Serious Privacy Issue: All SP's, Please Read

[smifty]

I apologize for the confusion over that statement. I was pretty upset when I wrote the OP and I never gave much thought to that statement.

Blue collar work is how I paid for my Education. I worked at a warehouse job when I first started going to the MP's back in 2001.

I was actually making fun the office environment I work in. I had a female colleage file a complaint agsinst me for a joke that was not even offensive in nature.

She asked me If I was going to the Christams party last year. I responded, "Are there going to be any pretty girls there?".

I was in the HR office the next week because she filed a complaint. The complaint was tossed.

I never faced these kinds of issues working in a blue collar job. i always felt more free to speak my mind.

There are too many people within my office environment that have a huge stick up their ass.

 

[Pompal 09.]

No disagreement. I chose the word deliberately. An escort, or SP, or Lady, your term of choice... those people respect the Rules, respect boundaries. This woman obviously did not.

So you tell me. Do I insult her by calling her a whore, or do I insult the good ladies who have respect by calling them all SPs?

You make a good point. It's not a word to use casually. In this case there was no respect, no professionalism, and I will tag her with that label because she earned it. I show as much respect as she did.

KS

 

[Boomer Wisdom]

Welcome to the working world. The only solution is to become self-employed.

KS

 

[kimmie2005hhs]

ARE you serious?? really??...are you comparing being "johnny office" surrounded by women in the workplace.....to average joe construction guy in his workplace ???? please...there is no comparison at all...and for you to take offense to that??? please

I am a a construction worker and have been for 20 years...GUYS that work in my field , married or not have a more relaxed workplace than people that work in an office. It's a simple comparison that should be obvious

 

[Angry:(]

While your intentions were well intentioned the execution was a bit poor but hey such is life right?

However, something just needs to be asked. You stated that the troublesome gals were TOFTT missions which you saw only once. In addition most if not all (I'm going by memory haven't re-read all the posts) are no longer in the biz. Yet in this last post you stated you contacted each of the offenders recently to clear up things. How did you manage to contact them if they were no longer at the studios you met them at?

 

[Spooky1]

1 is semi- retired and only seeing regulars for incall (seen her 10 times)
1 is still working at a studio in Edmonton (seen her 2 times)
4 I have no clue, I don't see them working at Edmonton MP's but that does not mean they won't show up again or they could have decided to work in other cities.
I believe one (not 100% sure) is working for a high price escort agency in Calgary, The pic looks on the web looks a lot like her and the age is right, Most of us don't see high price escorts.

 

[KAP]

I leaving on an important business trip and I have about two weeks of paper work and meeting to get done in one week. I cannot afford to spend anymore time on this.

I wrote the OP back in late August. I avoided posting it because I thought the issue would not come up again and that I had handled it privately.

Honestly, I was afraid to post this thread because of the 80 pages of drama that happened in 3 other threads on the boards recently. I wanted to take the time to come-up with a solution rather than posting a problem. This OP grew mold sitting on a USB thumb-drive for 2 months. I posted an edited version after what happened last month. Up until a week ago, I had decided not to post this at all.

I also did not want to get involved with people that seem to pick things apart endlessly looking for any flaw they can use to create drama. (The hallmark of most any review board)

I just about laughed my head off at how similar a review blog for Kitchen Aid Appliances is to the review boards. Some folks take their coffee pots and toasters way too seriously. And when it came to the mixers…holly shit…talk about drama.

I felt I had no choice based on the two situations that happened in October. It seemed like some people in the industry have not learned anything from what has already transgressed.

I have my own personal agenda for myself. Have fun and be happy. Spending any more time on this thread is in direct conflict with that mission statement.

Plus, it is not healthy to dwell on things. Dwelling is a one way ticket to Hell.

I want to move on. I want to let this go and put this behind me.

If anything we should have learned from this is that are personal lives are more important than the hobby or the industry depending on what side of the issue you’re on.

My Uncle always told me in deep voice, "If you wan to listen, how come your lips are still moving. The only thing that should be flapping is your ears!" LOL

Since I still have one more provider to speak with about this issue, I would greatly appreciate hearing more stories about other people's experiences.

Thanks,

- Fiddy

 

[Jason D]

count your blessings
at least you're not famous
otherwise you may have been front page news