Jesus, you two are like pit bulls! LOL
Every one knows that variety is the spice of life, and I'm not going to "pull a Fuji" and claim that it is somewhere deeply ingrained in human DNA, to wanna have multiple sex partners, but there may in fact be some truth to that, I don't know... But I do know, that things can get stale after awhile. This being the case, some couples benefit from doing things to mix things up from time to time. Whether that be with sexy outfits, or new positions, or sex toys, sex movies, fetishes, dirty weekends, 3ways, more ways whatever works for you. But this should be used from time to time to infuse some excitement, and should not become the norm.
In OUR case, we have LOTS of fun, but at the end of the day, (and I'm speaking for my own relationship only) the best sex Mrs. CG and I have is still with JUST each other. Just last night, Mrs. CG went out with a new GF she's been starting to see, and through out the evening I was teasing her via IM, and when she got home at about 11:00ish, she and I had some of the most passionate sex we've ever had. It was just her and I, and lots of stories and imagery of all the things we've experienced together over the last 23 years, (and a few new ones). I'll spare you most of the intimate details, But at one point during a prolonged length of time in cowgirl, our eyes met, and we both simultaneously said, "OMG I love fucking you!" and we embraced in an extended DFK, culminating with a very intense mutual orgasm. Suffice to say, it was incredibly satisfying for the both of us.
I guess what I'm saying is our sexual proclivities and dalliances ENHANCE our own sex life together, it doesn't REPLACE it.
And tboy, your TBC'd scenario? :roll: Not gonna happen. I must be missing that gene, I just don't see it. I just love bald pussy too much!