I broke the golden rule

[krayjee]

Not the first time and probably not the last time for me, but yes, I fell for a lady.

It was a real good run, almost 2 years, weekly visits, everything I wanted, as many times as I wanted (cause I’m mega msog guy), made me feel like I was number 1 in the world.
Knew it was too good to last forever, and subconsciously, I’m kinda glad it’s over, BUT!

The pain! Not throw myself off a cliff pain, but still, it shocks me how it’s affected me.
The ending wasn’t anything too dramatic, in fact, she still wants me to visit her at the spa ( she’s actually part owner of 2 holistics), but I know it’s better to just move on and get over it.

Did she lead me on, fool me, trick me? No, she just did her job very well and I was just a very happy loyal customer who foolishly thought of it as more, when it was just business as usual. Oh the pain....

Hangdai my friend, I have been there 8-9 yrs ago with a Viet girl from Invisible Touch and had learnt my lesson very well. It was lots of fun while it lasted. Thank God I found a replacement Korean girl in 2 weeks and much more fun. Falling in love with girls from this industry is never a good thing. It's a game, just a very dangerous game we all love to play and the weaker person who fell in love always get hurt at the end.
I have already posted a few yrs back how I have mastered this game. I have a very kind heart and tend to fall in love easily when I find the right girl. So I always make sure I have at least 2-3 girls in my hands at the same time all the time when I am playing this game. I just broke up with one very recently after having fun for over a yr. She has a husband and a boy friend and yet she loves playing with me so you can see clearly loyalty doesn't exists with these women in this industry. No monetary exchange involve, just the door fees. We were like lovers , we go out regularly for dinner and shopping and all.
But a few weeks ago she said no more sex with me cuz I broke her heart and she doesn't want to get hurt again..lol. It bothers me a bit at first but no big deal cuz I already have 2 other girls in hand and always available whenever I want. The funniest thing was while I was texting her how much I am going to miss making love to her and at the same time I was texting with another girl how much fun she was last night. lol. Btw..always make sure you don't send the texts to the wrong girl while texting 2 girls at the same time. I lost one civilian girl a few yrs back by sending the wrong text written for a Mpa...lol.
The best you can do now is leave the past behind, go out and play harder, you will forget her in no time. Just make sure you have 2-3 favs all the time in hand this time.

 

[qinging]

Not the first time and probably not the last time for me, but yes, I fell for a lady.

It was a real good run, almost 2 years, weekly visits, everything I wanted, as many times as I wanted (cause I’m mega msog guy), made me feel like I was number 1 in the world.
Knew it was too good to last forever, and subconsciously, I’m kinda glad it’s over, BUT!

The pain! Not throw myself off a cliff pain, but still, it shocks me how it’s affected me.
The ending wasn’t anything too dramatic, in fact, she still wants me to visit her at the spa ( she’s actually part owner of 2 holistics), but I know it’s better to just move on and get over it.

Did she lead me on, fool me, trick me? No, she just did her job very well and I was just a very happy loyal customer who foolishly thought of it as more, when it was just business as usual. Oh the pain....

Looks good on yuh dick head ......glad to see she got m$og as well....

 

[JimiNY]

I have to tell you guys and this is probably the best venue to do so. Met a Penthouse Pet through a business venture in the US. Not going to mention any names but at that point she was very high priced. We just clicked after a few sessions and she asked me if I would like to see her more steadily. Though every function of my body said this is okay, after a month of us flying back and forth, I had to end the most glorious fling that most guys would envy. ...and gorgeous? We were at a bar and she said "watch this". She was wearing a one piece black mohair mini, tight fitting and she got up and stood at the bar. Now, at this point, guys had already noticed her with me but after a few moments they were just hitting on her like crazy.
It may have gone on for a while but I could see that she was talking longer term. A gold digger? ....maybe but all wish to settle eventually.
Love is a function of awareness, that was the one function missing here.

 

[hangul99]

Read the story of "The Frog and the Scorpion" . Then learn from it.

 

[JimiNY]

Read the story of "The Frog and the Scorpion" . Then learn from it.

Haha, twas many moons ago my friend. Not sure if you enjoy spooning or if you were born in 99, either way, it was before that. Maybe if I had read it before this and many other experiences, things may have been different, but I doubt it.....I would not have changed a thing in my past.
You have obviously read it and learned a few things, whats it about?

 

[Steeper]

We are only a ATM for the girls weekly paycheck. But the ride is so good till crying time.

 

[hangul99]

Haha, twas many moons ago my friend. Not sure if you enjoy spooning or if you were born in 99, either way, it was before that. Maybe if I had read it before this and many other experiences, things may have been different, but I doubt it.....I would not have changed a thing in my past.
You have obviously read it and learned a few things, whats it about?

My post was more so directed at the OP. But hear you go.

