sy barite
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I used to have that problem too, busting too soon. Especially when I was younger. I don't know if there's an answer that works for everyone, but for me it was a combination of the right women and learning control.
An orgasm is essentially a muscle contraction and there are things you can do to control and delay. Breath is a big part of it. The next time you are about to come, whether it's by your own hand or with a woman, slow down before you get to the point of no return and breathe. Breathe and try to relax everywhere, but especially there. If you resume immediately, you'll approach the point of return more quickly, but just repeat the above process until you learn control. If you're with a woman, she'll have to be patient. Aside from the obvious benefit of fucking longer, I also found that this process leads to more intense orgasms.
As for the right woman, there are a couple of factors there. I always thought I was a single blast kind of guy, but when I started practicing the above describe technique--in my 40s--I started coming twice in a session without ever taking my dick out, just staying hard inside her.
An orgasm is essentially a muscle contraction and there are things you can do to control and delay. Breath is a big part of it. The next time you are about to come, whether it's by your own hand or with a woman, slow down before you get to the point of no return and breathe. Breathe and try to relax everywhere, but especially there. If you resume immediately, you'll approach the point of return more quickly, but just repeat the above process until you learn control. If you're with a woman, she'll have to be patient. Aside from the obvious benefit of fucking longer, I also found that this process leads to more intense orgasms.
As for the right woman, there are a couple of factors there. I always thought I was a single blast kind of guy, but when I started practicing the above describe technique--in my 40s--I started coming twice in a session without ever taking my dick out, just staying hard inside her.