How about ordinary Japanese women?

[salt and peppy]

Ozgaijin. How old are you? How old were you when you lived in Japan?

 

[erivida]

Tripex, I noticed you speak Hebrew, lots of Israeli dudes hang out on the street in Shibuya, some are street vendors. These guys might know a few things I dont about where to find Jgals. The fact that you speak French and Italian is also a bonus since many Jgals study these languages and French and Italian dudes are thin on the ground in tokyo. Most Jgals who have been to Europe go to france and Italy but strangely, few have been to Greece or Spain.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Poligripguy, use the next month to try an internet hookup in Japan, tokyo metropolis classifieds online worked for me and many others, but make sure they send theirphoto or they will be ugly. adultfriendfinder Ive never tried but I used to know an American English teacher ex navy man and long term resident who swore by it. If under 30 Roppongi and omotesanto Harajuku, Shibuya for the young at heart, if over 30 Ginza, Kanda, Shinjuku, Ikebukuro.
Take the advice of sunprince and hang out around cheap shops,the 100 yen store is excellant, Jgals love shopping, learn to talk about shopping with Jgals, dont talk about world politics, history or economics, talk about kitty chan, Mickey mouse and shopping (I am 100% serious many jgals in their 30s and 40s are Tokyo Disneyland regulars).

 

[Socrates]

Poligripguy, I havent been to Japan for a year and ahalf, my favourite p4p areas were koganecho,seiko 21 in Shibuya and kabukicho, they are all now closed from reports Ive read. Try tokyo metropolis claasifieds, there are thinly veiled pros in there.If under 30 Roppongi is good, see my other posts regarding Japanese nightclubs such as Club Asia, Womb, Club Nuts.

 

[Ryan I]

Tripex, youwould be incredibly lucky to be successful on the first day, read my post that Xelasin recommends, it is a LOT ofwork, you have to be very resiliant. At 31you can still do well in Roppongi, dont go to Japan just for pussy, there are so many better countries, I found myself down on my luck and lonely in Japan, nampa worked for me, I dont recommend nampa for anyone not extremely motivated. I played nampa every night till last train home plus weekends, my weight dropped from 85kg to 71 kg from all the walking, I was a driven man, you have to be to be successful at nampa.

 

[David H]

I hope everybody reading this thread is reading carefully and also reads this one: http://www.worldsexguide.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16901

Ozgaijin is very honest and explains it's A LOT of work...
In that other thread, he explains he needs to talk to between 500 to 1000 girls before getting one...

Which means:


10 hours... that's if you talk to a girl every minute !!!!
If you talk to a women every 5 minutes it's 50 hours !!!!


Not good !

Make 8 hours a day Nampa and you will get maybe a girl per week...
It's a full time job !

You need to be seriously motivated !

 

[red]

Well this nampa thing confuses me... I always had a fantasy of banging a woman I'd meet on the street, to pick her up on looks without knowing nothing about her and to end up after some talk with her in my, her or some place and fuck with her to as long as we both want.

I lived in so many places and i don't have problems picking up grils from bars, clubs, parties and so on. With all due respect to all the countries I've lived in the only non pro/non drunk girls i banged on first sight from the street where in north african countries, namely tunisia and egypt. I didn't live enough in asia to have a valid experience there.

In Europe away from the clubs, I had some online first sight first night stuff, in the US less but still got lucky fsfnf on jdate. It doesn't happen that much and there is a big need to alcohol. Still a lower alcohol level than clubs and parties.

This japan over starbucks thing fascinates me, the more I read your writing the more I want to try it, not just try it but actually experience it. As you might have understood I have no problem getting lucky from regular pick up places. Getting drunk, dancing etc. but what are my odds in same day sex nampa. I don't speak japanese, just french, italian, hebrew and english. I'm 31. What are the odds nampa chief, that's all I want to know. I apologies if this doesn't fit in this thread, anyone is welcome to comment and give insight.