A scorpion asks a frog to carry it across a river. The frog hesitates, afraid of being stung, but the scorpion argues that if it did so, they would both drown. Considering this, the frog agrees, but midway across the river the scorpion does indeed sting the frog, dooming them both. When the frog asks the scorpion why, the scorpion replies that it was in its nature to do so.

 

[Ursus]

Double post. My apologies.

 

[Hangdai]

Usually I’ve been very good with limiting my visits with certain ladies, you know, the ones that really drive you crazy.
This one just kinda got out of hand, just like a true addiction.
I should of known better, and that’s the lesson I hope most take away from this.
Some guys have a no repeat rule, but I don’t believe in that at all. Sticking with something good is great, and I love repeating, but it shouldn’t be too often , or just as KJ mentioned, have several in rotation to lessen the hurt if they just disappear one day.

 

[Ursus]

No repeat rule is just inefficient. It cost money to search for anything.

Just always remember that these women you meet would abort their own children if it best suited their current needs. So, again, any woman who would kill their own child, obviously isn't going to care too much for you. Women have no thoughts about men except for what men can do for them. If you can't get them where they want to be, you basically don't exist in their mind. If you can get them where they want to be, you only exist until you bring them there, and then they will start looking to leave you for something better.

I know every woman I meet hates me, simply because I am a man. I never think they have true feelings for me. My wife of 19 years, who I have taken shopping more than 30 times in the past 2 years in order to buy her clothes and shoes and purses, doesn't give 2 shits about me. And Angela, who I have booked close to 100 times, doesn't care even 1/1000th of a percent about me. That is just the nature of women. You will never change their nature.

If I am in need of oil, I will go to the middle east and ask the Saudis for it. If I am in need of fresh water, I will go to Canada and ask the Canadians for it. If I am in need of great Sushi, I will go to Japan to find it. Get my point? Women are incapable of caring for others. So don't waste your time trying to get a woman to care for you.

 

[Ursus]

Okay, think about it another way Hangdai.

Scenario A: Your wife loses her job

What do you do? You genuinely feel sorry for her, you promise to help her and you spend all your time, effort and money doing so. You never think about leaving her and it makes no difference to you how long she is unemployed or what type of job she gets afterwards. As long as she is happy, you are A-OK with it all.

Scenario B: You lose your Job

What does your wife do? She immediately starts thinking about how much her life will be affected and how unfair it is to her that her husband lost his job and only she is working. She will start running different scenarios through her head as to whether she should leave you, or punish you in some way etc. She will become bitter towards you, angry and start with-holding sex until you find a job again or in some way give her more wealth.

 

[gcoogieben]

All this shows to everyone is how badly your experience of relationships has been.

 

[Leviathan]

Ursula . Take a good look in the mirror and be honest with yourself ? You fish in a polluted lake you get toxic fish. You fish in a luxury lake you get gold diggers. You fish in Leo List you get bottom feeders . Lol lol

This goes for all of us. We become the very people we said never wanted to be. But rationalize to make ourselves feel better to save our own fragile ego and insecurities.

http://www.honestcasanova.com/blog/certain-men-attract-wrong-women/

The second category is the guy who has a history of attracting the wrong women into his life. It’s like he is somewhat of a shit magnet, and he just lets these turds set up shop in his life and fuck it up. These guys have a quality problem. They usually are socially adept enough to get a girl to sleep with him, but the physical and personal qualities of the women usually aren’t up to the standard he really wants.

When this problem is left to fester, these guys become bitter, angry, women haters who complain about how bad women are. They usually congregate in some toxic arm of a red pill forum where they tarnish every woman with the same brush, and bitch, moan and complain about women in an echo chamber of other butthurt men.

But here is the kicker: If you have a history of attracting sub-standard women into your life, YOU’RE THE PROBLEM, not them.

We are all responsible for the people we allow into our lives. And if we aren’t happy with that quality, you don’t get to be a little bitch and blame the rest of the world for it, you need to solve that problem like a goddamn man.

But there are two facts that you need to understand:

YOU AND ONLY YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOW INTO YOUR LIFE.
This point is so important I had to mention it twice. When we accept responsibility for something, we can either change it or accept the reason why things never changed (AKA: you didn’t do shit about it). It’s the law of attraction – you get what you deserve. Taking responsibility is about taking control of everything, not being a little fucking victim, and consciously steering your life in the direction you want it to go instead of just leaving it to luck and up to “the universe” (FYI: The universe doesn’t care about what you want, it cares about what it wants).

THERE IS A MASSIVE ABUNDANCE OF AMAZING WOMEN OUT THERE.
Yes, there are plenty of good eggs out there. In fact, there are tonnes of them. Just because your limited experience is telling you that that is the truth, it doesn’t mean it to be completely true when you take into account the rest of the world. Having a negative perception of women becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy: Expect shit, you’ll get shit. Expect brilliance, you’ll get brilliance.

