SOrry I missed this one....
Umm, I've seen some sex scenes and "most beautiful" is not the words I'd use to describe them. Degrading? Humiliating? Dehumanizing? Disgusting? might be more appropriate.
So, why do it? I mean if the focus and you avoided any interaction with the other guy, then him being there is pretty much irrelevant no?
I look at it this way: I don't have to shit into a bowl, sit down at the kitchen table and dig in with a big spoon to know I wouldn't like it. Does that make me insecure or narrow minded? No. It means I know myself, what I like, what I don't like and just because something isn't for me, doesn't make me anything other than me.
This SO reminds me of a discussion years ago at "the other board" about xtabi. What happens is single guys are frowned upon. So guys will go out and get escorts and attend a function. To the point where only about 20% are actual swingers, the rest are single guys with escorts. My take was: why pay to take an escort to a place where you swap escorts with someone else? Why not just book that fricken escort to begin with?
As for the UFC: I can say unequivocally that yeah, I admire the guy's physique. I mean, holy crap these guys are R I P P E D (some of them anyways, Big Country is anything but ripped lol). Does it mean I want to have sex with them? Hell no. It's kind of like a Bugatti Veyron: I can admire it's design, it's performance, everyting. Will I drive one? Hell no.......
Umm, I've seen some sex scenes and "most beautiful" is not the words I'd use to describe them. Degrading? Humiliating? Dehumanizing? Disgusting? might be more appropriate.
So, why do it? I mean if the focus and you avoided any interaction with the other guy, then him being there is pretty much irrelevant no?
I look at it this way: I don't have to shit into a bowl, sit down at the kitchen table and dig in with a big spoon to know I wouldn't like it. Does that make me insecure or narrow minded? No. It means I know myself, what I like, what I don't like and just because something isn't for me, doesn't make me anything other than me.
This SO reminds me of a discussion years ago at "the other board" about xtabi. What happens is single guys are frowned upon. So guys will go out and get escorts and attend a function. To the point where only about 20% are actual swingers, the rest are single guys with escorts. My take was: why pay to take an escort to a place where you swap escorts with someone else? Why not just book that fricken escort to begin with?
As for the UFC: I can say unequivocally that yeah, I admire the guy's physique. I mean, holy crap these guys are R I P P E D (some of them anyways, Big Country is anything but ripped lol). Does it mean I want to have sex with them? Hell no. It's kind of like a Bugatti Veyron: I can admire it's design, it's performance, everyting. Will I drive one? Hell no.......