How about ordinary Japanese women?

[Rosa Mistica]

Thanks for the response OZGaiJin

 

[katlvr125]

Jayclag, that you are Chinese American gives you access to a lot of variety of Jgals. By far most Japanese women prefer Japanese men, no doubt about it, but it doesnt matter to us gaijin because there are so many gals in Tokyo that the minority who prefer a foreigner still is millions of gals.
Your Asian appearance is a disadvaneforum.xxxe of course for jgals who have a thing for White and/or Black guys, but this is more than made up for by the numbers of Jgals who want a gaijin but dont want to stand out in the crowd. Japan is a far more institutionaly racist country than China and so many gals might like obviously foreign men, but not want to have to endure the resulting social disapproval. You have the advaneforum.xxxe over me in that a jgal can walk down the street holding hands with you and so long as you dont speak nobody will know you are a gaijin.
Wheras if a jgal walks holding hands with a white or black man she will have to endure the nasty comments in Japanese directed at her by the uyoku, these guys are the right wing skinhead extremists who want Japan to rearm, say that Japan was right in WW2 that the rape of Nanjing didnt happen ect.
These clowns have loud rallies outside major train stations where they stand on top of their vans and make anti Chinese Korean and American speeches.
There are a lot of these idiots in Tokyo and Yokohama and they always abuse Jgals they see walking with gaijin. So I think overall your Asian appearance combined with the fact that you are a Westerner is a big advaneforum.xxxe. Good Luck. Yokohama has Japan's Chinatown and there are many Chinese girls in Japan, they are everywhere and most of them are much better women than Jgirls.

 

[ladybug]

Guys, how about J girls perception on Chinese? I am an Chinese American and will be traveling to Yokohoma a few times this year. I know that westerners do sometimes get some advaneforum.xxxe what about Asian looking guys like me? They might just think I am a Japanese and wouldn't show any interest to me? I am 26 and not a bad looking guy.

 

[Purple]

Just think of it this way, you're like a Good Samaritan. Fuck them as you would have them fuck unto you. Or something like that.....

Hell, he's inspired me and I'm not even in Japan.

 

[Tiana]

Hell, yeah. Imagine all that fine pussy going to waste?

 

[essassin]

A man whose wife is still sexy and slim and doesnt fuck her forfeits his right to have her exclusively I say. The chronic alcoholism, lack of exercise, poor diet, cigarette smoking and overwork of Japanese salarymen soon renders most impotent by 30.

 

[Mister B]

I totally agree with Oz and others regards the whole cuckolding thing.
Indeed, this thread has inspired me to re-double my efforts regards pursuing married women! It's a damn shame to see so many Japanese women being under nourished

 

[Willbewill]

Escierto, one of the best if not the best bbbj I got in Japan was from a 50 yo Jgal whose husband had not fucked her for 20 years, he had never eaten her scrupulously clean pussy ever. She wasnt a beauty queen but made up for it and more so sexually. Her pussy was so tight even though she had 2 kids. I met her hiking in the tama river valley and fucked her on the banks of the tama river the night of the same day we met. We met for a while but after a while she didnt take my calls or answer my emails anymore, must have felt guilty but I dont see why. To my mind a man who doesnt fuck his wife for 20 years richly deserves cuckolding.

 

[bobthebulider]

You couldn't fuck a lot of these women? I imagine a fair number of them had to still be attractive?

 

[????????]

Wow. Helluva post, dude.

 

[Ms Kitty]

Argo Shinjuku wasmy favourite nampa area, Shinjuku is the worlds most busy train stationand has the highest concentration of pussy in the developed world.The shops the station the streets and the starbucks, fuck the bars guys for the price of a few beers in Japanese bar you can go to a japanese brothel, drinks in bars are expensive in Japan, I buy my beer at 7/11 cheap and drink it on my wayto the brothel.
Rathna you are correct, I have personally seen gaijin lose their dick (figuratively of course) because they married the wrong Japanese woman. Many long term expats are naieve about Japan, but theyve stayed there a long time because Japan is a relatively easy country to live in for a gaijin, especially one married to a Japanese, nice easy job as an english teacher, wife takes care of all the paperwork which is in japanese, translates everything.Loads of these chaps become overdependent on their wives and thus isolated from japanese society in a way a singleman is not, their wives are invariably english speakers so these chaps never learn japanese. I knew an Englishman with 2 kids married to a jgal been there 12years and couldnt speak Japanese!!!!!! Most Japanese men hand over their salary to their wife who pays all bills and gives the man allowance, thats alright for them they canread the bank statements mortgages and bills in Japanese, unlike our poor old gaijin whose wife has persuaded him to hand over all his eigo no sensei salary. Ive seen plenty of chaps stupid enough to do this. In the case of a divorce the racist Japanese judge awards the kids and all money to the wife wheras for a japanese couple they always award tothe husband (assuming he wants the kids which they rarely do).

