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Now, my two cents worth.
Thai Culture 101
If Thais like each other they share what they have. If they see something on sale, a bargain, they buy for their friends, food, clothes whatever, because they know that their friend has a NEED and they are in a position to help fill that need. Naturally they expect their friends to do the same for them. In the west we call it returning a favour. Thais call it
Kreng-jai
Now, lets say a Thai girl does really like you. BG or not, doesnโt matter, just that she is Thai. What need do you have that she knows she can help fill? You don't know?
h: Well she does so she sleeps with you. You have a need, she has a cure, she likes you, it would be impolite by Thai standards for her to not share something she has that you need.
Deal done and its morning. She likes you and she has expressed this fondnessโ to you by filling your need.
Now what need does she have that you can fill? How do you show that you like her to? :erf:
Money, you idiot - you have more than her - if you like her - then you give her some money. It is not rocket science guys, it is the harsh practical reality of where you are, and it ainโt Kansas anymore.
Sigh...but as Nelsonone points out - some guys just never get it (or they don't want to). Enjoy.