Nude Reverse And Touching

[awesome!]

I think most would agree that MPA-ing isn't easy money.
However, can you clarify specifically what you mean by your statement

 

[. Cute Poison .]

To answer your question: "if you are not interested in repeat business, why be in the business at all?"

allow me to respond with another of your statements "

"Agree... sure it's possible that this is not what some guys are looking for, but at the very least there's an awful lot who are."

As clients, we need to understand that the ladies have comfort levels which we need to respect. Just because a gentleman has seen a lady X number of times, doesn't mean that a lady is required to exceed her predetermined comfort levels, on visit X plus 1.

Gentlemen select ladies for a myriad of reasons. And, some may repeat, or not, based upon myriad factors as pointed out in this perspective

 

[HI everybody]

As said before depends on the MPA but usually will get signals without having to ask. When in doubt asking politely and being respectful will usually go a long way. Oh and good personal hygiene helps too by the way.

 

[Carrie M]

Dammit. You just brought back a nasty memory. I walked into the shower room at Lexa once immediately after another guy had just finished. The smell was enough to make me wretch. I could only hope that the stench was left over from his pre-shower grime and he was all nice and fresh for his attendant.

Now, I feel really bad for whoever saw him that day.....

 

[Maybelline]

I get what you're saying, but my point is that "no" often doesn't mean never.

If the MPA doesn't know you, odds are that her default answer will be "no". She doesn't know if you're a greeby perv, sporting a full-on crotch jungle or smell like ass. So, from her perspective, better to manage expectations than promise something she may not deliver.

DFK is a good example.

Be nice, clean and easy going. The girls like to have fun, too.

 

[mcj0423]

well mileage varies from day to day. your fave might not give you the same mileage as she did the day before. So I come in not only to have a good time but to give a good time as well. I always ask to give the "massage" first and get one later. That way she gets comfy on who I am and what I want. You'd be surprise at the mileage you get...$0.02.

 

[Charles]

Oh just touch her like shes your girl. Try to make her feel good of course if she stops u you must only be getting the basic massage. If thats not the case then u need to find a new MPA

 

[poo.]

Oh, my. Really? Are some people *that* against what should be seen as a common courtesy?! WTF is wrong with these people??!

Of course, the definitive solution is obvious: showering *with* your attendant. Need bigger shower stalls, though (or risk an "unintentional" penetration, LOL)

 

[dan90]

The logic of No.3 is compelling, but where did you get the ruling that DATY is ok? Or the idea that logic and sex-laws have anything to do with each other.

Try this version: from time to time an MPA and a customer get on so well together that an oral encounter might take place. Management, the authorities and the need for protective appliances all work against the customers receiving, and that is where the greatest desire pressure comes from. Not so much if she's of a liberal-mind, and gets caught up in the moment.

But I cannot imagine a Crown who cared having any real difficulty establishing that a customer base devoted to such dining spots would qualify the spa as a bawdyhouse. Just that no one's done it yet.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Lol. Ok u go 1st & shower with a guy against showering or that smells as bad as TP mentioned. Hehe. I'm teasing. But that could be an icky solution.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Not a legal ruling. I should have been more clear.

My question is that BJs and sex are understood to be no-go because they are "illegal". But DATY is available and tacitly (sometimes explicitly) condoned by MP management.

 

[pomi]

I mean, sex.

 

[~*T!NK*~]

Acutally, no, it doesn't.

 

[higs4477]

A shower with a guy? No thanks, period. Kill me first

But seriously.. I do think some spas offer this.. and what guy would refuse a slippery wet fun shower with their attendant? That has possibilities.. (Then again.. what guy would refuse to take a shower??!)

 

[Sean :)]

I don't think that DATY is to be expected when visiting an MP, it is definitely ymmv depending on the girl. I think that assuming daty is available with all mpa's will put the ones that don't provide it in an awkward position. Things such as LFK/DFK digits and daty are all things that are ymmv and not to be expected.

 

[Noe H]

Ditto, I think too many girls get into massage, thinking its easy money, sure when they are a new they get some easy money as regulars of the place check them out, and heros TOFTT, but that game wears thin fast. And its a lot harder to win back customers once they've had a session with lots of restrictions, thrown at them, from a previous session. I think spas should be honest about what the popular girls do ... and from the ones I know, looks and hot body only carry you so far ... hot sessions, fun attitude, and deep desire that your customers leave with a smile of their face is more important than pefect looks, tans, or bolt ons. Can't fake good service.

 

[Amanda & Jess S]

I have never put condoms on my fingers to perform DATY. You learn something every day.

 

[isabella]

Any suggestions on who might be open to it?

 

[Ice_Nova]

I totally agree. It is not expected and never insisted. But, in over 8 years and more nakedness than I can remember, I can count on one hand the number of times I've wanted to go down the garden path and hit a wall. There have been more times that I stopped myself because of, uh, freshness issues with the girl than her stopping me.

I don't think there's any reason to feel awkward about not providing a service. It's entirely the lady's choice. Her body, her rules.

 

[Tatiana Alveal [Peace.]]

Bill Clinton sex, or sex sex?