Well auggie, as for getting me going, don't know what you're referring to...oh, maybe to you "getting someone going" is to enter into a discussion with them....
Yes, I do live alone...unlike some who can't live alone. I'm self reliant, self supporting and do what I want when I want with whom I want without having to report to anyone, hide my play money, lie, cheat, or worry about what someone else thinks about my ass in a pair of jeans.
If you gotta problem with that, then I suggest you find yourself a old fashioned red plunger, stick it to the floor, spread your cheeks and sit on it....no lube either!