but how would you know what anyone real relationships are when it seems(admittedly) all you've done is throw money after one girl after another?
how is that even comparable to what most of us have been talking about?
i am not knocking you D, because you seem very happy with it and it is your money and your life but it is basically unlike what most people on here are talking about
and that brings me to a point. sure it is very good to have knowledge of the scene and keep your eyes and ears open but every girl and every guy is different
there is so many different scenario that it can't be presented as either "that's the way, live with it" or a bm thinking he knows 100% because he lived there and has experience
again, you have to know and beware of the dangers and pitfalls and cultural differences you are getting into but not every situation is the same equation
hey, she's a thai girl that is stupid, lazr, rather be with her friends and family and you should not do anything to try and show her a better alternative
well, i know, personally, that i went to great lenghts to show my wife a better alternative and the reason i did that is because i believed she was much smarter and much more capable than what she was involved in when i met her. does it make me trying to be a knight in shining armor. no, it makes me trying to help out a person i love and care for reach her potential and finding out by actually talking her if that is what she would want that. she is still the same quirky, adorable thai girl i met years ago, just has a better appreciate of things outside her village and outside her bar.