I'm actually used to silence during my massages, I don't like that "relaxation" noise or any music either. But I do like for us to be comfortable enough with each other that if I ask for something with which she's not comfortable, she can be as diplomatic as I am when she does something that hurts it is uncomfortable.
Usually it requires several sessions to become comfortable but unfortunately if the first experience is terrible, there is no second one.
It was my pleasure speaking with you, I'll try to contact the clinic for you tomorrow afternoon and somehow ascertain if they have an attractive masseur for you, without looking like I'm a homo.
Goodnight xoyf