I broke the golden rule

[Hangdai]

Just don't fall for her!
ps. Remember it is just a business transaction.

Won’t be a problem with her, even though I immensely enjoyed the session, there was absolutely no emotional connection, at this visit.

 

[bumzbumz]

Great advice, that’s so true, all of us know that the lady does see many other men, but jealousy is kept at bay cause in the time you are with the lady, I don’t “see” any other guys.
But the mental image or the realization in your friends example, that he was not even 1% more special has such a effect on a mans emotion.
Men’s physical needs are easily met, it’s the emotional ones that carry 10x the impact.

well a lot know the girl is playing with other men but from what I saw most of those guys also think they can take the girl away from it.

 

[Ursus]

It is your fault that you feel this way. She works in the capacity of a sex worker, which implies volume and a lack of real connection. You then went to her and tried to make a connection. Your fault. Not hers.

Hangdai, try a Tgirl and it will change your entire perspective. It is impossible to get jealous of a Tgirl and they never play games on you. Tgirls have great skill, are usually done up really well, menus are at the top, bjs are phenomenol. Tgirls are really a great option.

Is there really any different between getting a bj from a Tgirl or a bio-female. I say no.

 

[krayjee]

A good friend of mine was seeing an MPA outside of the normal place of service and fell in love with her and knew the complications. The MPA told him she never saw any clients outside of work.. well well.. he some how saw some of her text messages and he was number 4 of active boyfriends she was seeing weekly and providing services at her place or their places.. he is devastated and I urged him to write his story on here to help guys on the fence of should I or should I not... bottom line is, if you don't like to share your woman with anyone then you can stick with the golden rule and save yourself alot of stress etc.. it's not worth it..

Another willing victim..lol. I only do this with you is their fav line in this business. They did it with so many other guys and they all have 3-4 guys (regular cash cows) on long leashes all the time. Don't ever fall in love with any MPA if you don't have a big heart that is willing to share with others. Pls remember, it's their job and strictly a job to them. They don't like someone clinging to them like a leech.

I have been in this hobby for years and I have had some MPAs who truly fell in love with me and some to a point they couldn't live without me, moved in with me and yet they still see someone else behind my back on occasion, especially when we have a fight or arguments and such. All of these girls love keeping their favorite regulars ' numbers handy so they have a shoulder to cry on when in need. Loyalty doesn't exists in their world.

The golden rule !!! It's easy to say but not that easy when you ran into a real good player, especially when you are having trouble at home with sex life or if you are single and lonely. The best way is to have 2-3 favs in hand all the time and have fun. That way, you always have someone when one didn't work out any more. Another one to be careful is spending overnight with the girl. This one is one of the most dangerous one to get attached easily to each other and you are looking for big trouble if things didn't work out.

BTW... I know some of the guys here are showing whatever I post here to some of my girls. No need for that. I already told my girls what I was posting here and they themselves have been reading these regularly as well. One more thing, I will not give out or share any detail info of my girls through PM to anyone any more cuz some guys do not respect the rule of private message and showing them to the girls. Thank God, my ladies are very open minded, very understanding and know me well .

 

[TheKWguy]

spending overnight with the girl means you see the real girl it the morning. You might not like what you see, that is even more dangerous then getting attached and by that time it might be too late haha

 

[TheKWguy]

 

[Leviathan]

The MPA sees multiple guys daily for 2 years. Craves financial peace of mind and stability after being dumped by dead beat civi bf and husbands and for left alone scared fending for themselves,with kids. in a country with no safety net. Learned that Emotional & sexual connection is fleeting.

The client sees multiple MPA/SP weekly for 2 years. Craves emotional connection after being spurned by civi girls and wives. Learned that financial stability and sexual connection is fleeting.

The expectation gap is at polar opposite ends of the spectrum. I guess emotional attachment is all relative?

There is no enemy. The enemy is yourself and the perceptions shaped by life narrow passage.

 

[krayjee]

Won’t be a problem with her, even though I immensely enjoyed the session, there was absolutely no emotional connection, at this visit.

Here is a little reminder...

 

[HonestBob]

Pimp krayjee Multiple Handles suggests to the community of clients that read this forum, that in order to handle 1 friend prostitute the client needs to have 3 friend prostitutes. This makes total sense from the pimp perspective, the more clients are involved with the more prostitute, the pimp benefits more. The pimp has the chance to promote more prostitutes or places, which he actually always does, as he extends his influence over your mind through your sexual addiction.

Now, Hangdai, you are a client. You don't make money from prostitutes, you spend money with prostitutes. Trying to forget one prostitute by getting involved with another one, or even with more than one, keeps your mind unclear and your pocket empty. Simple math should tell you that 3 "prostitute friends" cost a client more than 1 "prostitute friend". And even worse, the client situation becomes more complicated. You will get more headaches this way! And you will most likely want to see all 3 now. This is not a cure for an obsessed client by any stretch of imagination.

I suggest to you, Hangdai, and any other client/regular that has fantasies that a prostitute cares about them as a normal woman not as a low life service provider. Do the following test. Test Your Relationship with a Prostitute. It is simple, it doesn't cost you money or headaches, and it also reveals you the truth.

