Speed of the strokes

[Teddy Bear]

Does ANYONE like the type of massage where the lady tries to make up for her lack of skill by just doing everything in super fast motion? I am not talking about short-changing you on the total time spent massaging. It's the speed of the individual movements. Ihave tended to experience this more with older russians. Instead of a particular rub taking, say, 1 second, she will furiously do 3 or 4 in the same time period. It's all very hyper and completely non-sensual.

 

[justmeinthisworld]

You know the old expression - Different strokes for different folks.
This is probably the most appropriate expression of all for this hobby.

 

[amberaewmu]

47 strokes per minute is perfect

 

[Hooch Monster (suspended)]

LMAO
Did it take alot of research to come up with that conclusion?

 

[summer is almost over]

I hear ya' Burt! My worst experiences have been with ladies that give a massage like they're washing a car. Even when I try to gently point it out to them that I'd prefer slower, more sensuous strokes, they don't seem able to adapt to my request. I seriously wonder whether they get much repeat business. Here's a review I wrote from several years ago that describes the epitome of lousy technique and service:
http://www.massageplanet.net.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?95225-Toronto-Star-Ad-East-Indian-in-Brampton&highlight=brampton

 

[Strawberry Milk]

I've told several to just slow down and it seems to work. I think that they think that if they stroke fast you'll be done faster. A couple of times I've explained that it actually doesn't work that way, at least for me. The best girls know this already, it's all about play and speed variation. The jackhammer approach just makes me go numb after a little while, therefore it usually takes longer. MP girls take not.

 

[LasNoches]

slow n steady wins the race after all what guy wants to feel like a cow hooked up to a milking machine

 

[Pompal 09.]

Great topic, Burt. Sometimes, with my favourite MPs, such as Alice on Mt. Pleasant, I actually ask them to go slow, but then, to really slow down as the time of reckoning approaches. This draws out the fun part as long as possible and you can feel the pressure building and building. Out of this world!

 

[JessicaM]

if all this strokes are focused on one part...i doubt if i'll make it past 1 minute...

 

[1ofdbest]

With regard to touch I think slow is better. At one of the MPs I used to visit in Markham - some little place on Riviera (now closed) prior to the flip the mpa would move her finger tips agonizingly slowly between your legs so that every nerve ending was celebrating. On the flip she would delicately trace her fingers along your inner thighs and organ but wouldn't actually stroke until you began to orgasm. She was quite the artist. I can't remember if she was Polish or Russian but she had skills.

 

[Jo Momma]

I hear ya beaver, exactly the sory of 'activity' that some think is a massage. Note to the others - I am not talking about the release, although more often than not crappy massage = crappy release too, althought there have been some exceptions.

 

[Beaa.]

Exceptions are few and far between, IMO.

Jackhammering is not about making up for a lack of skill. It is the lack of skill. In these situations, I'd rather do the job myself.

 

[Gilbert]

Actually that sounds kind of fun. But not as a regular, every-day type thing.

 

[Mommy of 5]

When I recently received the jackhammer from an attendant, I tried to show her how it would feel if the roles were reversed. She still didn't clue in, but I think if you explain to some of them, using their anatomy as an example, they may understand better.

 

[John de Witt]

That sounds amazing. Anyone out there who does this now?