--reub

 

[eeyore6802]

Well I am going to be over in Tokyo in just over a month. Ozgaijin, you seem to have a lot of experience, and pretty erudite posts. So tell me, in your opinion, where are the best areas, as of now, to go hunting? Looking for both p4p (soaps, massage, sw's) and also bar pick ups? I would be interested to know what you think/suggest. Thanks in advance

 

[eloquent]

You need a very tough mental attitude to play nampa long enough to score. You have to be past the point of being embarrased, truly not caring what chicks think of you, able to withstand the silence and the looks of scorn. Rejection must no longer bother you. If you have been through a lot of life and are desperate, nampa is for you. Japan teaching English is only an option for the desperate, if you have any capital at all then Thailand is far and away better than Japan. I only went to Japan because I was desperate for money, too broke to go back to Thailand. I was 37 years old, long since divorced and my money had run out. I was self employed in Oz earning too little money for regular mongering at the ridiculously poor value Aussie pro scene. Since my bucks had run out I couldnt go backto Thailand where English teaching wouldnt earn me enough without some capital.I was broke in Oz but I hadtaught English in China and possessed a worthless in Oz liberal arts degree so I was able to get a job teaching English in Japan. I had to play nampa from financial neccesity becauseflights from Japan to Thailand return are cheaper than a visit to some Japanese soaplands so all my bucks I spent going to LOS rather than buying overpriced beer in Roppongi. Between visits to LOS I subsisted on the internet and nampa. But I still mongered in Japan between LOS visits. One reason black gaijin tend to last longer in Japan than white gaijin is that they are used to racism in the US wheras white gaijin are not. So they can endure Japanese racism better and all the more so since Japanese racism is also strong against white gaijin.

 

[crunchy hannah]

Shin okubo station used to have gals on the street in the area of the Love Hotels, a few Chinese gals I offered 15 000 yen for 1 hour and they accepted, others would not and heldout for 20 000 yen which was the standard rate they all charged. But being not far from Kabukicho that scene disappeared too.
When I left in autumn 2004 machida was still operating but all thelove hotel gals werenot to my standard. But earlier that year I had fucked a first rate Jgal at machida love hotel for the standard 20 000 yen an hour, she was wonderful but dissapeared without explanation shortly afterwards and I never saw a good one there again.
Warning Ive read some posts about dudes being ripped off by chinese massage gals in Machida, Ive never had a chinese massagi gal in Machida so I wouldnt know but they certainly tried hard to get me in, after reading the post I was glad I refused.
Kanda has p4p everywhere, lots of chinese and jgals on the streets offering hj bj or fs, standard price 20 000. Somegals you haveto pay the love hotel she takes you too others you dont, always ask them to make sure to figure your total cost that with Chinese gals you can negotiate.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Dreamss, the afoementioned gals advertize in Tokyo metropolis classifieds online, they are in the women seeking men and are fairly obvious.

 

[asap]

Dreamss, I think that for a chap such as yourself your best option is one of the thinly veiled pros looking for "mature generous man with knowledge of Japan" in other words not a drunken cheapskate yobbo. They usually charge upwards of 30 000 yen an hour, some do 40 000 for an hour and a half. I only did this once, it cost me 40 000 for an hour and a half but we ended up fucking for 2 hours. She was a beautiful sexy scandanavian blonde, well worth the price. Another free option are gaijin gals, English teachers mostly, Nova is full of them, most cant get a boyfriend because the male gaijin all have Jgirls and plenty of gaijin gals dont want a Japanese man, how can you blame them for that considering the standard of dental hygene and the narrow and illogical outlook of the typical Japanese man. Japanese men rarely care about a woman's pleasure and can rarely last more than a minute or two if sober enough to fuck at all.

