Question How do I last long? Any tips?

I used to have that problem too, busting too soon. Especially when I was younger. I don't know if there's an answer that works for everyone, but for me it was a combination of the right women and learning control.

An orgasm is essentially a muscle contraction and there are things you can do to control and delay. Breath is a big part of it. The next time you are about to come, whether it's by your own hand or with a woman, slow down before you get to the point of no return and breathe. Breathe and try to relax everywhere, but especially there. If you resume immediately, you'll approach the point of return more quickly, but just repeat the above process until you learn control. If you're with a woman, she'll have to be patient. Aside from the obvious benefit of fucking longer, I also found that this process leads to more intense orgasms.

As for the right woman, there are a couple of factors there. I always thought I was a single blast kind of guy, but when I started practicing the above describe technique--in my 40s--I started coming twice in a session without ever taking my dick out, just staying hard inside her.
 
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Dude did u even read the op. He doesn’t have an issue staying hard. His problem is he blows his wad to quick….
That's too bad. Blowing your wad too quick may be just as bad as not getting hard in the first place. 🤣

I heard that putting on a cock ring may keep it hard for a while. I wouldn't know though. I never had to resort to one.
 
Get some Priligy and figure out the dose that's right for you. You have to be careful with it though, if you take too much, it's literally impossible to come. Had couple of sessions with an SP after taking too much Priligy and damn it sucks to leave without being able to come and then later jerk off at home.
 
Years ago a former girlfriend told me after our break-up that guys use a numbing spray on their dicks that prevents early ejaculation...I'm sure she told me so i would know she was getting hers without me..I was never an early load blower ......google..penis spray for early ejaculation
 
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On option is using numbing cream before 10 minutes before the session.
You can find this one in Walmart, Amazon and Shoppers:

Durex Duration Delay Gel For Men​



If you jerk off sometimes, use it to see how it works for you. Change the amount of cream to find the optimum amount. I prefer Gels over the sprays because it's easier to control how much numbing gel/spray you get.

I prefer wash it out before the sessions. It's a good idea if you use a condom BJ after using numbing spray or cream.

A side effect of numbing things is that sometimes you can't get HARD.
So a combination of Cialis or Viagra and numbing spray/cream is PERFECT: BIG - HARD - LAST LONG
 
Get some Priligy and figure out the dose that's right for you. You have to be careful with it though, if you take too much, it's literally impossible to come. Had couple of sessions with an SP after taking too much Priligy and damn it sucks to leave without being able to come and then later jerk off at home.
Over The Counter?
 
Try ginseng powder with hot water or an inch of ginger blend with carrot or banana with some water
 
do you have issues with Premature Ejaculation?

"Natural Calm, magnesium supplement has honestly been the only thing that ever helped me. Increased me from under 2 mins to 20-30 min average. I never took this supplement for PE but noticed after taking for a few weeks this extra benefit. Since most westerners are magnesium deficient anyways, wouldn't hurt to try this."
 
Most I got was 5 in 5 hours, she had about 20. I was 20 and she was 19. Almost triple that age now so down to 3 in 3 hours then 3 days rest.
Long ago and far away, my then girlfriend (later first wife) and I shacked up at a seedy motel, we were both 18 at the time. I came 10 times that long night, sounds impossible but true. Now down to once a day or every other day, although I did have two in three hours in the recent past.
More orgasms at a time depend on the partner, mental state, the venue, physical condition at the time, and how strongly the largest sex organ, the brain , is providing the desire.
 
Agree - in late 50’s now and with the right partner could still enjoy almost every day, need a short break after 3 day runs though.
 
1) mentally disassociate from time to time
2) most important, don’t just thrust until you finish. Read the girls responses and mix it up. Like do things like just leave your d in her and caress her body or kiss her all over.

Mixing up your rhythm goes a long way.
 
I personally would avoid drugs for the gear of side effects
 
Jerk off before you go to your session ? And about 30mins before you start give the head of your cock a couple sprays of a product called “Stud 100” it’s a de-sensitize spray
You can get it at any sex shop ., you will pound her till she can’t take it any more
 
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