paying bargirls??

[Nemka J]

5555 well said, no you don't jing jing.

 

[twee_grrrl]

It has been made clear to me that the girl from tiger (girl 2) went with me simply because she wanted too and actually did not expect to get paid for it. I was thrown off by her less-than-pleasant greeting that night at tiger but she WAS working. She can't exactly start paying attention to me and have a paying customer leave because of it. I have since seen her and everything is fine.

I have an update tho. I stayed with girl 3 again last night. No money and no request for money, once again. Before we even did anything I made it clear that I do not pay for sex, and she decided to do it anyways.

I have to admit tho, I feel like I'm playing with fire. As someone mentioned within the thread, when a thai girl has sex with you for free, she may feel like she has something more with you and will flip out of she sees you with another girl. It's getting to the point where I have to be really cautious about walking on Bangla. with girls. Luckily, they all seem to have different after-work routines (different resteraunts, different discos) .. but I think it's just a matter of time before they run into each other.

And as I had previously mentioned, I hang out on Bangla because I live right next to Bangla! I stop in, have a drink, talk to the girls, buy them a ladydrink. I came to this country by myself and they're nice, warm, interesting people - for the most part. Some girls in the bars don't even go with guys, they simply earn their salary and make money from the drinks. Having a drink with them and paying them for sex are two different things.

This is usually how it works when I go out ..
I see a girl I like, make eye-contact .. walk away .. from then on, everytime you walk by, they notice you .. stare etc ..
I might go back two days later, sit down and have a beer .. the girl will come talk to me and I'll buy her a drink .. simply talking .. I make no advances .. I treat them well .. be-friend them basically (if i like them of course) ..
I'll leave .. walk by the next night .. stop in to say hello .. Leave ..
After a few nights of casual talking, the girl actually does start to like you and thus, ends up going for free.

Make whatever comments you want but it has now been made very clear to me that none of the girls I went with expected any financial compensation in return - case closed.

 

[desperatehw]

with a cherry

 

[GopBLissIgnorance]

You are not really serious with this comparison??

 

[Alayna]

Fair comment, Paul. If this had been one girl, understandable. It was multiple. Further OP from the beginning was aware that this is not the norm:

Personally I have been in situations where I have put the money in a place that it was not obvious that it was hers and also in situations where she was leaving before I could present the compensatory funds. Either way the girl was fully prepared to leave without compensation, and in all cases a sigh of relief that compensation was there for her.

99% of the time I don't think your looks or age matters when you pick up a girl in a bar where the girls are there to meet customers. In other case you may certainly be right that you an I do not stand a chance, where as some do.

In this case I am convinced that payment is due. In the off chance that you are right Chris will simply be met with a blank stare when he offers the girls due compensation.

 

[JBallaa]

Oh ya, I knew for sure .. :
I was actually disgusted with myself.
You on the other hand, you're obviously proud of your love for the ****. Why else would you display that ladyboy photo so proudly.

 

[Bren]

Paul, forgot to include this quote.

 

[thegubmint]

It is not unusual to girls to entertain the same guy for days or weeks and get paid at the end. As Dodger mentioned this is their livelihood and by you not paying you are depriving them of that, As I said before, backtrack and make good.

 

[Stanchez]

hey, i think you hit the nail on the head, some guys just dont want to know, and worse, degrade and insult their hosts at the same time, last time i looked we were all human beings and deserve to be treated with respect and dignity, just my 2 cents worth,

suttoh

 

[Farhadalishah]

I've once seen a documentary many years ago, so I don't know the exact details anymore....

....but it was about a guy who fell in love with a girl in Thailand, married her and only after their marriage she confessed that she's been a man before.

After the initial shock, he just said that he doesn't care. He didn't notice it and is very much in love with the person he met and married.

They then opened a Katoey bar (can't remember where) and lived happily after...:love3:

 

[wiemercats]

hint... is this a serious thread ??

H3X

 

[Leanatan]

I dont remember ever paying a BG for sex. Maybe it's because my wife pays them. problem is she doesn't negotiate up front she pays pay on their performance. so some walk away happier than others. But the ones with the smiles always come back. lol.

 

[DAVIDB]

lol how true, and thanks for the words fellas. best time of my entire life. hopefully more to come in april!

 

[Iliana G]

Its not often i agree with something you say, but this i agree 100%...

 

[Meghan]

LOL...

Queue music from the crying game.. And order in a huge bottle of listerine !!

 

[HK OS]

Up to you Chris but for me, I'd go and find her and make a present of a couple of thousand baht. You will get a buzz, she will give you the biggest LOS smile and she can chip in with the girls for the rent, eat, treat herself to small girly goodies, get some 'face' with her friends and basically live. She isn't a Bar girl just for the Kudos.

Up to you my friend and you know you can afford it. Go back to Canada with a smile on your face instead of thinking "Should I have..........?"

Be good.

 

[Dennisse]

I really doubt that you have been to the Thai discos out of the P4P scene if you really think this to be true...

Your in a P4P area.. These girls are making the assumption that you will pay them, many do not ask for it directly. That doesnt mean that its not expected to pay sometimes.

Get rid of your western hangups and understand what they are doing in the bars.

 

[Vodka Drunkenski]

What a load of b*llocks!! If he's for real he must be one of the dumbest people ever posting here.

 

[Rachel]

First Richie88 starts a thread about avoiding bar fines ([thread=22503]Avoiding Bar Fines[/thread]) ... later he was banned.

Here comes Chris88 with a thread about avoiding paying the girls.

Same troll me think ...

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More So-cal (LB Report) than Richie 88? :erf:

 

[hockeybeast88]

Hi there,

Well, that's a nice story!!!! Any of the girls asked to be paid, came for more, any bar fine paid.... Anybody following you at night time?
Well, in the future make sure you set a kind of deal with them.... Paying or not is not really the issue here. Most important is DO NOT MAKE THE GIRLS LOOSE FACE!!!! AND TAKE CARE OF THEM!!!!! That means a bit more than a 30 baht dish......
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