Whenever you feel the urge to meet the prostitute that you are infatuated with, take your phone and do text with her the following.
Regular (e.g. H): "Hi Honey!"
Prostitute (e.g. C): "Hi Baby!"
Regular (e.g. H): "I miss you!"
Prostitute (e.g. C): "I love you! Coming today?"
Regular (e.g. H): "Between us something is special. I will come to see you only if I don't pay you any tips. We just do it because we like each other. When can I come? Can I come today? Remember, no tips involved."
Wait for an answer, and Do Not go there until "your loved one" agrees with the fact that you don't pay her a dime for sex.

You repeat this anytime you think about that prostitute that torments your imagination. This will cure you in a few months in a healthy way. It will Test Your Relationship with a Prostitute. Try it, and let us know how it went...

 

[krayjee]

 

[Ursus]

I am not a hater Krayjee, but why use your Leviathan handle to upvote your Krayjee comment?

It's weak.

 

[Ursus]

Hangdai,

If your handle avatar is Sweet Alice many times over, why not make her your #1 Go To Companion - 1gtc?

Even when Alice tells me I am handsome, she still refsues to take my appt requests.

Sigh. She is so pretty, but way too fiesty for my goodness sake.

 

[Ursus]

Hangdai,

Never worry about the loss of any beauty. Their beauty fades and then they are worth nothing.

Example:



Hillary now wears a back brace and a scarf to cover it up. Poor Bill. No wonder he chased Monica in the Oval office.

 

[Hangdai]

Hangdai,

If your handle avatar is Sweet Alice many times over, why not make her your #1 Go To Companion - 1gtc?

Even when Alice tells me I am handsome, she still refsues to take my appt requests.

Sigh. She is so pretty, but way too fiesty for my goodness sake.

Sweet Alice is a perfect example of how the client/provider relationship should work.

Even though I messed up with the lady I started this thread is about, when I first met Sweet Alice, she blew me away, literally and figuratively.
I knew if I saw her more than once per 2 months, I would be in big trouble, so I kept it at the perfect frequency to meet my desires without fucking with my emotions.
She also is good at saying the right things but not saying in a way that you take her literally, kinda hard to describe.
I love what she tells me, but then I don’t really “believe” her, not saying she lies, she’s just being the perfect fantasy girlfriend.
I am addicted to Sweet Alice, but in a different way

 

[Hangdai]

I suggest to you, Hangdai, and any other client/regular that has fantasies that a prostitute cares about them as a normal woman not as a low life service provider. Do the following test. Test Your Relationship with a Prostitute. It is simple, it doesn't cost you money or headaches, and it also reveals you the truth.

Whenever you feel the urge to meet the prostitute that you are infatuated with, take your phone and do text with her the following.
Regular (e.g. H): "Hi Honey!"
Prostitute (e.g. C): "Hi Baby!"
Regular (e.g. H): "I miss you!"
Prostitute (e.g. C): "I love you! Coming today?"
Regular (e.g. H): "Between us something is special. I will come to see you only if I don't pay you any tips. We just do it because we like each other. When can I come? Can I come today? Remember, no tips involved."
Wait for an answer, and Do Not go there until "your loved one" agrees with the fact that you don't pay her a dime for sex.

You repeat this anytime you think about that prostitute that torments your imagination. This will cure you in a few months in a healthy way. It will Test Your Relationship with a Prostitute. Try it, and let us know how it went...

I get what your point is.

I’ll deal with my internal emotional issues in my own way without dragging her into it.
She’s done nothing wrong, I have no malice towards her.
The one thing I’ve learned as compared to the past is to keep things civil, not put the lady through any test, or drama.
It is the first instinct to lash out at those you care about (real or imagined).

 

[Ursus]

Wives demand money, so is their love not real?

Girlfriends demand money, so is their love not real?

Answer: No, their love is not real also.

 

[Marcozeee]

Wives demand money, so is their love not real?

Girlfriends demand money, so is their love not real?

Answer: No, their love is not real also.

Ursus needs to show pictures of that wife he always talks about. Let’s see her pussy KWguy/Ursus. We know you love cock so who cares. I bet she has nice puffy lips

 

[Pais007]

Been there done that. I was very close to sp worker we shared everything pictures of family or videos we would see each other outside of the spa for dinner or drinks truly enjoyed her company always thought she was amazing lady. Just one day she retried she blocked me on all media That’s life live and learn I hold no grudges to her she did what she had to do
I wish her and her family nothing but the best for them

 

[Leviathan]

Same old story line since prostitution began. Just different male characters who succumb to their own weaknesses and insecurities despite all the lessons written on sex forums by other hobbyist for last 10 years. Despite the early warnings, the inevitable always happens.

The learning? Some get burned once or multiple times or repeat the never ending cycle.

Men emotionally are really like children. And the gals take advantage of the “white knight mental model” like shooting fish in the barrel?

 

[Hangdai]

Been there done that. I was very close to sp worker we shared everything pictures of family or videos we would see each other outside of the spa for dinner or drinks truly enjoyed her company always thought she was amazing lady. Just one day she retried she blocked me on all media That’s life live and learn I hold no grudges to her she did what she had to do
I wish her and her family nothing but the best for them

So no heads up about leaving? That must of been brutal for you.