101 Spa Finder
i have received so many messages that betray a lack of skill or effort, people want to receive everything on a platter. So i thought i should write a general post. Hope this helps some people get more out of their spa quest, and more from this forum. No malice towards anyone, just sharing what i learned. Others are welcome to add to this.
so here goes:
1. Get familiar with names of localities and spas. Then the clues will click. Use google, maps, JD, littleapp, nearbuy etc. You will get both localities and spa names. See ratings on JD. Always helps to find the important places.
2. Put in max effort, ask for help only after you have tried. Many of us want to help, but we also have limitations, i personally get irritated by people who dont lift a finger. E.g. If you guessed spa name, and found number online, and someone had an FR on Ms. A, a Thai, then dont ask for pm with her full name. Not unless you called the spa, asked for appointment with a Thai and asked who all are available, and found there are two or three Thais named Ms A.
3. Don't ask for minute details of a gal. Go there and find out. Ymmv. Tastes vary. Most of us dont like sharing details except with good friends.
4. Don't ask very vague and open ended questions. ( e.g. i am in mumbai today, what should i do?)Do you research and ask specific questions. E.g i am in Gurgaon today and read a lot about GLS. Could you please tell me which Ms. A was mentioned in your FR?)Nobody else knows what you want. And no, this does not contradict no. 3. Another thing, carpet bombing -don't send a PM to fifty people. send only to relevant individual. E.g. I receive So many queries for indies, while anyone who has read my posts would know i am a 100% into spas. So do homework.
5. Finding things by yourself is half the fun, so don't be in a hurry. Enjoy the chase. It gets better as you go along and gain knowledge and skill.
6. Play it cool, calm and confident. This does not mean aggressive and pushy. Force never works. A good bedside manner will help you crack stuff even on first visit.
7. Practice observation, you will spot a sure thing very easily if you know the signs.
8. Be friendly, exchange phone numbers, message and talk regularly. Once you are pals with a few, the entire circle of the gal's friends opens up to you.
All of the above are based on personal experience.
hope this helps some of you.
Ciao
Amp