Wrong to cheat?? Says who?

[Summers J]

Who said its wrong to cheat? Bible? Mom? Society??

The most well off people in this world are the ones who cheated, stole or raped the public one way or another.


So since that is out of the way. I am dating a chic for over a year and I have cheated on her multiple times with a coworker fuck buddy of mine. Its not a regular thing, but once a month or so it does happen. Sometimes it doesnt happen for months.
But I never, not once felt bad about it. Its purely sexual thing for me and when I feel I want to get it done to shift some chemicals in my brain a little I do it. Sex is great with either one of them. But lately I do feel more at home with my girlfriend. I keep telling myself that it might be moraly wrong, even since the fuck buddy has a boyfriend she cares about.

I dont know what excites me more, the sex or actually getting away with it.

Whats ever more exciting is that I have NO remorse about it at all.

 

[Sutaato]

So what exactly is you point here? You're bragging about being a douche to your girlfriend. Go you!

There's no need to go to the Bible, Society, or Mom, to realise that if your gf finds out about your affair, she will be hurt and feel betrayed. Most humans understand that you try to avoid hurting those you care about.

Why don't you? :

 

[Aly]

I have too agree. Once the trust is broken that's all she wrote I'm afraid.

look at it this way, if the shoe were on the other foot how would you feel.

 

[Pompal 09.]

You should speak to Fuji... :shock:

He has some interesting views on this subject! :

 

[#$^!#^&!]

+1. You can't ever really fix that.

I hope your gf is out there screwing around too. Maybe then you would understand that lying and betrayal are hurtful. Why do you even pretend to be monogamous? :neutral:

 

[Curt J]

Doesn't matter...

The ONLY thing that matters is what your partner believes is cheating...

 

[Anastasia Marie]

It's a hooker board people, I am betting that majority of the members here cheat!

 

[Terrier (UK)]

: I was just about to say that. Did you guys and gals forget where we are right now?

 

[jakemonster4]

 

[steve c]

Fuji can not only teach you that its not cheating but that you have more class the more that you do it.

Its only cheating if you agreed to be mutually exclusive.
I've always told any girl I dated that eventually I'll have sex with someone other than her and I will feel no guilt.

Think thats why I don't have a girlfriend? Maybe.... LOL

Stay CLASSY my friends.

 

[mom of 2]

Some of us are single therefore are free to do and see whoever we want, others like CG et al are honest about their extra curricular activities and participate together.

No cheating or lying = No drama when the shit hits the fan

 

[Sad Blonde Knight]

I couldn't hurt the one I love that way, and if I did I wouldn't boast about it.

What's wrong with having a moral code to live by? Respect and honesty go beyond religion.

 

[Ultra-geek]

Well she loves me, but I dont love her. I care about her but my heart has no feelings at all. I am still frozen from my 9 year prior love relationship and couldn't care less about love and feeling and all that goofy teenage shit. I do treat her very well, buy her gifts and take her out to very nice places.
So as far as the relationship goes, it is very functional. But I just dont have any remorse flirting or hooking up with other girls.

I am wondering what this will evolve into as times goes by.

 

[prathikraj@ymail.com]

Does she think you love her, or have you been honest about how you don't feel?

 

[workinmama]

What do you think? I bet he lies through his teeth to her telling her everything she wants to here....the term douchebag was coined for guys just like this. Oh yeah, that and the term "sociopath".

So, since I believe in Karma, I have no doubt that one day we'll read in the paper how some guy woke up in a puddle of blood with his dick sauteing in the microwave.....

 

[aightman]

Yes she does know since day 1. I even told her I don't beleive in love. She says she is good with it.

 

[Pinkboots]

Read one post above Mr. Sigmund Freud

 

[robert m]

......and we're supposed to believe that a woman is stupid enough to fall for this crap?

 

[Alison-x0]

Believe whatever you want to believe. I couldn't care less what you believe.

 

[Cecilia]

Actually none of them do.
Or they think that they can change your mind.
I've had that bomb dropped on me often but curiously enough only one woman I ever dated had balls enough to state outright after being told "I am never getting married again or having children" "I am going to change your mind on that"