Yes, you’ve been burned before. I get it. Everyone has. Yes, I know your ego hurts. Suck it up and stop complaining.

Don’t get bitter, get better.

 

[yelomonkey]

Well said!

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[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Ursula . Take a good look in the mirror and be honest with yourself ? You fish in a polluted lake you get toxic fish.

http://www.honestcasanova.com/blog/certain-men-attract-wrong-women/

The second category is the guy who has a history of attracting the wrong women into his life. It’s like he is somewhat of a shit magnet, and he just lets these turds set up shop in his life and fuck it up. These guys have a quality problem. They usually are socially adept enough to get a girl to sleep with him, but the physical and personal qualities of the women usually aren’t up to the standard he really wants.

When this problem is left to fester, these guys become bitter, angry, women haters who complain about how bad women are. They usually congregate in some toxic arm of a red pill forum where they tarnish every woman with the same brush, and bitch, moan and complain about women in an echo chamber of other butthurt men.

But here is the kicker: If you have a history of attracting sub-standard women into your life, YOU’RE THE PROBLEM, not them.

We are all responsible for the people we allow into our lives. And if we aren’t happy with that quality, you don’t get to be a little bitch and blame the rest of the world for it, you need to solve that problem like a goddamn man.

But there are two facts that you need to understand:

YOU AND ONLY YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOW INTO YOUR LIFE.
This point is so important I had to mention it twice. When we accept responsibility for something, we can either change it or accept the reason why things never changed (AKA: you didn’t do shit about it). It’s the law of attraction – you get what you deserve. Taking responsibility is about taking control of everything, not being a little fucking victim, and consciously steering your life in the direction you want it to go instead of just leaving it to luck and up to “the universe” (FYI: The universe doesn’t care about what you want, it cares about what it wants).

THERE IS A MASSIVE ABUNDANCE OF AMAZING WOMEN OUT THERE.
Yes, there are plenty of good eggs out there. In fact, there are tonnes of them. Just because your limited experience is telling you that that is the truth, it doesn’t mean it to be completely true when you take into account the rest of the world. Having a negative perception of women becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy: Expect shit, you’ll get shit. Expect brilliance, you’ll get brilliance.

Yes, you’ve been burned before. I get it. Everyone has. Yes, I know your ego hurts. Suck it up and stop complaining.

Don’t get bitter, get better.

Isn't this why we come into this so called "hobby"? To avoid the head games we get sucked into in the civilian world. It's a business transaction. Period.

 

[Leviathan]

True if you can control it and not let it control you. But for many it goes from oh only 1 time to 1000s. It’s like the vortex all life consuming. Once it sucks you in it takes a tremendous amount of fortitude and mental & emotional strength to climb out and never return.

Isn't this why we come into this so called "hobby"? To avoid the head games we get sucked into in the civilian world. It's a business transaction. Period.

 

[JimiNY]

fortitude

What a great word!
Lust is a weakness of character and for the male species, driving the primal subconscious urge to procreate. If you throw sexually attractive females into the mix and doing what they do best, in an intentional and primal sense as well, it is pretty hard not to repeat once you have been bitten. Hence the word fortitude.

 

[bumzbumz]

Come on. Lets be serious. No-one is tricking us. Guys know fully well when they pay someone for a service, it is a business transaction. It is not the civilian world we are talking about. That's a different story. So no we HAVE NOT been tricked. You allow yourself to be tricked. These sex workers are there for a reason: to take your money as much as possible. nothing wrong with it because thats the job description. if you think they are there to be like Mother Theresa, there are lots of hospitals out there to help you differentiate between reality and illusion.

I totally agree my "trick" comment comes from the stories I hear about guys lending money to MPAs but even that isn't really a trick at all.

 

[Kawailuvr]

I’ve said it many times here ,,
Women in this industry are a special kind of whore
They are dragons and well suited for this industry
Nasty nasty pigs they are , so that’s how I treat them , I fuck the shit out of them . Pull their hair , slap their asses and cum all over them when it’s time to . Their pussies are wet because of it and we pay and they receive thats it ! To even consider that you have a feeling for these disgusting women is ridiculous!! This has nothing to do with hating women it has to do with dealing with a situation you put yourself in. You aren’t going to a church function looking for a great lady to take home to mom ? Wtf
We are entering whore houses and fucking whores for money . These women accept it cause they signed up to be whores so why must we think of them as anything else but whores ??
To even consider to have feelings for a women that chooses to do this line of work is absolutely stupid if you ask me .
How can a man even think that one second with a hooker is anything but her acting until she gets paid when time is up ? That is the definition of a whore a actress imho .
It’s fantasy no less , like shopping for groceries ? What is your choice today ? Chicken or fish for dinner ,, lol

 

[Ursus]

I am not into hurting people, so I don't try to hurt them.

Not my style.