 

[Xander]

Jgals go to gaijin bars to find a gaijin cock to suck, they all speak English well at these bars, sounds good ne. Well yes and no, if you look under 32 and dont speak Japanese then gaijin bars are ideal. Trouble is you aint the only gaijin in Tokyo, if you are 40 you will be competing for the jgirls with loads of gaijin 15 to 20 years your junior, draw your own conclusions.
Pay your 3000 yen and go to a nightclub frequented by young Japanese. Shibuya area is best. Loads of jgals will flock to talk to you since you will be the only gaijin, many are merely friendly or want to learn english but many want to suck a gaijin cock too. BUT your Japanese must be at least ok since none of them here will speak passable english.
If over 32 and cant speak Japanese there are bars in Roppongi such as muse with an older crowd but the internet is a better bet, loads of classifieds in tokyometropolis.com.Shops are great as is the ubiquitus Starbucks. Almost all Jgals love shopping and you should talk to them a lot about it, never discuss world events politics or history or anything serious...ever, shopping travel and (Im serious) disney characters and kawaii (cute) things generally. Many 40something Jgirls are regulars at Tokyo disneyland.

 

[mahmahmahmysharona]

Argo, good hunting in Tokyo old chap. 911 bar Gaspanic in Roppongi or any gaijin bar in Roppongi. Gaspanic Shibuya, Club Asia Shibuya Club Nuts Shibuya, Womb Shibuya, the latter 2 are harder to find. Honestly the bars names dont matter they are all the same in a given area, no one bar in Roppongi is any better than the other I cant remember thenames of most of the bars Ive been to anywhere...and it doesnt matter cause I havent been in Japan nearly 2 years and the scene changes fast there. there are basicly 2 types of bars which concern us, gaijin bars which are all over central Tokyo and indeed outer tokyo also, and places like club asiain Shibuya which unlike the gaijin bars you have to pay 3000 yen to enter and sometimes more. But the payoff is there will be no other gaijin there since no resident would pay 3000 yen to go to a club when they can go free to the gaijin bar.

 

[James Yang]

Denkicash, Im optimistic but I never said nampa was easy, quite the opposite. The reason I began playing nampa was that I was havingtrouble finding jgirls who I liked, its easy to get a fuck for free in Tokyo if you are not that fussy, but if you are it isnt easy,easier than Australia but not easy. I know what you mean, jgals certainly go for certain types over others.
They generally like the type known in Australia as "a white haired boy", young, softly spoken and definately not macho, the louder you are the more you gestulate and the quicker you get angry the more difficult it will be for you to get jgirls.

 

[Amphitrite]

Rathna, I can see that you are a man who truly knows Japan, many long term residents are still naieve about Japanese even after many years.You are right nampa is difficult, you are usually snubbed, you need a very strong mind to not let the rejection get you down, if you persist you will succeed.
Like you I rate Japan a medium country for sex, not nearly as good as LOS or PI or China, but better than Australia.It is easy to find free sex in Japan, but to get quality young girls for free if you are middle aged is very difficult.
For paid sex prices are high in Japan, but so are salaries ifyou live and work there as I did. Sex is around thesame price as here in Australia but if you look at the price for the same quality gal it is cheaper than in Oz. But salaries are far higher than in Oz, at least mine was, I never earned nearly asmuch here as in Japan, and had to work a lot harder for my money here too.
Above all guys take notice of Rathna, Ozgaijin and others who have warned against marrying a jgirl, it never works. I am glad an experienced Japan monger has agreed that the Japanese are the most racist bastards on earth, some guys dont believe me when I say that. Ishihara is a dog, no to call him a dog is to insult a dog, after all what is wrong with a dog? that bastard Ishihara is the most racist politician Ive ever seen. Most of the brothels he closed down employed Chinese girls and had foreign customers.