 

[ShineUmbreon]

Dreamss, thanks for the soapland tip, Ill be checking out NYNY next time in Tokyo.So it is true then koganecho has been closed and also seiko 21 and kabukicho, these were the main places I went for paid sex. When I lived in Tokyo many Chinese gals (who I prefer to Jgals anyway) worked in kabukicho and I got f/s 10 000 yen for half hour and some were fantastic (Chinese massage gals) but around June 2004 they were all shut down because that dog the mayor of Tokyo whose name I forget has done a big deal to redevelop kabukicho. I used to go to Ikebukuro for chinese massage gals, some gals I got f/s for 10 000 yen but more often 15 000 for half an hour. I could always get 1 hour fullsex with some Chinese gals for 20 000 yen or at most 25000 yen, but I speak a little (very little) Chinese, have lived in China and had vast experience with Chinese gals in Oz. Avoid Chinese massage gals in in Roppongi, they rip off naieve young gaijin every night and they get away with itso they try to rip off everyone else too.
If I had money I wouldnt bother with nampa either. The main reason I started nampa is that none of my Japanese girlfriends I was interested in for long and paying for sex was not possible often enough to satisfy me on my meagre English teaching wage. I just couldnt get any chicks under 29 and the average age of my girlfriends was mid 30s, they were all oeru(office ladies) and by 35 although slim, were too pale and soft bodied from lack of time for physical exercise for my liking. Chinese, Filipinas, Thais especially tend to be strong bodied from physical exercise growing up workingon a farm in Issan. The best sex I ever had in Japan was the 18 year old English speaking Jgirl I fucked all night and morning for 20 000 yen.I picked her up playing nampa, she worked as a waitress making 800 yen per hour. After that I paid her regularly, I tried to get her to introduce me to her friends but she claimed none would want sex for cash, a likely story ne.

 

[Jayne Savage]

Bring photos of Hawaii in your pockets to show Jgirls, many have been to Hawaii and even more want to go, when I taught English at Nova most of my female students had been to Hawaii. Tell them if they leave their husband you will marry them and take themto Hawaii lol. In the almost impossible event that her husband found out hewould at least have the consolation of being cuckolded by a Japanese gaijin instead of a white or black man lol.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Ozgaiji, your post summarises very well different otpions in Japan.

I fall somewhat between case No 1 and 2. I have been visiting Japan on business regularly a couple of times a year for a few days since 1990. I am 55 now, and money not too much an issue. I therfore do not waste time trying to "nampa", i am probably too old, and do not have the time, I have to score within a couple of hours between business meetings.
I don't speak japanese, so do not even try to get into Japanese only places. However, I don't feel lost at all in Tokyo, I know my way well, I find it easier to understand the tube there than in London...

However, form a sex hunting point of view,things are not as good now as they were in early 1990s.

I use to spend some time in the afternoon at strip clubs, like DX in Kabuchiko. Saw very weird things there, being allowed to touch the girls everywhere, fingering them on seforum.xxxe, even looking into their pussy with an endoscope etc.. Even saw a peeing show on seforum.xxxe. All this seems to have disappeared now, the last few times I went, that was a very tamed strip show, and most of the time spent waiting for the photo sessions to complete...
Then there was Yokohama, but it's now all close, so no more place where you can have decent FS for about 10,000Y.
Then there was Seiko 21 i Shibuya, where you could have 2 quick and dirty BFs for less than 5,000Y. Closed as well. A few BJ bars still left, I was told, but according to reports, pretty dismal.

So what is left for then poor middle aged Gaijin, who needs to score fast?

Good old NYNY in Ueno remains a good place. They know me, and when I ask for a "yound and busty", I get it. Not a stunner, but at my age I am much more after service than looks. My last visit in January, I got Mya, pretty plump, nice face;where else do you get, in addition to the additional deep washing of every hole, very attentive BBBJ, DATY, 69, deep rimming of all holes and other areas, and finishing almost in mouth( by that I mean she just BBBJ till almost completion ang got my load out of her mouth at the last second,) and all that for 9500 Y. If you go and do not mind short plump girls, ask for her.

