Spa vs Indy
I am the first guy to say "To each, his own". So apologies in advance if it looks like I am stirring that pot. Actually, I am not. I am just putting out my experience, and hope it is useful to people with tastes like mine - young, slim, clean, no odours, open minded, good massage skills beerophile etc.
Long long back, when I started out, I was not sure what I preferred, and I tried indies, SPs and spa. I found SPs to be mostly crooked. Too much bait n switch, time wasting. I often found indies to be scammers. I met one or two good ones, thanks to friends. However, they were mostly older, and had too much mileage on the odo. Then there is the aspect of looks. Almost every pic I see here is not to my liking. Female kader Khans, fat cows, bai's. Not exactly my cuppa. I am sure there are people who like these gals too. However, they leave me repulsed.
I settled on to my sweet spot, NE and Thai gals in spas. Maybe it took a little longer, but man, did it pay off in the long run! I have been lucky enough to enjoy prime quality fillies at very vfm prices. There was a time when there was too much LE action on Thais. Now the ones that still come are usually older. However the supply of NE is very good.
Are there cons? Sure, there are. You have lower success rate. You will often meet proud sanctimonious chicas who will tell you off. It takes longer. They are usually not into bj, daty ( I don't mind this part). However, they enjoy a good f, and can be wild, especially when fortified with beer. The clincher - you can find quite a few of them who are non- professional, so you are probably the only guy plugging her. Or maybe there is a bf sometimes. The icing on the cake - you get passed around to her friends. No jealousy.
These gals are usually paranoid about anybody else knowing what they do, so difficult to share with bros.
However, general gyan can be shared. There was this bro kamasutra69 who recently posted tips on isg about being clean, smelling good, being friendly and humane. All of that is true. Strike friendships, drink chilled fermented malts, keep being sweet. Ride of a lifetime.
This long and overly-lucid post happened after a great experience in a * place, my regular haunt. We imbibed, we played, we sealed the deal. Man, I am feeling it!