Who Is Washed Up As An Mpa?

[shamar_online]

It just takes a little thought especially if the guy is respectful and doing what the mpa has always allowed and encouraged. Even before the mpa gets to that stage of the session, she should speak openly and honestly but tactfully about her rule changes. A respectful guy would understand and not push those limits. Although he may be disappointed, which is natural, he would abide by her new rules.
But turning the session into tense moments such as turning away or pulling away from the regular just before he is about to do things that he used to be encouraged to do, absolutely puts him down so much so that he feels like an idiot. He is left dumbfounded and lost at what to do next. At this point, he just wants to get it over with so he can escape the tension and the rejection. Upon leaving, all he can think of is, I just paid big bucks and thousands of dollars to the mpa in the past just to get DUMPED this way...What did I do?

 

[MarMar]

HEY GUYS,

GIVE ME A LIST, ON WHOM YOU THINK ARE WASHED UP AS AN MPA!!!

 

[Claire Dare]

After hours? Can I bring my camera? Will all the girls be there? Will you make sure Rusty stays home that night instead of curling up at the doorstep?

 

[Arron O]

Hopefully they regularly get "washed up" so that they're not coated with the previous client's fluids...

Seriously, this seems a pretty useless question. It amounts to Who sucks? (and not in a good way! ). I'd rather hear reports of who's a gem than "Who sucks?"

 

[Kip Dynamite]

Originally posted by Taber

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Mr T, I am sure you can figure it out.

by 2sexxxy
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It is a HUMBLing experience to witness such creative way of answering a question.

 

[classy lady]

I thought this thread was about MPA's that showered on a regular basis.

 

[errant Terran ranter]

Definitely Jenna @ IT.

Her mileage used to be much better but now it seems that she has a S.O. or something else is going on. Just not as seductive and sexy of a session these days...

 

[bindao63108]

Can the mods please delete this list gathering thead.

 

[AHM]

I thought this is the nature of the business. Why blame the consumers?

 

[4REEE]

Unfortunately sometimes Yes.

On a few occassions I've seen attendants after a bad session with an unrespectful guy and my session was below regular standards. I'm talking regulars who know me and will open up a bit. I've heard stories of guys coming in drunk late at night and are grabby, smelly, disrepectful, etc. In order to have a good session you have to give the lady something to work with. The best attendants can shake it off and be professional but everyone is human and even they have a bad session every now and then.

A little respect and understanding goes a long way in followup sessions..

 

[caseyyyy :D]

The IT Honey Bee is not washed up, she just changed her style. Much lke the way Arturo Gatti has become a much more conservative fighter who is alot more economical with his punches, under the tutelage of Buddy McGirt. Much like the way Honey Bee is now a more complete all around MPA, thanks to the guidance of Paul, Built Blond Guy, Built Black Haired Guy and the loving girls of IT.

 

[chipinternational14]

Good for you Rusty. She left HFH in order to continue to further improve herself. So she spent months at IT working on perfecting her style, ignoring other hobbyists' wishes to become otherwise, with only one goal in mind - that is to please you. I think she has succeeded. So she is now your exclusive MPA, confidant and whatever else you want her to be.

 

[Lady Luck]

As well thought out as Hornets analogy is, it leaves out one important factor and that is the fact that MPA's are human and the nature of the "profession" really cannot be compared to any other profession, in terms of psychological and physical involvement. ( I know Hornet is fully aware of these aspects though )

I'm a little reluctant to share this experience , but at the risk of sounding like a white knight, I will, because it portrays my perspective and is somewhat relevant to the path this thread has taken.

I had a session about a month ago with an MPA, I had not seen before. Upon my arrival she seemed skittish and nervous. She was very new to the business and I asked whether she liked working at that place. At that point, the session took a turn and she relayed the events of her previous session and the job in general. Essentially, I had gone there for a good time and was faced with an obviously traumatised girl who had bad experiences with previous clients. I'm not as honourable as Sheik, as I like my sessions highly "erotic", ( the massage is just a transition to get comfortable to me ), but this session was obviously not going to turn out that way, due to the scummy little bastard who had seen her previous to me. What did happen was that I met a very cool girl and could completely empathise with her. I'd be a little ruffled as well if guys were trying to stick their dicks in my orifices and grope me all day, against my wishes.

I'm not sure how others would react given the circumstances, but I'm sure some would be just as understanding, while others would not. If I'd been someone who wasn't empathetic, I would have ended up with a shitty session, most likely, and feeling ripped off. As it was, I turned it around and it was a pleasant experience once she appeared more comfortable, even though it wasn't highly erotic, by any means.

Granted she was new to the biz and may have since retired, which she indicated she would be, but that's just one example and reflects an aspect of my personal view on this whole thing in general.

I've never really had an experience where I've felt any real grudge toward an MPA. My primary focus is not on the business aspect, even although that's in essence what it is. We are people first. Maybe, I've just been lucky or maybe it's just my outlook.

My brain is shutting down, so I'll spare you my other thoughts ...

 

[Hayley S]

Can't resist jumping in........"are you not in love" - with these cryptic posts.

V12

 

[sgtslick321]

i Take it thAt this mpa is veRy populAr Here ?

gimme a Hint For Heaven's sake

 

[Wiseman]

Taber,

That last post by you just made my day. Heh. Thanks.

 

[High Roller]

A better name for this thread would have been "Who's service has changed for the worse?"

I believe there was a recent thread that addressed the perceived deterioration in the service of some MPAs when they acquired significant others. Such a shame!

 

[Bear]

Couple of very good points Hornet...
There is no need to trash anybody.

 

[Iloveyou]

It is not without sympathy that I read some of these posts, however, I question whether some of us are going too far here. An MPA/Client relationship should not extend beyond the session, when it does, both MPA and client risk their

 

[sweetiegrl04]

I agree - that is a much better way to phrase things... But clearly, Jenna/IT service has 'changed for the worse'; she use to be much more GFE - within MP limits of course!!! (wink wink)

Tarah is a great MPA to get the old Jenna 'experience' however!! but she of course is at Hands from Heaven in Woodbridge (better for me as HFH is closer to home!)...