 

[Marian]

I am the guy who started this thread. So a big thanks to the guys who posted replies and to the webmaster as well. I am a South Asian happily married to a Japanese woman for the last 16 years but still finding women for sex. May be I'm a sexholic! As I met a fantastic Filipina recently, I think the search might end. As a person who knows Japan, the Japanese people, the Japanese language and their culture well, I would like to give my view on this thread. To begin with, Japanese people in general are the most racist/disgusting people on earth. Of course there are nice/friendly Japanese. But they are rare like orange diamonds and other rare gems.
The Tokyo Governer(The First Bastard of Tokyo), Shintaro Ishihara has added flavour to the anti-foreigner spirit in Japan. Mind you he was re-elected for a second term. He completely washed/closed a red light district(Shinjuku/Shin-Okubo) in Tokyo and was instrumental in closing other red light districts where foreign women worked and foreign men had fun. One of his sons is a central government minister. Once when I was discussing about racism in Japan with a goverment official, he told me that western countries invented racism and Japan can not do any thing with the matter.
During my years in Japan, I haven't seen a single foreigner doing nanpa inside stations or on the streets. But I have seen foreigners(mostly non-Japanese Asians) doing nanpa in parks with no success. Most of the time the women will snub. The least is, they will speak few words and leave. The situation inside clubs/bars is different. The chances of hitting the jackpot is high. But you may end up loosing your money.
I will not say that it is hard to find/fuck Japanese women cos I would be a liar as I am already married to a Japanese woman nor could I say that it is easy.
Finally, MOST Japanese women are good to be fucked ONLY. Just consider them as prostitutes/sex maniacs/nymphomaniacs. If you marry a Japanese woman(the wrong woman), you will end up loosing your dick!

 

[. .]

Just a few things to add to this interesting thread.

I think some guys have it super easy in Japan, they just have the right look and a knack for dealing with Japanese girls, there are litterally not enough hours in the day for these guys to handle all the girls that want their attention. I know 2 such guys, and us other 'avergae' guys have had to hammer it into them that it is only that easy for them not for every single gaijin. Some of the more optimistic posts in this thread sound like they are written by guys in the super easy category.

That said I'd agree that for pretty much any gaijin guy Japan is gonna be easier than home.

Well I say Japan, but really urban Japan. This whole nampa thing is all well and good in Tokyo where there is anonymity, numbers and a more cosmopolitan outlook. Out in the boonies (read any city with less than 1 million population) I don't think it's any easier for a guy to hook up be it casually or long term than their respective homelands (unless they are from some backward-ass country where men and women don't mix/date).

One of the reasons that nampa can work is because the women that respond to it simply wanna have more sex. Like other places, women who want more sex are unfairly looked down upon in Japan, so within their peer/social groups that are carefull to not appear to be sluty. If they are walking alone around a busy (annoymous) part of Tokyo (or similar big city) and a random dude approaches them and they like him, well, it's a chance for them to have some extra sex with no consequences and a love hotel is never too far away...
Of course most women are still victims of social conditioning that prevents them from doing this kind of thing

Regards adult friend finder which was mentioned a few times, same rules apply as using that site from any location - it's very competitive, unless you can put together a good profile and send decent mails that go beyond "hey baby wanna fuck?" or "kawaii, asobitai?" you will get no joy, if you have a solid profile then you might do quite well on there, but I still reckon you get maybe 1 meeting per 100 messages you send.

 

[Punky (Eeeevil Atheist)]

I'll be saying in shinjuku are there any intersting place for Nampa there?

 

[ladyofGod]

I really like this "nampa", i mean the word.
i'll get into it when i am in Japan at the end of March.
I'll be there for only six days so i do not know if i'll get something out of it.
I usually take three days to acquainte to a foreign envinronment.
It would be very helpful for me to know in which place to go. i do not mean the areas but the bars or clubs.
I am really concerned about the Japanese habits since the belong to a totally diffent colture. For example, woman usually give you a sign like in he west, like looking or such things or because they are shy they do not do it and you just have to appoach them anyway?

 

[Abs]

Yes I agree on the nampa thread, please post link to it. Also comparative nampa-type attitude elsewhere.