were a betting man...


My 2cents.

 

[sadgreeneyes3]

you took the words right out of my mouth

 

[Jon C]

Mp I am seeing - I have fallen for her deep. So much so that I consistently do do with her that I would find totally gross doing with anyone else.
I am quite comfortable in saying that she gets excellent service from me, I get same from her, and we look forward to seeing each other regularly.

We have stuff outside, but I would say our time together is very special and I never have had such an intense relationship (for lack of better word) inside or outside..

Yup I admit it.... in deep. I have been seeing her for so long now - I love her personality as well as her body.

Trouble is - I love her so much that when I am with her there is no holds barred - I absolutely worship her and her body.

When I go out with someone else , I really hold back - I cannot do the things I do with her.

As long as I see her I am happy. But I am starting to have trouble with relationships outside of her, as I find them all disappointing.

It is wierd, I should be sad or concerned, but instead I am incredibly happy.

You figure it out. I can not.

I am just going with this.