Find a Guy

[MissAnnMai]

Find a guy who calls you Beautiful instead of Hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who lie under the stars and listen to your heart beat or will stay awake just to see you sleep.......wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as Pretty without make up on. One who is constantly reminding you how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you....The one who turns to his friends and says THAT'S HER.:love:
By Unknown

I would like to add a guy who lets you be who you are and makes you feel very Loved even when you are wrong. Who takes you in his arms and loves you no matter. Who looks into your eyes and you know you will be with each other till death do us part.:love:

 

[jinenglish68]

Somebody gets it. Well said.

 

[Dis Gruntled]

Give me a hug, blissful. :love:

 

[forgiven490]

A hug and a tickle.:love:

We are getting an escort next weekend, maybe two at the same time, we have not had a foursome in awhile, what a man:angel:

 

[ctopher]

Switch the gender references, and that's what I would like to find.

With my luck she's out there....And is psychotic, has a beard and weighs 300lbs.

 

[walking lady RIP Tom]

There, I corrected it.....

 

[mtmt]

300lbs, I don't believe it BD.

 

[Leigh]

For the guys.

Give me a women who I can tell her my thoughts without being judged, who knows when my day is bad and is on her knees willing to put a smile of a guys face. A women I can say I am seeing an escort, etc and says, can I come too or have fun, call if you are not coming home. Give me a woman who shares her escorts or friends, some one willing to try new things...........and not be jealous, if so, work together to help each other out.

Give me a woman who will sit back and watch me being BJ or doing a woman. some one who smiles at me and enjoy herself too.

A woman who knows that I screw up and does not kicks me out or leaves, a woman who takes a deep breath looks into my eyes and says I love you unconditional, no matter. Give me a woman who listen even when I don't say anything, one that our eyes meet and she knows what I am thinking and her eyes shows love, respect and she know she is safe and I am there for the journey.:love:

 

[paintedrain2]

Hmmmm!!

 

[handsomeprince75]

I already changed it to reflect it from a guy's perspective....but it's an impossible dream: to find a woman who accepts a guy for who he is without trying to change him?

If I were to write one of those "passages" one thing I would include is the line:

Give me a woman who will take the time to get to know a guy before automatically dismissing him out of hand. To find out whether he is a good person or not and take rely on the first 2.3 seconds to determine whether he is "datable" or not......

 

[Chi4Now]

Sound like me with my SO in the first 2 years! She didn't get it though uch: I'm sure there are many others with the same experience

 

[Kookie]

You ended you thoughts far to soon.

Keep on going you are bang on so far.

 

[Sharry510]

Honestly I do not know why the Hell our relationship works but it does. We both need mental help but it may break us up.:
We do like a lot of things together, Women, Wine, Cheese and Pate, oh lets not forget great sex. It not a bed of roses at times but that when you know how you truly feel it is great. OK,He does not want me to leave because I will get half, plus more.::

 

[NeEdSuMGuiDanCe]

Oh I could keep going, but that's for another thread......

The thing about that passage in the OP is that guys that are like that? Either are gay, or players. I know more than a few players who do all that and more, they also lie, cheat, manipulate and are insecure little dweebs under all their bravado. Yet it is rare to find a woman who will look past that and find out what a guy is really like before jumping in with both feet, then come up with the line "all men are jerks". No, not all men, just the ones you've chosen. The fault is yours and yours alone for falling for their lines yet passing up on the "real" sincere guys.

Take the line "call me beautiful instead of hot". Well, in my experience, there are times when women are beautiful, times when she's hot, and times when she's scary lol. A sincere guy will tell her how he feels NOT what she wants to here. I know I know, a lot of women don't want to hear the truth, they just want to hear what they want to hear and if a guy has that figured out? He's gold!!!

 

[daljack -a girl]

Do you really think that I don't want hear the truth. Look each person is an individual. If Brash wants to leave all the best, yes I would be sad and upset but that is his choice. I am a believer of choices. We all have faults, you are not perfect are you? Yes look pass some faults but that is a strength.

As for our marriage, I was the one who said about an open relationship because I knew I would not be faithful.:666: Shit the woman who I lived with we had other women to play with. Why would I just close that part of me off.

I can assure Brash is very straight forward and does not hold back, just as I am. I think what it is, We do not play games.

Sometimes listening to you guys talk it is sad because honestly I can not imagine being in that type of relationship. Maybe you should look at yourselves, it can not be always the woman's fault. Also I know a lot of couples who are very happy and enjoy each other.:happy:

 

[Delacy]

No worries, Blissful. I'm not in a relationship, never have been, and given the way things are the future is doubtable as well. Now while it might sound as though I'm blaming the ladies, it's not their fault that I'm a human chameleon, and a weirdo

And Blackrock , you think 300lbs is to conservative?

 

[LMG]

Oh no, but psycho, bearded, AND 300lbs is a bit much.

 

[Spunk!]

Holy crap, what a diatribe! Who peed in your cornflakes?

Why is it the SECOND a man says anything about women in general, a woman who reads it gets pissed off or offended by it? Men don't act that way....if fact, I specifically said "a lot of women" why is it that you took it so personally?

Sorry Bliss, the vast majority of women I know don't want to know the truth, especially when they ask "do these jeans make my ass look fat"??? or after they spend $300.00 at the salon getting a fancy new hairdo and what you REALLY want to say is that she looks like ALF but no, we say "oh it looks great honey".....

I never once said we were perfect, but in a typical female fashion when a man points out something about women, their automatic response is: it's YOUR fault. No, sorry, when a woman falls for a guy's bs lines then it is HER fault, no one elses. No one forced her to listen to his BS, no one put a gun to her head and made it life or death that she had to go out with him, NO, it is HER choice and she should accept responsibility for HER choices. Guys can spot players from a mile away, why can't women?

Oh, here's a clue if a woman wants to spot a player: he says ALL the right things. No man being honest or sincere says all the right things.

Another clue: He talks for an hour and doesn't say a thing. Players can make talking about the weather sound interesting.

Another one? They make grand entrances. They crave attention and do what it takes to get noticed. I know one who actually changes the way he walks (struts) when he passes by a woman or group of women.

Anyhow bliss, if you think that if you spent 2 hours in the bathroom getting ready and came out and asked Brash: how do I look and if he thought you looked horrible and told you so, and YOU think you'd be ok with that, well, you're a better woman than most others because I have YET to meet a woman who could handle that......

 

[Tyler N]

First of all Brash spends more time getting ready than I do. Second I have ask Brash how I looked and he tells me, Not that skirt or top or Dress etc. Oh if I am wearing too much make up he tells me. I would rather look nice for me and him than go out looking horrible.

Dear you are right some "PEOPLE" can not handle the true.:neutral:

 

[Bonzo]

Well then I guess you're not one of those ladies I was referring to when I said "a lot of women" then so why get your knickers in a knot?

BTW: saying "not that skirt" isn't the same as saying yes to the question "do these jeans make my ass look fat".......