Who Is Washed Up As An Mpa?

[theGR8shazam]

I certainly agree with this portion of your post, however the client is usually the one at risk. I do understand the draw of seeing someone, who makes you feel like a million bucks, exclusively but the risk of emotional involvement is high. I also think - flame away - that the responsibility for this lies primarily with the Client Not the MPA.

The problem IMHO is just like life outside the MP. Some unscrupulous people will take advantage of the vulnerable for their own gain. People like that (read MPA's) will not get the time of day from me. I can't speak from experience. Other than the occasional MP BS, no one has attempted to do this to me. I only know of the bad experiences of others from what is posted on this board.

There is an old expression that goes "There are usually three sides to every story - your side, my side and the truth".

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[twee_grrrl]

Are we all really talking about the same thing?

Some attack, some defend, and both are right.

To say that the ladies have the right to set limits goes without saying, and for them to change those limits at the drop of a dime is their prerogative; as it is yours never to go back. To say that there needs to be professionalism on the part of the ladies is also very valid; and there are many examples of professional MPAS. However, I think that there is a little more involved in the feelings expressed in this thread. Surely it is a competitive business and some ladies are more competitive than others; some like to generate more money; some like to get more attention, some like the drama, who knows??? ... but for this they are willing to do more than others even if that more is only a mind fuck or giving out phone numbers as bait. I say learn your lesson and move on people. Let newbies know in PM or whatever but beating a dead horse gets to be a pretty ugly sight.

Also the management at some of the finer establishments have standards that the girls have to adhere to, so maybe girls change to fit in to what is required of them as they move between establishments. Who knows

 

[Richard C]

Your beautiful summation is a distillation of many many thougtful posts. Not sure how to simply pass on these info to newbies by PM. Is someone writing a concise newbie manual? what should be in it? Who distributes it? Open discussions like this is the way to exchange thoughts and infos among hobbyists.

 

[chacoa]

Are you sure ?
When you left the board, you must really have left the board.

 

[Dreamer4ever]

The unnamed one is a cool name.

 

[Dusk]

Amen.

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[jomonjimmy]

I thought that Victoria @ SB/SC was unbelievable when I first met her last year.

I've seen her twice recently and found her kind of mechanical and jaded.

Just my opinion...but I was thinking this at the time and this thread, while a little distasteful, does offer the opportunity to voice this opinion and see if I'm the only one thinking this.....

 

[Travis]

Are we having fun yet?

All this feedback about this lady has really peaked my interest, and I think that I have finally clued in to who it is.

Based on the strong emotions about this mpa, she must really be something if she likes you. I think that it's time to make an appointment with the unnamed one...

I will post my review in the next week or so..

 

[BangkokBob]

The problem is, defining "good service" in the first place. We all have different needs and expectations. For example there was one MPA who both myself and another "hobbyist" thought to be GFE. After talking, it turned out we thought so, in part, for different reasons. Being the pervert that I am, I liked the the mileage and overt sexuality, while he had not even pursued these areas to the same degree. If her service had changed, I would have "perceived" her service to be not as compatible anymore, while he may not have. I'm sure that girls also react to how we, as individuals, treat them, over time. It is very subjective.

Another example would be the fact that I don't like a lot of trivial chatter and games, while some may like that part of the fantasy and are looking for something different out of the experience. Either way, if that changes it could be for better or worse, depending on the perspective of the client.

Defining which MPA's service has changed for the worst, is just as subjective as selecting an MPA that is good. Of course, there are those who have somewhat of a universal appeal or have the knack of adapting, though.

Another problem is when a popular MPA gives an outstanding level of performance and changes it, it doesn't necessarily mean her service is no longer good. It just means that she has changed, which is a normal progress of humans, and comparing her new approach is not entirely fair, given the fact she had previously set a superior president of standard.

Then there's the problem of "hype" ... If you haven't seen a particular MPA of legendary status, you really are going to have high expectations. If that MPA has changed her style in that time you may be up for a disappointment, due to previous hype. This doesn't entirely apply to this thread, but I think the point is of some significance. I think if you go into an MP session with reasonable expectations and go with the flow, you'll leave feeling the better for it.

I would think the nature of being in this business can take it's toll, physically and/ or mentally on even the best MPA's ( maybe even more so ). Many MPA's change their service due to personal reasons. Some come into it young; maybe a little naive, and full of zest, but then mature, learn and refine themselves into what they feel comfortable with. I don't think we should slag them for it, but understand it and if we don't like it move on or adapt.

