what i guess i am trying to say, and I don't mean this any confrontational way
what amkes you right more than Baz or Pinot or myself?
what makes my way more right than you and DK?
nothing does, you just have to do what you feel is good for you. doesn't mean you are doing it better than me or I am doing it better than you
there is obviously cases of just downright foolishness but it seems a lot of people on this forum just think they are the ones doing it right and the rest are idiots
i would have zero desire to do most things that you have done in your relationship G and that is not a knock on you because I am sure there is many things in my relationship that you would not be interested in or would have done
now i think i have done the right things for my relationship as i am sure feel the same way about yours, but that doesn't mean the next guy is doing it wrong because he's not doing it our way