Serious Privacy Issue: All SP's, Please Read

[fire f]

i too have a had some runs ins with girls as of late. however i have been fortunate enough to respect thier privacy and they have mine. it is akward for sure when your with friends and your introduced at parties or the club to girls you have been with. but these ladies have been very mature about it and acted like we never met or well you know. so you cant put them all in to the same category. personally i think the sp in question should be identified to all of us, cause discretion is of utmost importance. no one needs to know what we do in our spare time. we go thier cause were lonely or just plain horny and the ladies are thier to better thier lives through thier earning potential. Us and the sp's we both make choices to do this and need to stick together to keep our private lives, how can i saw PRIVATE. thank you to the girls who i have ran into for being respectful of my privacy i shall continue to respect thiers even though sometimes im tempted to say hi to a sexy lady or talk to them

 

[BJ Freeman]

WOW!
That is unbelievable ... Fuck I am so glad that I only associate with professionals for whom conducting themselves as professionals is a source of pride and importance.

 

[Atomic Rice Eater ?]

WOW, 7 in 5 months! You sure do have a rough pooning life don't you

In over 20 years I have run into 3 sp's out and about, and neither of us approached the other

After the great Fredielikesit dramafest, ALL sp's should have known better, but here you have 7 and in 5 months

Only logical/believeable way for this to happen is if you happen to be following them...

Sorry, I am calling bullshit, just like your comments about all the asian mp's/mirco's was bullshit, not likely

Just gotta keep your name up there, and play the victim, ANYTHING for the attention your parents denied you eh?

Drama, thy name is Fiddy/Fiddy

 

[$$$]

Wow,no one should have to go through all that.
Kudos to the manner in which you have handled it.
Great post as a reminder that everyone has a private life and discretion should be respected between people.

 

[betdwg1]

is it just me, or does anyone else think some names should be mentioned?

If these girls are stunned enough to break the rules of discretion....it should be public info so we know to stay away.

 

[froglady]

i have since taken break from the hobby because i went to the same clubs and saw different girls and they are now popping up in my outside life. my friend and my old roommate even found legends in my search history of my computer and busted me. i work construction and saw a friends car thier when i pulled up it is definately akward to say the least i feel your pain. its good to have a place like this to talk about stuff with people who can relate

 

[Hawk M]

I see where you had the problem. I think screening ladies is a very important for a pooner to do. It's very rare for me to see a lady under 30....


Dex

 

[XEricac702X]

I was going to let it go until the 2 most recent incidents this month. I wish there would be a greater focus on quality and not just quantity.

90% of the ladies I see at MP's are fine. Sadly it is the 10% that are causing all the issues for us. We have 20-25 great studios in Edmonton.

There is just too many MP's in this town and not enough professional ladies to working at them. The end result is a lot of amateurs that don't belong in the industry are being hired to fill the void.

Rather than building new studios every 3 days, we need MP owners to work on quality of some of the existing ones.

 

[Xcbvc]

++++++1

 

[Aero]

+2

judging by his posts in the micro thread fiddy likes to make up stories and post them on the internet.

 

[askMeSomething]

What about a SP who tells about another pooner, give his real name, place of work, his phone number, and where is he is from. She was pissed off with him .

Another person phoned my work.

 

[Morgan]

So why would you give your real name, place of work etc to an SP? I think that if either party doesn't know too much about the other then it is really easy to separate your pooning life from your other life, this goes for both parties in the transaction.

 

[Igggy]

She gave me someone else when she was pissed off with him.

Had another who knew me outside of the hobby accidentally used my real name and get together. We both did not know each were in the hobby and we were shocked when we seen each other. It was not meant to be vicious.

 

[alcor69_69]

Other things, I never carry my wallet in, only cash. I had a SP go through my wallet once when I was taking a shower.(that was 20 years ago in Edmonton)

Make sure that you do not wear clothes with your company logos or sports clubs or other affiliations.

 

[k0kizzle]

(In reference to previous comments made by JMMK00, Mikey's here and Bulworth)

On a side Note: I don’t see myself as a victim, I made decisions from 2008-2009 that greatly contributed to this problem.

I let the hobby play too big of a role in my life. Between Nov 2008-Jan 2010 I had sessions with over 150 different SP’s. Too many SP’s know what I look like and I have become overexposed.

The end result of all these TOFT missions is I became easily recognizable and this has played huge role in the issues I have had over the past couple of months.

The goal of the OP was to solve a problem. Not to create drama. I have spoken with these ladies in private and I have agreed not to post any names. I have no intention of breaking that promise. We don't post PM's on this board for a reason. I have the same rule regarding discussions I have in private.