I can't imagine feeling the need to berate a girl who has given me great services in the past. I find this thread to be totally pointless, but that's just my personal view.

 

[Sunshine lover 123]

. Agreed. Agreed.

 

[Jan Brady]

Can't help it but to ask - what was so unsafe before?

 

[Tim Cockhold]

Very thoughtful comments pool.
Perhaps I would put this situation in more of a bottom-line kind of context:

For massage, we are talking a bigbusiness in a big city - with a lot of "needy" clients. The one and only one way an MPA can become very popular (for however long) is what she offers fills the need. I know, it takes some talent, physical attributes (can be articifial), right environment, and some marketing. So when this same MPA decided to change her style of service, she knows damn well whether it is for the better or for the worse b/c she should know what most people are looking for (or still looking for) by now.

People return to the same MPA to fill their OWN needs - not to watch and admire what their "star" MPA decided to morph into. So, whether this same MPA still fills the need of the majority after the change, it will be entirely decided on by the market demand. People who missed her past style have the right to lament their loss.

Take a look at another recent thread on Jenna. Basically all who reported recent disappointment failed to mention anything she was changing into that is worth trying out.

Whatever the reason is for the change, the MPA makes the conscious decision and will bear the consequences.

 

[HEY LIBS]

This is all about the previous her.

Although your name is "slowandeasy", you speed read so fast that you missed a lot of things. This is the second time it shows.
Read the thread CAREFULLY again.

 

[Peng]

Are we still talking about The Honey Bee?

 

[Pam R]

There's always a chance of catching something from anyone just from being in the same room together...but has anyone caught anything from the "unnamed one" over the past few years? I don't think so. Changed mileage in this case is due to something other than safety reasons IMHO. Irregardless of lowering mileage considerably, my complaint was only on the way that it is presented to the regular client that the mpa has forged a trusting relationship with. Maybe there's no easy way of doing this, but at least make the effort.

 

[Brad]

Yep.Preettiii saaad topic.

 

[Hanna]

According to Paul, the high mileage from her HFH days are gone, history. It is her conscious choice. Whatever she's got remaining, is what you call "long live____".

Enjoy.

 

[Lucylu]

As Roadrunner put it, the MPA makes a conscious effort to change her "style" and services offered. Superstar MPA's know exactly why her regulars come back to them over and over again or else they would not be superstars (i.e. always booked up on any given day...some book up faster than others but in general, by the beginning of their shift, the MPA is booked up that day). At this point the MPA has full control of what extras she can offer to the client whether he is a regular or a new client. If he is a new client and she really likes him, she can offer him the "A" service and shows her affection to him. If she doesn't care if the new guy comes back or not, she can give her "basic" service.

Now as for her regulars, she knows what each one of them are used to from her. She knows that if she takes any of the extras that the regular is used to, he will be a little disappointed. She can either take these extras away slowly and in a subtle way as time goes by or she can take a number of them away all at once. If she does it in a subtle way but still puts in an effort to satisfy the regular in other ways and in a friendly manner, then the regulars will probably accept this and continue to see her. If however, she takes the extras away all at once and without much explanation, the regular cannot help but feel he is being "REJECTED". The MPA knows at this point, the regular will more than likely decide to:

A) Not see her as often and will be back to see if things improve;
B) Never return;
C) Continue to see if her they are that devoted to her;
D) Argue with her and end up having a tense session leading to something like a breakup in a relationship.

A) above could end up as B) if she repeats her performance. The MPA knows this. If this occurs, you know that she has no need for you or your money anymore. She has others to fill those needs....You have been "REJECTED". It's bad enough to be rejected in a real relationship, but to be rejected on a "professional" basis is pretty pathetic. You cannot help but feel like crap because she won't even accept you as a paying customer. You have no choice but to move on and search for anyone comparable or better...which is easier said than done. Some superstars at their peak cannot be matched especially if she really "liked" you for a period of time. Unfortunately, all good things come to an end...it's just a matter of time.

This post is not directed at Jenna but another superstar MPA. Although, I did not see Jenna in her "superstar-rated" days, I saw her once at IT a few months ago and did find her distant, like she really did not enjoy what she was doing...like "this is just another mundane job-like feeling". Bottom line is I did not feel compelled to repeat with her at all.

 

[Fearless]

But at least we can get some level of satisfaction of knowing that the unnamed one has become soft and pudgy...at least compared to her former hardbody self.

 

[Bell Bell]

You must be thinking of someone else because she still has a kickass body and overall she is still one of the hottest mpa's around. Just a complaint about her "special way" of saying goodbye to her regulars...