How often do you go to a spa for a session?

[Sundance69]

For 80% of the absolute losers here, its a parasocial addiction.

Its the only human physical and social contact they experience, being so undesireable, not just in a sexual manner but even as a human.

Off putting, cheap/broke, literal mental issues, stinky, weird. I am not sure we can say its an addiction as much as its the last resort for the sad and hopeless here.

And NONE of them are going to have an epiphany because of these kinds of threads... they will dig in deeper.

I'm not sure that's the case, most of the members I know are married, in pretty good situations, and need a little relief and relaxation from time to time.

 

[Sundance69]

It is true but in life 80% of the girls would only date the top 20% of guys (obviously some of these guys are bottom 20% but same for the girls no matter how they are propped up)so if you are not having sex at least pay for it instead of missing out indefinately. That is a breath of fresh air. But I need balance and different social sets to keep me in check with a diversity of activity not just sex. I do like having a sex life that is not all bad strings attached like relationships can be for me. I thought I would get better a spas from this board but not really I can see alot of these guys are a part of the hustle. It is an addiction if it makes your life unmanageable and some play your ego to get alligned with their stupid life. You could say caffienne is addictive but it is also a great fitness supplement for people with excellant health. I was isolated by health and mobility so I hobbied alot but I so not want to feel like a miscreant so I do It construtively now and if it makes you unhappy you are not good at it and it is an addiction. I rant but I have enjoyed your input.

Many addictions ... but all limited, drugs, alcohol, fitness, golf, event like hockey games or baseball games, bike riding, hiking, charity work ... and maybe a few who are out for a visit. You'll note sex addictions account for only 3% to 6% ....

 

[boeing707]

Again those are the excuses of addicts to make things right. If you are so sure this is all very innocent, and compare going for sex to a game of golf, post your selfies with spa workers on facebook, tell to your colleagues or wifes how much fun you had. The excuses are no different from alcoholics who claim they can stop anytime, that it's all just a little fun, no harm done. Your neurological pathways are now hard wired to make you believe this behavior is normal.

The truth is that it is harmful behavior, and it does hurt others. And I can speak freely about it because I was that kind of person. I've been cheating on my wife for many years, spent household money on prostitution, that we could have used for better things. Because let's please be honest, we are John's visiting prostitutes, if you want to call it a hobby or massage, fine, delude yourself. I am done pretending. And it is an addiction, a road to nowhere. Studies have shown most sex addicts, like other addicts, need more and more stimulus, more frequent visits, to feed the need. The outcome is criminal activities, divorce, bankruptcy, severe depression, impotence (yes really), and suicide. It is a demon I am fighting every day.

 

[BasedD]

Again those are the excuses of addicts to make things right. If you are so sure this is all very innocent, and compare going for sex to a game of golf, post your selfies with spa workers on facebook, tell to your colleagues or wifes how much fun you had. The excuses are no different from alcoholics who claim they can stop anytime, that it's all just a little fun, no harm done. Your neurological pathways are now hard wired to make you believe this behavior is normal.

The truth is that it is harmful behavior, and it does hurt others. And I can speak freely about it because I was that kind of person. I've been cheating on my wife for many years, spent household money on prostitution, that we could have used for better things. Because let's please be honest, we are John's visiting prostitutes, if you want to call it a hobby or massage, fine, delude yourself. I am done pretending. And it is an addiction, a road to nowhere. Studies have shown most sex addicts, like other addicts, need more and more stimulus, more frequent visits, to feed the need. The outcome is criminal activities, divorce, bankruptcy, severe depression, impotence (yes really), and suicide. It is a demon I am fighting every day.

Stop listening to so much Jordan Peterson. If you are having a mid life crisis, have it on a forum that will offer support.

Dont be cringe on a dick tugging forum, cmon dude.

 

[boeing707]

Dont be cringe on a dick tugging forum, cmon dude.

Well if having your dick tugged is what your entire pathetic life revolves around, I'd say the midlife crisis suits you rather well. Enjoy your days filled with "ooh baby your body so soft", "turn around now honey", "want hard or soft", and so on, until after an hour, you're back on the pavement with a limp dick waiting for the next turn.

 

[BasedD]

Well if having your dick tugged is what your entire pathetic life revolves around, I'd say the midlife crisis suits you rather well. Enjoy your days filled with "ooh baby your body so soft", "turn around now honey", "want hard or soft", and so on, until after an hour, you're back on the pavement with a limp dick waiting for the next turn.

I JUST said to not be cringe and you doubled down on it.

You dont follow instructions well, thats a sign of a deep mental flaw. Seek help, seek Jesus, seek another forum to dampen with your weird tears.

 

[Sundance69]

Again those are the excuses of addicts to make things right. If you are so sure this is all very innocent, and compare going for sex to a game of golf, post your selfies with spa workers on facebook, tell to your colleagues or wifes how much fun you had. The excuses are no different from alcoholics who claim they can stop anytime, that it's all just a little fun, no harm done. Your neurological pathways are now hard wired to make you believe this behavior is normal.

The truth is that it is harmful behavior, and it does hurt others. And I can speak freely about it because I was that kind of person. I've been cheating on my wife for many years, spent household money on prostitution, that we could have used for better things. Because let's please be honest, we are John's visiting prostitutes, if you want to call it a hobby or massage, fine, delude yourself. I am done pretending. And it is an addiction, a road to nowhere. Studies have shown most sex addicts, like other addicts, need more and more stimulus, more frequent visits, to feed the need. The outcome is criminal activities, divorce, bankruptcy, severe depression, impotence (yes really), and suicide. It is a demon I am fighting every day.

Good luck with your battle, you need to be happy with your life and your choices. Be safe, take care. Thanks for the insight.