Otherwise, Iwould welcome any advice to increase the spectrum of possibilities for people like me. I went once to a place in Shinjuku, where you can kiss and touch. Girls are parading on seforum.xxxe, you pick up a number, and she comes and sit on your lap for 3 songs, first one, just grinding, second and third topless, you can play with the breasts and deep kissing. Not bad, but cost all included is about 10000 and YMMV according to the girl. I had 2, one was very willing, deep kissing, could finger etc... the other one almost resistant...

I have never been able to avail of the socalled pink room in strip clubs. like DX . Can anyone tell me if this available there, and if yes, how to go about it?


ANyway. any other advice, comment would be welcome.

 

[~o~]

Apart from myself I have only ever seen Japanese men playing nampa, so as a Japanese american your chances would be good. Are you serious that you speak no Japanese???? if so you need to learn some Nihingo before you go since youll need it more than a black or white gaijin, not for nampa but just to find your way around since the locals are obviously more likely to assume you speak Japanese. At 39 you are too old for Roppongi unless you actually look 30. Nampa in English is definately possible, my Japanese isnt great but I do speak a basic street Japanese. Lots Jgirls speak English but alot will pretend not to. Plenty of Jrirls would want to meet you, but not always the sametype of gals that would want a white or black man. Many English speaking Jgirls have a thing for either white gaijin or black gaijin or both andprefer one or both to Japanese men. But many English speaking gals want only a Japanese looking man either because they prefer a man who looks like them or due to social pressure from Japan's large number of racists. Id say far more Jgirls would prefer a man who looked Japanese overall, but your disadvaneforum.xxxe is that you dont speak Japanese.If you play nampa hard you will score often and even without nampa anyman who cant get pussy for free in Tokyo simply isnt trying. But to get quality free pussy you have to work hard.

 

[Shelby J]

I'm planning to visit Japan sometime this year. I'm assuming this thread is more for whites and blacks, but how do you think a 39-year old Japanese-American from Hawaii that doesn't speak Japanese at all or well can do at nampa? On any given day, when I'm not wearing my glasses, the faintest hint of Caucasian in my blood can make me look mixed. Not hanbun, but derivative.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Its important to keep nampa and Japan in perspective. Japan for pussy can in no way be compared to PI, Thailand, China,or even Indonesia. But it is still a lot better for both free and p4p pussy than Australia. So itshouldnt be on anyones list as a sex tour destination, it takestime to find your way around in Japan, since despite its many tourist attractions Japan does not cater well for tourists and has relatively few. So gaijin in Japan looking for sex largely fall into one of the following caeforum.xxxories.

1. The accidental visitor, the chap in Japan for a few days or weeks for a business meeting or a judo contest. This chap's biggest problem is finding his way around Tokyo, especially if his Japanese is poor. He will waste a lot of time going to bars andbrothels to be told "sorry sir japanese only".
His best bet is to line up a contact before arrival at narita visa the internet, tokyo metropolis classifieds ect. If he doesnt fuck her she can at least show him around. The classifieds advertize thinly veiled pro ads, expect to pay 30 000 and over yen an hour for either gaijin orjap girl. Quality is good in my experiance and worth the price.

2. The corporate expat, the richest gaijin,he is on a package with money to burn, he doesnt need my advice.

3. The US serviceman, much poorer than 2 but have the advaneforum.xxxe of cheap prices on base, they certainly dont need my advice.

4. The poorest and most numerous western gaijin of all, the English teacher.Nova staff are easy to fuck, students are harder especially if you are older but are commonly fucked. The internet, if under 30 Roppongi, if over 30 nampa.

 

[AffessyAdjurf]

Nampa is the Japanese word for the sport of trying to pick up gals everywhere you go, not only in bars and nightclubs but anywhere. The basic principle is that there are a lot of pretty gals in Tokyo concentrated in a small area so if you talk to enough of them you will sooner or later get lucky.

 

[mrggame]

Facinating, but forgive my ignorance. what is "playing Nampa"? From the conversation, I think I can guess, but a short definition would help...