Posting names would cause drama. This goal of the OP was to seek a postive resolution. Some of the ladies already exposed personal information about themselves. I don't think they need anyone making things worse than what they already are.

My past desires to nail half the SP’s in Edmonton has come back to bite me in the ass. When you see that many SP’s and you live in the same city, we are going to run into each other.

The OP is an afterthought. I have already spoken and resolved these issues with as many of the ladies as possible. I have cut down on the number of sessions I have every month. I only plan to see a new lady every four months. I don’t plan to add any more studios to my line-up.

Monthly TOFT mission are a thing of the past. Nothing good has come from constantly trying to find the next Gem.

It’s is even worse when I have been in the hobby for 9 years and I already know a ton of amazing ladies that make me happy.

None of my favorite studios are the source of this issue. Most my problems came from TOFT missions at new studios.

The purpose of the original post was to make sure the studios were aware of this issue. I also wanted to get this off my back so I could move forward in a completely different direction in the hobby and in my personal life.

My goal is to move forward, have fun and enjoy myself. I came to massageplanet looking for a fresh start and I came here to have fun. (It’s what the F stands for)

I sincerely want to move forward. I have zero desire to waste hours of my life fighting with people who have forgotten what the F in massageplanet stands for.

One year ago, the Hobby and my personal life started to become one and the same. It has been the source of drama and unnecessary pain and misery for me in this hobby.

One year later, I sincerely regret those decisions and I determined to have fun and let go of the past. I would hope that other hobbyist will learn from the mistakes I have made over the years.

Finally, I am too busy working on the present to argue endlessly with people that seem hopelessly stuck in the past.

 

[The Chokey]

Holy...in a span of 14 months...you averaged 2.5 SPs a week. That's a lot of action...not to mention dough. On the low end..that's like 30K.

Is this typical for some guys? Sorry if I'm steering this thread in another direction.

 

[ed031639]

I went to a swingers club Saturday for a halloween party and this fellow looked familiar to me. We are all chatting, fondling a lil and he says ' you look familiar to me', then we got side tracked by grabbin titties. After when our group of ppl mingled again and people were goin out to smoke, he quietly comes up and says 'you're so familiar......oh, I've visited you'...sssshhh between us kinda thing. That didn't bother me, we were in a swingers club for good sakes, I liked the approach though, no awkwardness.

Some clients say to me 'if you seen me in public would you pretend you didnt know me?' well of course. No way, no how should an sp approach a client on the street!

 

[Dale]

There are RULES.

An SP is an SP, not a GF. One of the basic rules is about engagement. I see her, she sees me, we are in private, just our business, and we engage...

If we encounter each other publicly, there may be a private smile that we share, but there is no engagement. No approach, no solicitation, no contact. We are in a different world. We do not know each other.

That's the only way it can be.

I have a wife. I don't have a mistress, or a sugar baby, or anything of the sort. I sometimes see SPs, and I pay them well, and part of what I pay for is detachment. We are not attached. There are no expectations to meet again when the session ends, and that's as it should be. Expectations = relationship, and that's not in the contract.

There IS a contract. We meet for transactional sex. When the session is over, it is over, and there is no crossover. For someone to approach another in public and stick a pin in them, like a butterfly, is a breach of that contract. Privacy and discretion are part of the deal, and must be respected.

The women who have approached you are out of line. They do not understand the terms of the contract, or do not respect them, and they threaten your life with their indiscretion. They need a slap up the side of the head with a cold fish. An old cold fish, for being so stupid and disrespectful.

It works both ways. Fiddy here has had his life put in jeopardy by a whore who wanted to solicit more business in front of his friends. The ladies fear encountering someone just as indiscreet when they are out in public with friends or family. I know one lady who was outed in public, in front of her parents, by just such an encounter. A life-changing moment for her, and her M & P. They worked it out, but is was wrong, and should not have happened as it did.

Respect each other. Respect that each party has a life that can be wrecked by indiscretion. Do not be indiscreet.

RULE. Thou shalt not acknowledge each other in public.

KS

 

[Gold Hat]

It's best to refer to them as either SPs, Escorts or Ladies. Especially in a Review Forum.

Your choice of course.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Very well said..

Except for one thing (maybe I'm interpretting it wrong..)

But, you state very bluntly (almost as if to make a point of it) that you aren't a construction worker.. And in the adjoining sentences, it comes off to me, as you're saying construction workers are almost low..

I work in construction, and take that a little offensively.. (If that's not how it was intended, then no harm no foul)